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John Snyder

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Aug 18, 2012, 5:29:22 PM8/18/12
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Since my last update on July 29th much has happened, besides taking the kids to Florida on vacation.  It appears that going to Florida at the end of July may cause tumors to appear in my chest, but this is not yet conclusive (no Ma, I’m not blaming Florida – yet).

 

Upon my return from Florida on Thursday the 9th of August I came down with a fever of about 100.6 degrees.  After managing the fever through the weekend close to a normal level I went to work on Monday the 13th.  Unfortunately by the end of my day I had a fever of 101.6, which is a free pass to the Emergency room under my conditions.

 

While attempting to identify the source of my fever, the ER took an X-Ray of my chest to check for pneumonia.  The ER doctor came into my room and asked with concern if I knew I had a mass in my chest.  I confirmed that I was aware that it existed and that it should be about 2.7 x 2.5 cm based on my CT scan from July 11th (maybe it is ERs that cause tumors because that’s where they keep popping up).  The doctor switched the ER computer screen from my long history of X-Ray’s to my litany of CT scans where he more calmly reviewed the scan.  He then proceeded to show me how the X-Ray, as poor as it is, seemed to show the mass at closer to 4 cm -  a new tumor was born.

 

This did not, however, keep me from being tested for everything under the sun, except maybe pregnancy, to identify the source of my fever.  They continuously drew blood, gave me two more CT scans and even conducted a 360 degree X-Ray of my teeth.  Nothing.  My fever raged to a high of 102.6 before they finally started dropping something on it to bring it down, but they could not kill it.  Even the endless rounds of anti-biotics had no effect (I was beginning to think I was superman).  Finally they gave me a form of Aleve and back to normal it went.  This was a ploy they made to establish my fever was caused by the tumor, which was established.

 

Since my blood counts are so poor, it is not possible for me to be treated with chemotherapy so the weapon of choice will be radiation.  I was a little concerned until the Radiologist explained that he could eliminate the tumor with no possibility of a return to that spot and it will require 30 minutes a day for four weeks as an outpatient (and I can continue to work!).  The side effects might be a sore throat and some difficulty in swallowing, which will end after treatment.  It sounds like a walk in the park compared to the chemotherapy and all I could say was “where do I sign up?”. 

 

My real question was why didn’t we do this first?  Why did I go through eight months of torture and loose my blood count when I could have spent four weeks and destroyed it?  The answer is in the type of Lymphoma.  I have Lymphoblastic lymphoma, which is a very aggressive form of lymphoma and can pop up anywhere.  Dr. Needles, my oncologist, is very familiar with this cancer and sought to ensure that it remain localized; causing him use the leukemia treatment.

 

I currently have two issues, first, the tumor must be eliminated rapidly (as before) because of it’s fast rate of growth; it is likely to press my esophagus closed in three weeks.  Second, my blood count continues to lack adequate numbers and it does not appear to be capable of improving. 

 

The Radiology group has already taken their pictures and is rushing their mathematical work so that I will begin radiation treatment on Monday.  This should eliminate the tumor.  I will likely meet with the Barnes Hospital Bone Marrow group to being the process of evaluating my need for a bone marrow transplant.  It is believed that my bone marrow is sick and may be the real cause of the tumor.  It has not been infected with cancer and does not show any measurable signs of disease but it has not recovered from the 6th treatment, which is an indication there is something wrong with it.

 

The good news for me is that the tumor has remained localized to my chest and has not shown up anywhere else.  I am not too concerned about the radiation treatment and look forward to having the tumor blasted away (again).  I am concerned about the bone marrow transplant as it sounds high risk (though not as high as having the tumor).  I will know more in the next couple of weeks.

 

What is certain is that I am going down for a number of months again.  Somehow, God is not looking for me to work too much; I can never seem to get back.  I don’t believe this will hurt the Experience on Demand IT Practice as we have five IT people with another interested party.  The timing is good as we will be able to shift some efforts to cover customer requirements.  My biggest concern, however, is my personal finances, as I will be without an income again for an unknown number of months.  Following the last eight month ordeal, it makes for a serious triage effort.

 

Overall, the return of the tumor is not unexpected.  Dr. Needles did explain in general terms early on, he just could not be specific because no one could know how things would unfold.  The plan has not changed, just advanced.  The cancer continues to be localized.  I will be having another bone marrow biopsy on Monday so they can be sure there is no cancer in the bone marrow.  Barring any further developments, Dr. Needles is expecting to achieve a full remission; it will just require a bone marrow transplant to get there.  It was not the thing I wanted on my treatment list, but I believe it will make a difference.

 

My Mother is returning tomorrow to assist (after her 6 weeks of vacation in her Florida home).  My parents continue to make such a loving sacrifice to help me.  But Mr. Nault is not allowed to feed any idea’s to my mother, she has enough of her own. 

 

Thank you for all the continued prayers and assistance.

James Hardy

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Aug 18, 2012, 5:57:11 PM8/18/12
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John, hang in there! My wife, Luanne, has had another surgery herself and another cancer was found, having been undetected. Prayers for all!
Brother Jim Hardy

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Aug 18, 2012, 6:52:24 PM8/18/12
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John, hang in there...will keep you in my thoughts and prayers


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Subject: Round 2?

D&L Amato

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Aug 18, 2012, 8:07:57 PM8/18/12
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Thanks for the update John.  Sorry you have to go thru this, but God has his own way of telling you that "no one ever dies and says from the other side I wish I had spend more time at work"!!!  You have other work to do, apparently!  

Take care and get well soon.  We'll be here rooting for you and send our love and prayers.  

Your Jersey Shore Cousins!!!

John Snyder Personal

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Aug 18, 2012, 8:43:20 PM8/18/12
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Lori,

I agree, but I think he is saying is instead of work I should be on the Jersey shore with my cousins.

John Snyder

D&L Amato

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Aug 18, 2012, 9:25:49 PM8/18/12
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LOL!  The salt air is very good for you!  ; )

lindas...@yahoo.com

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Aug 18, 2012, 10:27:59 PM8/18/12
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John-
You are back on top of my prayers. We will continue to ask God for your complete healing. Stay strong knowing so many are praying for you!
Love
Linda and family
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Date: Sat, 18 Aug 2012 14:29:22 -0700 (PDT)
Subject: Round 2?

Jason Graklanoff

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Aug 19, 2012, 11:19:40 PM8/19/12
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John - You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.  You have been such an inspiration for all of us as you have maintained your positive attitude and drawing strength from your faith throughout this whole ordeal. 

Do keep us updated.  The localized nature of the tumor and radiation treatment vs chemo sounds much more manageable as compared to Round 1!

Jason

Mark Heckler

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Aug 26, 2012, 8:47:49 PM8/26/12
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John,

I think Mother Teresa said it best when she said, "I know God will not give me anything I can't handle, I just wish He didn't trust me so much."  :-)

Sounds like you'll have a lot on your plate for awhile, but please remember to take it slowly, one step at a time. Rushing things doesn't gain any extra points, and it often (ironically) just slows things down! Know that you have a lot of people thinking of you and praying for you, pulling for you in the background.

And to your mother, please pass along our encouragement to restrain you if you fail to take any of the doctors' advice. Really John, it's for your own good.  :-D

All the best,
Mark

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Aug 29, 2012, 9:12:46 AM8/29/12
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John is not doing well at all. Please pray, pray, pray! We love him dearly!

Signed, Carol Ward (John's sister)





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Date: Sat, 18 Aug 2012 19:43:20 -0500
Subject: Re: Round 2?

Todd Nault

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Aug 29, 2012, 9:36:37 AM8/29/12
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What's going on??

Todf

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betty...@aol.com

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Aug 29, 2012, 9:39:03 AM8/29/12
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He was placed in ICU this morning. Tumor is back and growing rapidly and he has a contagious infection.

My entire family is traveling to St. Louis to be with him.

Carol


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Date: Wed, 29 Aug 2012 08:36:37 -0500

Debbie Schneider

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Aug 29, 2012, 10:17:27 AM8/29/12
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Dear Carol,
Please call me if I can do anything for you or your family. My prayers continue daily for John.
314-566-0732
Debbie

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Erick Harlow

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Aug 29, 2012, 11:29:30 AM8/29/12
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John-

 

I know you are not reading these posts today, but know you are in our thoughts and prayers. 

 

John 16:33

“In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer ; I have overcome the world.”

 

Hang in there my friend-

 

I know John needs his rest, so I will not burden him with my presence, but could someone in his family please pass along this message? 

Thanks

Erick Harlow

Hillis, Linda A

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Aug 29, 2012, 11:32:18 AM8/29/12
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Yes, we will pass it on ~ thanks for your prayers!

 

Linda Hillis

Senior Network Provisioner

 

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Joanne Cross

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Aug 29, 2012, 11:40:49 AM8/29/12
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There’s power in prayer – we’re storming the heavens!!!!

 


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Mary Beth Andaloro

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Aug 29, 2012, 11:42:32 AM8/29/12
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John,

You and your family are in our thoughts and in our continued prayers.

Blessings, 

Vince and Mary Beth 

Todd Nault

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Aug 29, 2012, 11:44:14 AM8/29/12
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Carol, 

I don't know that we have met. I have been involved with John and your mom from the beginning. Prayers are obvious, but if you truly need anything please let me know. I will alert his brothers in Christ. 

Todd

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Aug 29, 2012, 12:32:53 PM8/29/12
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So sorry to hear that John is not doing well. Will continue to pray for John and the family.


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Todd Nault

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Aug 29, 2012, 6:38:32 PM8/29/12
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Carol, 

Can he have visitors? 

Todd

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betty...@aol.com

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Yes and there is no end time for visitors. Mercy room 409, bed 11. You need to wear a gown and gloves (provided by ICU) and make sure you take the gown and gloves off in his room before leaving. Do not exit his room with gown and gloves on.


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Date: Wed, 29 Aug 2012 17:38:32 -0500

Todd Nault

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Aug 29, 2012, 7:16:43 PM8/29/12
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I have forwarded your message to his CRHP brothers. We are all meeting for mass at 0630 and I will be by to see him tomorrow. Please call me if anything happens. 636-288-9950. Please give mom a hug for me.

Todd

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Mark Heckler

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Aug 29, 2012, 9:48:22 PM8/29/12
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As will we. Carol, please give John our best and let him know we're lifting him up.

Mark

Ellie Snyder

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Aug 30, 2012, 8:46:39 AM8/30/12
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John has pneumonia and small bowel obstruction.  He is in ICU 4th floor bed 11. Please keep those prayers coming as it doesn't look good at all  He is so tired.
Ellie

Todd Nault

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Aug 30, 2012, 9:04:57 AM8/30/12
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Fred and I will be there between 11:30 and 12:00 today to see him.  About 10 of us met this morning for prayer and mass for him. No worries on the praying. 

Todd
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Dino Busalachi

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Aug 30, 2012, 9:36:57 AM8/30/12
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Thx Ellie. Keep me posted. Tell your dad I'm thinking of him.
Dino

Debbie Schneider

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Aug 30, 2012, 10:53:14 AM8/30/12
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Dear Ellie,
Sorry to hear that his condition has worsened. We are praying for him at daily Mass. Please call on us if we can do anything to help your family.
Love,
Debbie and Les

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lindas...@yahoo.com

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Aug 30, 2012, 12:38:46 PM8/30/12
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We have a weekly family Rosary with 4 of my sisters and my mom- John will be at the top of our list .

I can hope that knowing so many are praying for him might give him comfort and strength in this time.
Linda,Jeff, Grace and Laine
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Date: Thu, 30 Aug 2012 08:04:57 -0500

Jason Graklanoff

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Aug 30, 2012, 1:43:49 PM8/30/12
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To Ellie and all John's family:

John is one of the strongest and most courageous figures I have ever known. Continued thoughts and prayers to see him through. 

Jason Graklanoff

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On Aug 30, 2012, at 7:46 AM, Ellie Snyder <sh...@tampabay.rr.com> wrote:

John has pneumonia and small bowel obstruction.  He is in ICU 4th floor bed 11. Please keep those prayers coming as it doesn't look good at all  He is so tired.
Ellie

On 8/29/2012 6:16 PM, Todd Nault wrote:

Ellie Snyder

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I will let him know.�� I am John's mother
Ellie


On 8/30/2012 8:36 AM, Dino Busalachi wrote:

Thx Ellie. Keep me posted. Tell your dad I'm thinking of him.
Dino

On Aug 30, 2012 7:46 AM, "Ellie Snyder" <sh...@tampabay.rr.com> wrote:
John has pneumonia and small bowel obstruction.� He is in ICU 4th floor bed 11. Please keep those prayers coming as it doesn't look good at all� He is so tired.

Ellie

On 8/29/2012 6:16 PM, Todd Nault wrote:
I have forwarded your message to his CRHP brothers. We are all meeting for mass at 0630 and I will be by to see him tomorrow. Please call me if anything happens. 636-288-9950. Please give mom a hug for me.

Todd

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On Aug 29, 2012, at 5:42 PM, betty...@aol.com wrote:


Yes and there is no end time for visitors. Mercy room 409, bed 11. You need to wear a gown and gloves (provided by ICU) and make sure you take the gown and gloves off in his room before leaving. Do not exit his room with gown and gloves on.


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From: Todd Nault <usarm...@aol.com>
Date: Wed, 29 Aug 2012 17:38:32 -0500
Subject: Re: Round 2?

Carol,�

Can he have visitors?�
Thanks for the update John. �Sorry you have to go thru this, but God has his own way of telling you that "no one ever dies and says from the other side I wish I had spend more time at work"!!! �You have other work to do, apparently! �

Take care and get well soon. �We'll be here rooting for you and send our love and prayers. �

Your Jersey Shore Cousins!!!

On Sat, Aug 18, 2012 at 6:52 PM, <lort...@comcast.net> wrote:
John, hang in there...will keep you in my thoughts and prayers


From: "John Snyder" <JohnD...@STLSnyders.net>
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Sent: Saturday, August 18, 2012 5:29:22 PM
Subject: Round 2?


Since my last update on July 29th much has happened, besides taking the kids to Florida on vacation.� It appears that going to Florida at the end of July may cause tumors to appear in my chest, but this is not yet conclusive (no Ma, I�m not blaming Florida � yet).

�

Upon my return from Florida on Thursday the 9th of August I came down with a fever of about 100.6 degrees.� After managing the fever through the weekend close to a normal level I went to work on Monday the 13th.� Unfortunately by the end of my day I had a fever of 101.6, which is a free pass to the Emergency room under my conditions.

�

While attempting to identify the source of my fever, the ER took an X-Ray of my chest to check for pneumonia.� The ER doctor came into my room and asked with concern if I knew I had a mass in my chest.� I confirmed that I was aware that it existed and that it should be about 2.7 x 2.5 cm based on my CT scan from July 11th (maybe it is ERs that cause tumors because that�s where they keep popping up).� The doctor switched the ER computer screen from my long history of X-Ray�s to my litany of CT scans where he more calmly reviewed the scan.� He then proceeded to show me how the X-Ray, as poor as it is, seemed to show the mass at closer to 4 cm - �a new tumor was born.

�

This did not, however, keep me from being tested for everything under the sun, except maybe pregnancy, to identify the source of my fever.� They continuously drew blood, gave me two more CT scans and even conducted a 360 degree X-Ray of my teeth.� Nothing.� My fever raged to a high of 102.6 before they finally started dropping something on it to bring it down, but they could not kill it.� Even the endless rounds of anti-biotics had no effect (I was beginning to think I was superman).� Finally they gave me a form of Aleve and back to normal it went.� This was a ploy they made to establish my fever was caused by the tumor, which was established.

�

Since my blood counts are so poor, it is not possible for me to be treated with chemotherapy so the weapon of choice will be radiation.� I was a little concerned until the Radiologist explained that he could eliminate the tumor with no possibility of a return to that spot and it will require 30 minutes a day for four weeks as an outpatient (and I can continue to work!).� The side effects might be a sore throat and some difficulty in swallowing, which will end after treatment.� It sounds like a walk in the park compared to the chemotherapy and all I could say was �where do I sign up?�.�

�

My real question was why didn�t we do this first?� Why did I go through eight months of torture and loose my blood count when I could have spent four weeks and destroyed it?� The answer is in the type of Lymphoma.� I have Lymphoblastic lymphoma, which is a very aggressive form of lymphoma and can pop up anywhere.� Dr. Needles, my oncologist, is very familiar with this cancer and sought to ensure that it remain localized; causing him use the leukemia treatment.

�

I currently have two issues, first, the tumor must be eliminated rapidly (as before) because of it�s fast rate of growth; it is likely to press my esophagus closed in three weeks.� Second, my blood count continues to lack adequate numbers and it does not appear to be capable of improving.�

�

The Radiology group has already taken their pictures and is rushing their mathematical work so that I will begin radiation treatment on Monday.� This should eliminate the tumor.� I will likely meet with the Barnes Hospital Bone Marrow group to being the process of evaluating my need for a bone marrow transplant.� It is believed that my bone marrow is sick and may be the real cause of the tumor.� It has not been infected with cancer and does not show any measurable signs of disease but it has not recovered from the 6th treatment, which is an indication there is something wrong with it.

�

The good news for me is that the tumor has remained localized to my chest and has not shown up anywhere else.� I am not too concerned about the radiation treatment and look forward to having the tumor blasted away (again).� I am concerned about the bone marrow transplant as it sounds high risk (though not as high as having the tumor).� I will know more in the next couple of weeks.

�

What is certain is that I am going down for a number of months again.� Somehow, God is not looking for me to work too much; I can never seem to get back.� I don�t believe this will hurt the Experience on Demand IT Practice as we have five IT people with another interested party.� The timing is good as we will be able to shift some efforts to cover customer requirements.� My biggest concern, however, is my personal finances, as I will be without an income again for an unknown number of months.� Following the last eight month ordeal, it makes for a serious triage effort.

�

Overall, the return of the tumor is not unexpected.� Dr. Needles did explain in general terms early on, he just could not be specific because no one could know how things would unfold.� The plan has not changed, just advanced.� The cancer continues to be localized.� I will be having another bone marrow biopsy on Monday so they can be sure there is no cancer in the bone marrow.� Barring any further developments, Dr. Needles is expecting to achieve a full remission; it will just require a bone marrow transplant to get there.� It was not the thing I wanted on my treatment list, but I believe it will make a difference.

�

My Mother is returning tomorrow to assist (after her 6 weeks of vacation in her Florida home).� My parents continue to make such a loving sacrifice to help me.� But Mr. Nault is not allowed to feed any idea�s to my mother, she has enough of her own.�

�

Terri O'Daniel

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Mrs. Snyder,
Terri from the Academy. Can i bring dinner for your family over the weekend? I know many of your family members are in from out of town. Just let me know what day is best for you.
Love and prayers,
Terri



Terri O'Daniel
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Academy of St. Louis


On Aug 30, 2012, at 8:28 PM, Ellie Snyder <sh...@tampabay.rr.com> wrote:

I will let him know.   I am John's mother

Ellie

On 8/30/2012 8:36 AM, Dino Busalachi wrote:

Rick Swygman

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Please tell John that there are many in Atlanta praying for him, including all the guys in the Atlanta "Old Man Basketball" group.  We are offering up all of our games (and struggles within them) for him!  Many Masses and Rosaries, as well.

The Swygman family.

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I will let him know.   I am John's mother
Ellie

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Good day all!

I just want to let you all know that John was put on a ventilator today.

Please pray for God's will to be swift, even though I know his plan is followed regardless of what we want.

I want to at least share with you the John that has been the sweetest brother!

"Smiling Jack" was the nickname that my Uncle Lowell gave to him when he was little. And smiling he was! It took an act of God and a lot of razing to get John to react. Patience is defined in John's heart of hearts. I know that, as we all have faults, John's intentions with everyone he met were from a base of love. He is a good man and would do anything for anyone! "Can't say no" should have been his nickname.

Please pray for my parents to find the strength to endure this very trying time. As a mother it kills me to see this happen to a brother that is a "son."

I hope you all realize how special you are to have been chosen to know John and be his friend!

Please share all the love you have for him with my family. We appreciate it!

Carol Ward




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Date: Thu, 30 Aug 2012 21:44:25 -0400

Todd Nault

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Aug 31, 2012, 11:35:00 AM8/31/12
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Carol,
 
Still praying for his healing.  Please keep me posted.
 
Todd

Lance, Chris

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Aug 31, 2012, 11:38:32 AM8/31/12
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Thank you for the update, Carol.

 

John has been one of the most influential people in my life - a small group, shared with my father and grandfather. I would not be the man I am today, nor would I have the life and opportunities that I do, had it not been for his mentoring, friendship, support, and devotion. A day does not pass that I don’t share the wisdom he imparted with those around me. I cannot thank you and your family enough for sharing him with me and the countless others whose lives he has touched, shaped, and left better off. I don’t know a single person more deserving than John of the love, support, hope, and prayers of all who know him.

 

I promised John months ago that I would be there for him and his family should the need arise. If I can be of any help whatsoever, please do not hesitate to reach out.

 

Chris Lance

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Aug 31, 2012, 11:59:51 AM8/31/12
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Thank you for sharing Chris!

Here is another thing I would like to share that you all may have seen, but I think it is appropriate for John's situation.

To you all from me with love:

http://play.simpletruths.com/movie/pulling-together-v/?cm_mmc=CheetahMail-_-FR-_-08.31.12-_-PUTGmovie-USCAXX-Corp-&utm_source=CheetahMail&utm_campaign=PUTGmovie



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Todd Nault

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Sharing stories is how I met John....
 
I was on a weekend retreat with John at St. Albans.  I was firmly in the Baptist camp and was attending as a favor to a friend of mine who was Catholic.  I was priviledged to be able to spend a year in close fromation witha wonderful group of Catholic men including John.  I had no idea at the time that John and I would form a kindship and bond that would develop into a true friendship.  As part of the retreat we had to share stories about our life.  It became clear that John and I had a unique similarity with each other and it caused us to start talking with each other outside of the group.  He was always supportive of my faith and defended me when other Catholics would belittle me for being Baptist. The best conversations that we had revolved around marriage, divorce, and christian faith.  Having been down that road I was able to share my expierences with him.  I was always amazed by his positive attitude about his relationship with his wife and the possibility of getting a divorce.  I tend to be a glass half empty kind of guy.  There were numerous times when I would get off the phone with him and just shake my head and think "poor guy has no idea".  He proved me wrong every time. I was able to be there for him when it came time to move from his house and then to his new house.  I watched him fight to save his marriage, and fight to protect himself and his kids. I admire his love for his children.  I loved the way he fought for them.  When the cancer came I was able to see them same fight and determination.  I remarked to him once that he would make a great soldier and that I would gladly serve with him.  He was tough, curageous, and determined.  This is a guy that just wont say no.  I feel like knowing John has made me a better man.  He is one of the reasons I converted to the Catholic faith.  His love of Christ and the sacraments was inspirational.  I know that he is fighting now and is not going to give up easily.  I wish I was able to stand with him and fight now.  John is a great man, a great father, and a great christian.
 
Todd
 
 
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Jason Graklanoff

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Well stated Chris! I still apply his influences in my daily life as well. He has shaped and molded many of us over the years. 


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Dino Busalachi

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Sep 2, 2012, 10:44:17 AM9/2/12
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Hi Ellie,
How is John?

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Mark Heckler

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Sep 2, 2012, 1:34:15 PM9/2/12
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I've been thinking a lot about John since we reconnected after several years, maybe a year or so ago. Your prompting led me to put it all down into words, and I've posted it on our family's blog at http://www.thehecklers.org/2012/09/02/a-tribute/

Please let him know he is ever in our family's thoughts and prayers.

Mark, Kathy, Jennifer, Andrea, & Rebekah Heckler



Your Jersey Shore Cousins!!!

My real question was why didn’t we do this first?  Why did I go through eight months of torture and loose my blood count when I could have spent four weeks and destroyed it?  The answer is in the type of Lymphoma.  I haveLymphoblastic lymphoma, which is a very aggressive form of lymphoma and can pop up anywhere.  Dr. Needles, my oncologist, is very familiar with this cancer and sought to ensure that it remain localized; causing him use the leukemia treatment.
 
I currently have two issues, first, the tumor must be eliminated rapidly (as before) because of it’s fast rate of growth; it is likely to press my esophagus closed in three weeks.  Second, my blood count continues to lack adequate numbers and it does not appear to be capable of improving. 
 
The Radiology group has already taken their pictures and is rushing their mathematical work so that I will begin radiation treatment on Monday.  This should eliminate the tumor.  I will likely meet with the Barnes Hospital Bone Marrow group to being the process of evaluating my need for a bone marrow transplant.  It is believed that my bone marrow is sick and may be the real cause of the tumor.  It has not been infected with cancer and does not show any measurable signs of disease but it has not recovered from the 6thtreatment, which is an indication there is something wrong with it.

Patti Koehler

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Thanks to all of you for your thoughts and prayers for John's recovery. 
 
He continues to be in very serious condition but today we had a little good news.  His blood pressure seems to have stabilized, so they took him off of the blood pressure medicine.  He also was taken off of the respirator for about half an hour.  They are going to slowly try to ween him off of that and get him breathinig on his own.   That will likely take several days. 
 
They are also going to start a feeding tube to get him some nutrition.  This should give him protein and glucose, which he needs to continue his recovery.
 
I'm sure your prayers have played a major role in his recovery so far, so please keep praying.  His bone marrow is the key to his recovery from both the C-Diff infection, and his lymphoma.  Please, please keep praying that his bone marrow will somehow start working again.
 
Thanks to all of you who have brought us dinner, watched John's kids, and offered your support.  It is greatly appreciated!!
 
God Bless you all!
Patti Koehler


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D&L Amato

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Wonderful news Patti!  Thanks for the update!  We continue to keep good thoughts and prayers for strength for John's kids and all of you there.  

All our love from NJ!!!

Janet Snyder

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Yay!!!! Praise God!!! Will keep the prayers coming. :)


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Todd Nault

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Thanks for the update patti. Continued prayers. Have they suggested a bone marrow transplant? Can we find about getting on the donor list? Whatever he or the family needs just ask. 

Todd

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cpain1

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They were talking about a bone marrow transplant before the c-diff infection, but he can't have it now because he is too sick. 

 

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Debbie Schneider

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Sep 2, 2012, 9:03:56 PM9/2/12
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Patti,
That is awesome news.
I don't have your cell#.
Could you call me.
314-566-0732
Debbie

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Wendy Schoenfeldt

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Sep 2, 2012, 9:25:04 PM9/2/12
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Hi, Patti.  Sorry for the delay in responding, but we've been out of town and didn't have access to e-mail.

Sorry to hear about John's continuing battle, but he has been in our thoughts and prayers since the beginning.

Can John have visitors or is it best to call him on his cell?

Thanks,

Wendy Schoenfeldt

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Patti thanks for the update. We will continue to keep John and the family in our thoughts and prayers.

 


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Patti Koehler

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Sep 3, 2012, 5:18:19 PM9/3/12
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John is now on a feeding tube and continues on the resperator, off and on, for the time being.  They have decreased the sedative a bit so he seems to be a bit more animated, trying to open his eyes and gesturing.  He seemed to be in a little pain today and they have been administering pain meds as needed.  His blood count was a mixture of good news and bad.  His white count went up to 2.3 from 2.2 but his red count and platelets dropped, such that he had to have a transfustion for both.  The C-Diff infection continues to be problematic.   Nothing much else to report.  He continues to hold his own, but his overall condition is still quite grim.

God Bless you all for your prayers and suipport!
Patti Koehler

Erick Harlow

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Sep 3, 2012, 5:37:30 PM9/3/12
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Thanks for the update.  Please let John know we continue to pray for him, as well as his family.

Erick

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Wendy Schoenfeldt

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Patti,

Thanks for the update.  Given that the family is all here, my husband, John, and I will not visit so as not to intrude on precious family time.  Please give John a big hug from us and know that we continue to lift up him and family in our prayers.

I've already contacted Debbie to coordinate an evening meal delivery.  If there is anything else we can do to help, please let us know.

Wendy (& John) Schoenfeldt

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