Ok, thanks for pointing this out.
My mistake:
Since I got used to v1 I expected a red X while dragging a node over a "forbidden" drop node - now it is still green, because the parent of the drop node allows to drop it before or after the "forbidden" drop node (note: position of the drop marker - above, below, but not centered). A bit confusing in this case might be that the "forbidden" drop node is highlighted (which is normal -> hovering). Another mistake was not to define valid children for the "#" - I started at the visible node level.
Again, thanks.
It now works as expected.
Thomas