Hello Fred,
there are multiple ways to deploy custom extensions to keycloak.
Seems like you deployed your extension as a wildfly module. Does your jar have a META-INF/services/org.keycloak.events.EventsListenerProvider with the FQCN of your factory class?
I personally prefer to deploy simple .jar or .ear files into the standalone/deployments folder.
If you deploy your extension that keycloak should print some log entries of it registers the extension. Also don't forget to enable the event listener in the admin-console via realm settings -> events -> config.
Cheers,