RAM Shiva Sita

[Krishna G Misra]

In spiritual interest of all mankind
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Unless you know your father, you cannot know the mother who gave you birth and knows you very well. As long as you did not know your mother, you are helpless and violent.  This is because all neglected mothers try to always force the sons (by its control or ways of risk and rewards) to let them somehow know the father and reunite with the mother, and the family.

Therefore, you must never loose sight of your father or the soul. You will then recognize your own mother or the nature including your own identity of body and mind. You will then awfully realize how impatient was your mother who waited so long, that you recognize her.  After this, you are forever taken care of and free to grow in spiritually without any fear or uncertainty from any of the perceived worlds or reality.

The son jivatma who is always in devotion of the father, soul or paramatma RAM is,  the Shiva. Because mother nature Parvati takes care of the Shiva, he becomes almighty.

Mother ( Jagadamba), father (RAM) and son (Shiva) are inseparable and live in heaven. When they are divided or not know each other, the world or any reality is hell.

All cousins of Shiva are too Shiva because it can dress up in different mind and body as they have no any scarcity of these, and no ego or division or comparison warranted.  This ends all fear and violence.

Duty of a son "Shiva" is to receive all that it gets from her own mother unhesitatingly and live with her ( in own swabhav or self nature or swadharma). And, use it for welfare of those cousins who are "Shav" or dead or violent and helpless because they are yet to know their father RAM, and are deprived of the love from the mother nature Jagadamba. Shav are all those dead people who are violent and helpless and get no love from own body and mind as well as from the world. They abuse the mother nature and get it back in same proportion. 

That Shiva who is in trouble and sacrifices in the world steadfastly is  the Sita. That Shiva is also the Arjun in Mahabharata. Sita is therefore loved by the father Sri RAM always.

Summary
When you (jivatma) are ignorant of the father, you are Shav or dead.
When you (jivatma) know the father, you are Shiva.
When father ( param atma) loves you, you are Sita 

Regards