Thanks for your thoughtful response Terrence!
It seems that you might have thought I wanted CIs to make inference. That was not the motivation. I like to report effect sizes that are intuitively accessible, which led me to standardized effects, and I like to report uncertainty, which led me to CIs.
I hadn't thought about the difference between pooled standardized estimate and the standardized pooled estimates. What I am using are pooled standardized estimates, which seems intuitively right to me, because I want the CIs to reflect the uncertainty of the parameter estimate and the uncertainty introduced by missing data/imputation.
The `FUN=` option is very useful, I hadn't seen that.
It is a good point that generalization of standardized coefficients beyond the sample is unclear if a new sample has different data (variances). Currently I still prefer to report/plot standardized effects, because I hope this helps moving the readers attention away from NHST.*
cheers, guido
If I had the time, I'd implement a Bayesian model.