However as GE has to open the file and probably store a majority of it
in memory for quick access, your computer memory will have an effect.
For example I find since upgrading I can open bigger files, much
quicker.
Also it might simply be that it is taking a long time to parse, so
appears frooze, but will actully come back later.
It's probably the number of objects in the file rather than the raw
file size that makes a diference, but not sure.
As for validating you could try downloading feedvalidator.org, you
wont be able to use th oneline one for such a file, but its open
source so could run it locally.
My guess is that it's just too large. On my machine Google Earth
(4.1.7076.4458 (beta) on Mac; last time I checked the newer version
only existed for other platforms) takes long enough to load/unload
10000 points, and can't render them at decent framerates. And that's
nothing like your 250 MB. Other types of geometry (or perhaps features
that can be turned on/off individually in the sidebar) may have a
better performance/size ratio, but I doubt they scale well enough. Did
you look at http://code.google.com/apis/kml/documentation/kml_21tutorial.html#workingregions
, or as the 3D warehouse does, picking only items in view from a
database with a script/program?
Jonathan