Hi,
There may be 2 things being mixed up here:
- distribution of the (GPL-licensed) plugin cannot be limited, which means that if someone got your plugin, regardless of how they got it, they can use it as they like, redistribute it to others, install it on their customer sites, even set up a paying download for it on their site, etc
- you can however restrict the one-click updater to only some domains, or to a number of installs, etc What you are limiting in that case is not the distribution of the software itself, but the usage of your download infrastructure and servers.
Restricting the one-click updater access does not break the GPL (which would prevent you to get on the JED for instance), just like reserving access to the download are to paying members does not break it either.
Not only is this allowed by the GPL license, but highly encouraged (as mean to "sell" GPL software), in order to increase the production and uptake of open-source software (see:
http://www.gnu.org/philosophy/selling.en.html).
Rgds