Hmm, yes once you save it to MyMaps it doesnt seem to be embeddable :(
However before you save it you can embed it. (when the url is still
in the search box)
Once you save it to MyMaps you can however combine it with other
results.
Also embedded maps doesnt support more that one content mixed - you
need to create a KML 'container' file of network links for that.
There is a filesize limit, but its NOT fixed, I've been able to import
files with 200 features to a page, and also display them via a KML
file. Also I have tried a 2Mb file. I would like to know where this
fixed limit is quoted as I still beleive it wrong. I think the limit
is based on the size of the final object (JSON) as it transfered to
the client not the input file.