“Isn’t everything you have and everything you are sheer gifts from
God? So what’s the point of all this comparing and competing? You already have all you need” (1 Corinthians 4:7-8 The Message).
Instead of focusing so much on what you don’t have and what didn’t happen, be grateful for what you do have. This doesn’t come
naturally to me, probably not for you either, and not even for the apostle Paul, who said, “I have learned to be content.” Being
content is a learning process.
The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 4:7-8, “Isn’t everything you have and everything you are sheer gifts from God? So
what’s the point of all this comparing and competing? You already have all you need” (The Message).
Envy is based on the myth that you have to have more to be happy. Envy always looks at others and asks, “Why them? Why did they deserve it? I
deserve what they have.” But gratitude says, “Why me? Why did God give me this? I’m blessed because I don’t deserve what I
have.” It totally flips our perspective.
Although we all struggle with envy, it’s hard to admit it because it’s such an ugly emotion. When you’re envious of others, you
really want them to fail, because it makes you feel better that they don’t have more than you. That’s pretty crazy, isn’t it? If we
could only learn to be grateful for what we have, we could begin to get rid of these feelings of envy.
It’s important to understand that envy is not having a desire or a dream or a goal. It’s good to have those. Envy is not looking
forward to something or hoping that something can happen in your life or even wondering if you should have some thing. Envy is instead
resenting somebody who already has what you desire or has reached a goal you have yet to obtain. Envy says you can’t be happy until you get that
desire or goal. Envy is not being grateful for what you already have.
Yet the Bible tells us that we already have more than we need and far more than we deserve. Every good thing in our lives is a gift from God, and
it is up to him to decide when and how he blesses us. It’s up to us to choose to be grateful and make the most of what we’ve been
given.
“It is better to be satisfied with what you have than to be always wanting something else” (Ecclesiastes 6:9b GNT).
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Talk It Over
- “When you’re envious of others, you really want them to fail, because it makes you feel better that they don’t have more
than you.” How does this statement challenge you to examine any envy you’ve felt toward others?
- What is one practical way you can practice gratitude today?
