HAHA well anything I know I learned from Synth.
So here goes: I am using a MacBook Pro running OSX Big Sur 11.2.3
I connect using qjackctl 0.3.6 and JACK version 0.92 with JackTrip version 1.3.0
I'm facile with the command window and the connections window as I've routed a quartet on my server (I have port forwarding enabled so... server chez moi).
AND I am a computer dummy. I promise. I just got really desperate to play with friends and learned enough to do this (and enough to not fix it if it ain't broke - efforts to upgrade JACK were disastrous - what we have works fine).
And so yes, if i can load a "virtual device" on my MAC (not PC - very important distinction - so glad I am not using my windows machine for JT - that's a true nightmare) then I think I get it - I could just stick our combined output to the input of that new device by routing both of our outputs to it as if it's a third person with us (who is silent) - ? OR would we route it fully, so we'd get the sound from the zoom call through this third "person" as well??
Then Zoom could use the virtual device for both input and output while we are playing - then when we are finished, if we left that connection there but muted ourselves, would we hear everyone else (just would look funny on the screen bc of the delay?)?
It does not matter what my son uses since I am the only one making the connections, right? He has the same versions of everything that I do...
The only possible downside is.... there's no latency when we play but adding in a 3rd would mean his signal in NYC to me near Philly, and our signals back to NYC from my server here. But could be ok? Hmmm. Maybe then the latency (audio/video) for the audience would not be as great (we'd still be playing together no latency as usual, if I understand correctly).
Please advise - thanks so much!
Beth