I put up a .pdf of Plato's Symposium in the Google Documents folder for next week’s reading. It is a very good translation by Alexander Nehamas and Paul Woodruff.
The parts I am requiring you to read are:
(Use the Stephanus number on the sides)
(1) The first part which is a frame-narrative for the speeches told later in the dialogue. Sections 172a-178b.
(2) Aristophanes's speech. Sections 188e-194e
(3) Socrates's speech and
(4) Alcibiades's drunken interruption of the party. Sections198a - to the end of the dialogue.
Here are some of my thoughts on the Symposium:
“That,” he said, “is my speech about Love, Eryximachus. It is rather different from yours. As I begged you earlier, don’t make a comedy of it” (193D).
Aristophanes warns Eryximachus not to take his speech as a comedy. However, Aristophanes was a comic writer. He wrote comedies, and one of them, The Clouds, satirized Socrates. There are humorous elements to Aristophanes’s speech. Most notably the visual images he gives us of two people stuck together and Zeus splitting them, in the way one might cut a hard boiled egg with a wire. On the other hand, I would argue that Aristophanes’s account of Love (Eros) is tragic. Think about it. We are by nature separated from that which makes us whole. There is no guarantee that we will find that “other half.” And even if we do, the double-creatures in Aristophanes’s myth died a single death. Now that we separated from the other part of ourselves, even if we find them and get to love them for a while, we don’t die with them. Thus,
we are left suffering alone by ourselves, knowing that we have lost that unified part. Aristophanes focuses on the “negative” side of ‘Love’ (Eros), passion or desire. He looks at Eros and sees the hungry longing that it feeds in us for the things that we don’t have. Stay tuned because Socrates will also pick up on this theme, but his account of attraction is not so tragic; Socrates will show us what Love, Eros, passion, desire can motivate us to do positive things, if we train it right.
My question in general, and to the class, is: Obviously we’re not going to take Aristophanes seriously, in the sense that there is no way that we think he is trying to give us, let’s say, a scientific description of Love and its origin. But, do you think that Aristophanes’s portrait of painful longing for some missing part of ourselves describes your own personal experiences with Love, passion, or desire?
Remember don’t just answer my question! Quote from the reading; use it to show me that you’ve read carefully and are trying to understand what is going. Also, try to come up with your own question. That is where philosophy begins to take place.
Quote: “Whenever one of the halves died and one was left, the one that was left still sought another and wove itself together with that.” (191, b)
In reading the speech given by Aristophanes, this quote definitely stood out to me as it could be directly referenced to love and relationships. If we analyze the theory of soul mates and inseparability, we could conclude that one depends on the other to flourish and live a fulfilling life. We could further say that in the absence of sunlight, a tree cannot photosynthesize thus not being able to reproduce or bear fruit. So can we conclude that in the absence of one’s other half, life ceases? One party wholeheartedly depends on the other for completion. As a result, if one dies or is no longer in existence, then the other should not desire anyone else. They are no longer the same because that which completes them is no longer around. Ultimately they should become numb of feeling and emotion and not seek a replacement. So therefore, whilst life does not end, it should become unfulfilling to the party that experiences loss.
"What is mortal shared in immortality, whether it is a body or anything else, while the immortal has another way"
I like the Aristophanes’ idea about previous wholeness of two people, because it is very romantic and, even as a myth, explains a lot about human nature and various orientations. As he argues, we all seek the other “matching half”, so “a man who is split from the double sort (..) runs after women”. However, “women who were split from a women, pay no attention at all to men, they are oriented more towards women,” (191e) and it also relates to the males. It is a fascinating approach, which underlines that it is deep inside in human nature to be different and also that it is normal. As to the painful longing for the person, whom we love, these feelings really take place, but they are not so constant as Aristophanes describes. Many people at one moment of their life are confident that the person they love is the right one for them, but after years they might love completely different individual and be sure again that this new one is their very missing half. Thus, my point is that it is not so easy to determine will this feeling be the love till the end of their live or it will fade after time. I believe it depends from people, their faith in each other and a lot of work on their relationships.
Socrates’ speech includes more realistic Diotima’s theory of love, which explains love as a spiritual phenomenon, but not as a God-like creature. She insists that the main goal of love is mere reproduction, which brings immortality for the humanity as a whole.
However, I do not understand clearly the purpose of Alcibiades speech: did this praise of Socrates figure mean to demonstrate the expression of love in reality, or had it any other different goals?
191D—‘Love is born into every human being,’
Aristophanes’s portrait of painful longing for some missing part of ourselves describes my own personal experience with Love, passion, or desire in a way that was introduced to him. We all learn from some one in order to derive at a belief and to have passion for that belief. Aristophanes quoted Zeus, because he was the name of the Greek King of the God of the sky, so he had a higher power of belief for which he had a passion. In my personal experience, I find that everyone have a higher power of belief weather tangible or intangible for instance Zeus being a tangible and God the Father being an intangible God (A Spirit) I believe God is Love, and because of this.
Our parents had to have loved us to give birth to us. The passion to have someone to care for gives a woman the desire to give birth. Without love we will have no passion or desire to accomplish anything in life. And I agree with Aristophanes that ‘Love is born into every human being’ because truth be bold. We all were loved and cared for even before we were born. We carry it in our DNA the questions is what we do with it
As we progress in life.
Line 191b
“ Now, since their natural form had been cut in two, each one longed for its own other half, and so they would throw their arms about each other, weaving themselves together, wanting to grow together. In that condition they would die from hunger and general idleness, because they would not do anything apart from each other. Whenever one of the halves died, and one was left, the one that was left still sought another and wove itself together with that. Sometimes the half he met came from a woman, as we’d call her now, sometimes from a man; either way, they kept on dying.”
This paragraph stood out to me because it made sense. When people are attracted to each other they feel drawn to each other by some invisible force. It’s not a feeling that can be forced or contrived with just anybody. Human beings have also learned to cope with the loss of a partner. Whether it be to death or the end of a relationship, most times people move on and find a new partner and try to “weave” their life with theirs. I know that there are some unfortunate exceptions where people either can’t or refuse to move on, but it still doesn’t stop them from being attracted to, or wanting a new relationship with a new partner. (Just my opinion.)
My personal experience with “love” would tend to agree with Aristophanes. A lot of pain and longing for that “other half”. I don’t believe that you will wither away and die if you don’t find your soul mate but life would be so much sweeter if you do. The lighter side of love makes me so happy. I love “love” !!! But love is also very destructive and can influence us to do some really shady things. It can also influence you to be the best “you” you can be. I have only ever been in love twice in my life and I am 29. Those experiences have taught me that you should appreciate the time you have with who you think is your other half. Rejection has taught me that no matter who you fall in love with, they don’t have love you back and it’s ok. Don’t dwell on it. Your life is far from over and maybe you should re-evaluate your priorities and the qualities you want in a partner.
190d: "I think I have a plan," he said, "that would allow human beings to exist and stop their misbehaving: they will give up being wicked when they lose their strength. So I shall now cut each of them in two. At one stroke they will lose their strength and also become more profitable to us, owing to the increase in their number. They shall walk upright on two legs. But if I find they still run riot and do not keep the peace," he said, ur will cut them in two again, and they'll have to make their way on one leg, hopping."
Aristophanes is telling the story of how love came to be between a man and a woman as Zeus wanted it to be. He seems to intend for his story of love to not come out to be a comedy, but in reality he is satirizing the entire thing, just as he does in many of his works. He explains that Zeus wanted to cut combined people into two. Basically, cut soul mates into two halves so that they would lose their strength without their other half. In a way, this is true. A person can indeed be weaker without the one they love. Being "cut apart," people look for their other half in order to feel complete. However, Aristophanes goes on to say that Zeus said that if people would still continue to act wicked, he would cut them again and they would have to hop on one leg. This part means to say that he would cut a whole man or a whole woman into two parts which would then lead to certain people having interest in the same sex. Aristophane's description of love makes sense in a mythical sort of way. Greeks myths tend to have explanations for many human instances, and while I obviously understand that this is not how love came about, it still certainly does explain the longing that we have for the opposite sex and our "other half." When we find someone who we find ourselves to get along with and to complete us, we have a longing to be with them and to spend our lives with them, as if we are fulfilled by that person. Being cut in half is obviously too literal of an explanation, but the idea behind it certainly relates to love the way that we feel it. The question I can ask is how this relates to unrequited love? If we find ourselves in love with a person and we feel passion that they don't, does it mean that the passion truly isn't there and that we have not yet found our "other half" in that person?
Question: Do you think that Aristophanes’s portrait of painful longing for some missing part of ourselves describes your own personal experiences with Love, passion, or desire?
If we are to give due praise to the god who can give us this blessing, then, we must praise Love. Love does the best that can be done for the time being: he draws us towards what belongs to us. But for the future, Love promises the greatest hope of all: if we treat the gods with due reverence, he will restore to us our original nature, and by healing us, he will make us blessed and happy (193d, Aristophanes Speech 188e-194e)
In the context of Aristophanes’s speech, he seeks to explain the human’s need, the desire or passion to find love in each other. Originally, humans were made perfect in love, each being completed in their own whole of either one of the three beings: male, female, or androgynous. However, this love was cut off, with humans in halves, which originated upon our wickedness against the gods that so created us. In order for the god of Love to restore such a love that completes us and to heal us to who we fully were, we must continue to worship the gods of sun, earth, moon with reverence. When we do, we will find the exact half that we were originally cut off from. Until then, the god of Love can only draw us or temporarily heal us of the love through sexual intimacy with a half that is not of ourselves, where the relationship may not last because they are not totally in love with each other or belong to one another. Whereas if we continue to praise the gods, love will be completed in us when he restore us with our original own half, where we will not need anything from each other, not even sex, just as long as both are together. This will create a bond of one from two even until death. In comparison to my own personal experience with love, passion, and desire, I can relate this in that I can seemingly try to fill this love and longing in another human being, but it may not be completely met. Not because I have not found the exact half of myself, but this love cannot be completed by humans alone, but completed with God in my life. When I am not right with God, I try to find something or someone else to fill me, but His love is perfected in me just as He created me in the beginning with a right relationship with Him. I was cut off from God similarly to the way Aristophanes’ says the humans were cut off from love because of their own wickedness, so I was from my own sin.
Of course such experience I relate to is my faith with the Christian God, not the god of Love or any other kind of gods. But my question for everyone is in Aristophanes’s explanation for being complete in love through finding the original half in humans is this: should humans continue to dwell on the longing and desire to find the other half by focusing on the human, or simply look to the god who is willing to give you it all and everything by restoring you with the human?
Based on the reading, I still could not connect that it is a pure love to between a man and boys. I don't think that young children will have such a romantic love. Aside from that I do think that love is something that we have when we meet a person that has something that we don't have and also we have some kind of same likes with that other person. For example you might love someone because the person is out going and you are not. This outgoing person can complete you. You might be an impulsive buyer and your love ones are not so it completes you. On the other hand, you also need someone that appreciates what you like. For example you like traveling and the other person likes traveling. I believe love is just like technology but you need to upgrade the same time with your current partner. I am not saying keeping changing I am saying grow together. I also believe love needs a mutual understanding and give and take like compromise. I don’t believe that there is a perfection relationship or love but compromise goes a long way.