I'm not sure where you can get the NIST SRE 2010 evaluation. I think that it was just distributed to institutions participating in it, and it may not be publicly available. If no one here can provide a pointer to it, you could try contacting someone at the LDC, to see if they have plans to make it available.
If it's hard to get the SRE10 data, my suggestion is to focus on the NIST SRE 2008 evaluation for now. The data is available from the LDC.
We never came up with a minimal datalist, and I don't think we ever compared results using different subsets of the available corpra. If I have to guess, I think Fisher might be the single most helpful dataset, followed by the older SRE datasets (e.g., SRE2003, 2005, etc).