Hm, strange.
Strange indeed…
After spending more time with it, I saw that there was some lagginess in Terminal.app as well going through a straight tmux session. Not as much though.
I upgraded and downgraded tmux, tried linking with libevent and libevent2, no change. I could see nothing wrong network-wise, even upgraded pfsense to the latest just to rule out some QoS rule getting mangled in there somehow. Then I started eyeing the cable modem, which had been up for over a month and I rebooted that. Problem went away (although before and after ping times were the same, no packet loss on large packets, and speedtests showing 75/25, line usage under 1Mb/s).
I am going to try some of the debugging stuff below just for kicks to see if there’s any hint as to why the latency was worse when going through tmux.
Awesome debug info below, btw, that’s one for the archives. :)
Charles