Here is how my eldest son, Murari Das, defended his mother and sister:
Murari: Regarding <https://truthseekers108.wixsite.com/home/blog/costa-rica>, I just read through it and checked the attached references. I do not know whether Mayapur and Phalguni had a "secret affair" or not, but there are a few things in the blog post that are wrong or misrepresented.
Me: The point is that Mayapur has proven that he's as mentally disturbed as I suspected right from the start. Your mother, because of her insane attachment to him, has embarrassed a lot of people, especially her immediate family. You are her eldest son. Her only hope is to give you and/or Keshava complete control over her assets!
Murari:
For example, it says, "Both hosts’ replies confirmed that he had a woman with him." The attached conversations don't support that, however. In one, the host says, "I only saw his profile picture" and so doesn't actually know who stayed in the house. The fact is that Mayapur's Airbnb profile picture at the time was of him and his daughter. The other host doesn't say much at all, although the blog post claims that she "saw them and confirmed [various details]".
Me:
But what is the result? A crazy wedding video of Mayapur marrying another man's wife! If your mother and Campaka had any brains, they would have nothing more to do with Mayapur! I recommend that your family and Keshava's family have nothing more to do with your mother or Campaka until they agree to cut off all contact with Mayapur! Also, there's no way that they'll take you seriously until you and/or Keshava take complete control of their assets!
Murari: I'm thinking more about the issue of whether people are lying. Since this blog post is making incorrect claims, it's probably not the best source to use for the truth. The post talks about an email being sent from the Costa Rican timezone, but gets it wrong. Costa Rica's timezone is -6, and email was sent from a -5 timezone. The -7 timezone in the email is Pacific time, which is just the time of the email servers.
Me: Why did your mother yell at your wife for even suggesting that Campaka get a divorce, and then saying it's OK for her to get a divorce? Why did your mother send you the wedding video like she was proud of it, and then cause it to be taken down when it was posted on YouTube?
Murari:
Regarding the divorce, there is a difference. It's like if you "quit your job", that could mean leaving the company, but it could also mean you are no longer an employee and continue to work for the company as a contractor. I did that once when I wanted to switch to part-time work while I went to school.
Me: Are Mayapur and Phalguni going to get legally married?
Murari: I don't know what their plans are.
Me: Jayapataka said that they must get legally married. Wasn't that the reason for the divorce?
Murari: [No reply]
This exchange confirms what I suspected: That my daughter's divorcing her husband doesn't mean that she no longer regards him as her husband. Now she is a "part-time" wife, whatever that means! Campaka's guru's, Bir Krishna's, excuse for her getting a divorce is that
Phalguni's guru, Jayapataka, said that she and Mayapur must be legally married in order to live together in the Holy Dham. Will they ever get legally married? Probably not, since Urmila and Mayapur regard themselves as being much more spiritual advanced than any silly ISKCON guru!
Your servant, Pratyatosa Das