I put up a .pdf of Plato's Symposium in the Google Documents folder for next week’s reading. It is a very good translation by Alexander Nehamas and Paul Woodruff.
The parts I am requiring you to read are:
(Use the Stephanus number on the sides)
(1) The first part which is a frame-narrative for the speeches told later in the dialogue. Sections 172a-178b.
(2) Aristophanes's speech. Sections 188e-194e
(3) Socrates's speech and
(4) Alcibiades's drunken interruption of the party. Sections198a - to the end of the dialogue.
Here are some of my thoughts on the Symposium:
“That,” he said, “is my speech about Love, Eryximachus. It is rather different from yours. As I begged you earlier, don’t make a comedy of it” (193D).
Aristophanes warns Eryximachus not to take his speech as a comedy. However, Aristophanes was a comic writer. He wrote comedies, and one of them, The Clouds, satirized Socrates. There are humorous elements to Aristophanes’s speech. Most notably the visual images he gives us of two people stuck together and Zeus splitting them, in the way one might cut a hard boiled egg with a wire. On the other hand, I would argue that Aristophanes’s account of Love (Eros) is tragic. Think about it. We are by nature separated from that which makes us whole. There is no guarantee that we will find that “other half.” And even if we do, the double-creatures in Aristophanes’s myth died a single death. Now that we separated from the other part of ourselves, even if we find them and get to love them for a while, we don’t die with them. Thus,
we are left suffering alone by ourselves, knowing that we have lost that unified part. Aristophanes focuses on the “negative” side of ‘Love’ (Eros), passion or desire. He looks at Eros and sees the hungry longing that it feeds in us for the things that we don’t have. Stay tuned because Socrates will also pick up on this theme, but his account of attraction is not so tragic; Socrates will show us what Love, Eros, passion, desire can motivate us to do positive things, if we train it right.
My question in general, and to the class, is: Obviously we’re not going to take Aristophanes seriously, in the sense that there is no way that we think he is trying to give us, let’s say, a scientific description of Love and its origin. But, do you think that Aristophanes’s portrait of painful longing for some missing part of ourselves describes your own personal experiences with Love, passion, or desire?
Remember don’t just answer my question! Quote from the reading; use it to show me that you’ve read carefully and are trying to understand what is going. Also, try to come up with your own question. That is where philosophy begins to take place.
"…reproduction goes on forever; it is what mortals have in place of immortality. A lover must desire immortality along with the good, if what we agreed earlier was right, that Love wants to possess the good forever. It follows from our argument that love must desire immortality." (207a)
The other partygoers treat love as a reaction, to another's body or soul, but Diotima is the only one who discusses love as an act of creation, rather than simply beauty or inspiration. This makes sense given her position as a woman that the act of love should be intricately connected with childbirth.
It is interesting to me that Socrates uses a female character to submit his ideas on love, ideas that revolve around pregnancy. Obviously physical pregnancy would be more relatable to a woman, but he uses her to argue that all humanly creation are beget out of pregnancy of the soul, and then maintains that this second type of pregnancy is more prestigious and beautiful. Socrates in fact uses a woman's point of view to downplay the importance of women; he is saying that the love of an idea and the immortality of ideas are more important than lineages or physical childbirth. Naturally the men sitting on the couches around him agree with this sentiment, that they do not need women to attain immortality, to propagate!
However, her concept of love as an aspiration toward immortality also strikes me as egocentric. Her argument is that actions are not undertaken for the love of others, they are taken for the love of immortality, for the chance to live on, either in name or by lineage. She is saying the true reason to love another is to propagate some aspect of oneself. So then, isn't her definition of love simply narcissism? A purely selfish emotion, the good of which comes incidental to the main goal of fame and immortality? I enjoy the practicality in her definition, that love exists to produce something, rather than simply being something to enjoy or inspire, but I dislike that in her theory it becomes almost a base emotion, lacking the transcendency or romance of the others' theories.
According to Socrates, when one gets that what it is he ‘loves’, he will be happy. This ‘love’ is described as the desiring of beauty. Since the ultimate beauty is wisdom, someone who ‘loves’ is someone who desires wisdom. Diotima explains that people desire wisdom, because having wisdom can enable people to form thoughts and ideas of virtue that can go on forever, thus bringing immortality to a mortal being. So essentially what they are saying is that if man achieves immortality, then he will be happy. This makes it seem that achieving happiness via immortality is the basis for the entire concept of ‘love’. So I’m really confused as to why Diotima would say that “There’s no need to ask further, ‘what’s the point of wanting happiness?’(205a)” . Why is there no need? Do we not need to understand what personal happiness is if it’s the underlying cause of people feeling pursuing ‘love’ or desires? Is it not essential to start from the root of an idea to fully understand what it is? So if (according to Diotima) happiness is the root of ‘love’, how can one possibly claim to understand love if they don’t even bother to question what the point of happiness is and what being ‘happy’ means?
As for the question, regarding Aristophanes description of love; I must have missed the point somewhere....didn't Zeus and the other gods punish humanity so that the human form has evolved into half of what it is has been before? So technically the new form of the human being IS the new human nature. So I'm not sure why we should feel like we are missing anything or long to be part of a 'whole' if we are the new 'whole' in our own individual form and going back to our original form would be staying as we are now. I also don't get what is meant by the concept of, longing for a missing part so we can be 'whole'. What does being whole mean? Back in original form of human nature? Aren't we in that form? Does it just mean being complete? What happens when people find their 'other half' and they achieve 'wholeness'? Nothing? They are just 'whole'? What does that mean?? people are just longing for something so that they can be in a state of random 'wholeness'? What is the point of 'wholeness' and why do people want it?
I believe Aristophanes does not speak of a longing love for someone to make them whole again, but a longing to love one's self. As flawed humans, we speak half-truths, conceive incomplete thoughts, and go throughout life constantly desiring or yearning for something more. He tells a story of schism and separation which was meant to punish and cripple mankind. “..that would allow human beings to exist and stop their misbehaving: they will give up being wicked when they lose their strength” (Zeus, 474). We have not only been stripped of our strength and power, according to Aristophanes, but this has affected our attempts for success. “In strength and power, therefore, they were terrible, and they had great ambitions” (Aristophanes, 473). Some of us still do have great ambitions, but with our separation, we still have longings for love – which always involves affliction and toil – holding us from being the powerful creatures we once were.
Aristophanes also mentions that if their other halves died, then they would seek out completion with any other creature, finding the comfort of love with whichever gender. This statement majorly supports my belief that we only long for the completion of ourselves. Earlier in his speech, he mentions that men and women’s gender were based on whether they were “sons” of the sun, “daughters” of the earth, or the androgynous offspring of the moon. Despite their gender, however, all creatures had two sexual organs. After being, split in half”, we were left with one, but our three key genders remained the same. We all retain masculinity, femininity, and senses of enigma. We have been left to long for our destined other have to become whole again – not because we need another’s love to feel complete, but because we are searching for another part of ourselves that has been taken away from us.
Therefore, regarding to Ellie's questions (in my opinion).
"What does being whole mean?" Being whole means being happy - true, unadulterated happiness. Happiness which can be dangerous, leading to confidence and power (leading to why Zeus split them in half).
"What happens when people find their 'other half' and they achieve 'wholeness'?" In Aristophanes's idea of our original state, we were our true selves and he draws in the belief that, yes, we are whole human beings right now, but that is because we are what we think to be is whole. We go unaware of how complete we once were and our only reminder is the constant yearn for others. We see this as lust, affection, or passion, when they may be indicators to show us that we need that "partner" to remain complete, for look at how much happiness love brings. The happiness from compassion is unlike any other and it even changes people, making them more vulnerable, passionate, and happy. One might argue it changes them to their truer selves.
"What is the point of 'wholeness' and why do people want it?" The point of wholeness can be as riddled a question as "what is the meaning of life". There are thousands of questions and millions of counter-arguments. However, a very watered down answer that trickles through most other answers is, happiness. Wholeness makes us feel complete. Wholeness spares nights awake in tears and the feelings of betrayal and misfortune. Wholeness makes us feel important and special. Wholeness makes us feel more human.
Now my question is: Does anyone else find Aristophanes warning Eryximachus to not take his speech as a comedy was an attempt to avoid any mockery that a brilliant philosopher as himself categorizes himself as in incomplete, lost person who seeks out wholeness with random partners, or did I miss a different interpretation of his words?
In my opinion, love is such a mysterious thing, no one can really describe it or give a full definition of it. Not only each of us can have our own limited point of view of love, but also each of have different reason or motivation to love someone else. Alcibiades speech is very interesting to me because it shows that we don't have to wait for someone we love or we think loves to make the first move. We could have misinterpreted or misunderstand the person intention toward us. Alcibiades pursued Socrates as his lover, however Socrates did not have any sexual attraction for him, which was sort of disappointing.
My understanding of Alcibiades speech is that, Love is not always attributed to sex and the person we really love or who really loves does not have to be physically attractive. Alcibiades shows us that Socrates may not physically attractive but his real beauty is inside of him and that attract others. It is worth it to sacrifice ourselves for someone just because this person say so? Does true love really exist? Love is too mysterious to me. Some people sacrifice their live for others in the name of love with no gratification, even love in return. Does that mean really love does not require gratification?
Me personally no. But the description he gives of our orgins as being one circular unit that craved to be a whole piece again after being cut in half sounds familiar. The sickness, sadness, lack of appetite or suicide for the loss of a spouse is common. More common to my knowledge than any other person in someones life. Its not uncommon for a spouse to die shortly after one is deceased. Spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife its all the same. They complete each other much like a yin and yang make a perfect circle.