Dude, your missing the point. The monkey might look stupid at first,
but rather than having the right tools handed to him, he gets the
reward of figuring something out for himself. Whatever happened to the
"it's the journey that counts stuff"? And guess what, the monkey
becomes better at problem solving with experience.
OK, here are the two paths. The one with minimal teacher interaction
involves trying to figure it out for yourself. Maybe you can figure
out from the beginners book how to play the simple folk songs, maybe
not. If not, a lesson or two should give you enough to practice,
particularly for someone who knows how to practice, for a long time.
You shouldn't even be touching honkyoku before you can really play.
That crap is like Mozart, yes you throw it in front of your kid to see
if you might have a prodigy on your hands, but to be realistic most
people aren't going to ever master that stuff. Even the "beginner"
piece, kyorie, has a Ro dai meri in there. It can take years to play
that note reliably. That means if you start there you aren't going to
be able to play it without a blatant mistake for years. The minimal
teacher method, if you do it right, has you playing simple stuff until
it sounds beautiful, and you have it memorized and the song becomes
something you know intimately. You can sing it, sometimes if you start
it on a different note you can still play it in the new key and
surprise yourself in doing so. That means you finally learned the
song. Outside listeners hear this, it sounds like something you
learned, not something you're learning. I started with the children's
song, Toryansi, it sounds incredible now. Rinse and repeat for a lot
of simple songs, maybe you'll be happy with that forever, after all,
you learned how to play.
Now, an example of the typical teacher path. First, there's a
repertoire already laid out for you. Not necessarily songs you know
and love, but most likely will progress from easy to hard. OK, this is
going to take a long time, so the teacher says, "hey you understand
what you have to do play song number X, let's move onto song number
Y". You say "but wait, I haven't memorized it yet and it's fraught
with mistakes". "That's OK" teacher says, "keep practicing that one
and I'll teach you another one with some new stuff to challenge you".
"But wait", you say, "it's going to take a lot of practice to make
this sound good, and I like it". So, teacher says, "Hey what do you
want, for me to listen to you play that every lesson that's a waste of
my time, I told you all you need to know to play it, you understand
it, let's move on". So you say great, and unless you can magically
scrape up more time to practice, you might as well forget about that
song. In the end you end up "learning" a whole bunch of songs you
can't play. It's not a total loss, when you get discouraged because it
seems you've been studying with this teacher too long and still can't
play anything all the way through, maybe you'll just give up the
lessons and go back to that first simple song and work it up so it
sounds awesome. That's if you understand what happened and don't just
give up completely.
Some of the best musicians I've heard are sheep herders (not
shakuhachi, but various ney-like flutes, those Mongolian throat-singer/
musicians, and D'Gary from Madagascar on guitar). Do you really think
those guys got there skills from lessons. It's mostly about the
practice.
And as an aside, in my entire 40 years of studying music, with various
teachers and instruments but mostly flute, I only came across one
teacher (well.., there's another I only took one lesson from) who
didn't speak down to me. Coincidentally, that teacher brought me back
to the simpler pieces, taught me how to practice, and kept me on those
pieces until they sounded good. I would've quit that teacher early if
he didn't get me sounding halfway decent early, even though the pieces
were awful beginner-ish.