Hi Brian,
Yesterday i went to visit my parents and an interesting conversation began. It all centered on marriage, and we were discussing the extended family. My mom started an exploratory series of different marriages in the family (extended), starting from my grandparents, uncles, aunties, and now our generation. To cut the long story short, we explored all the Mariras, my name sakes'. All of them have either more than one wife, or are divorced, or have bitten and chased away their wives, and my generation seem to be taking too long without getting married, and the young married ones have once or twice kicked their wives out of their houses. I laughed my heart out as my dad tried to defend the family, mentioning one by one. But all seemed to be plagued by one of those issues.
Anyway, my point is knowledge and understanding is key, know where you are coming from and trust God to equip you with wisdom to tackle the road ahead. As the bible says, "my people perish for lack of knowledge". Get wisdom and understanding because its interesting, the enemy uses the same issues that have plagued our forefathers to plague us. Its all over the bible, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob....all at one point presented their wives as sisters, David, Solomon, etc had a share of women issues to deal with.
BTW, where is everyone else on these thread? is it that guys dont use their emails in ushering?? Carol, Cate, Angie....
Love you bro!
Dickson.