initially endowed with positive qualities

[International Adoption]

If you will be difficult to analyse it, try then
to predict what will do or say the child in the next five minutes.
Say something to him or her, for example: "I really wonder what
you now happening" -- and see whether it managed to you to guess what
will be his or her answer. If you managed to predict precisely it, be glad
the fact that you were right; if were mistaken, be glad unpredictability and
the unexpectedness of the answer/
     Think about how to aspire to what he wants your child. Please
attention, do you, when you think about it, even the slightest
understanding of the child and the wish that he had what he wanted. This feeling--
the wish that the child had or was doing, what he wants, and was whom wants, and is
one of the manifestations of that love and that pleasure about which we tell you.
 The third step that you can do that(CL to show their love
to the child,-- modify your own thoughts and beliefs. This step
is extremely important, because belief between people and their
actions are very closely inter-linked. Without realizing it
circumstances, we have consistently and continually behave in ways that confirm
by their actions the truth of their own inner beliefs. In other words,
if you believe that your child (or you) a bad, helpless or cowardly,
you, completely without realizing it, will behave so as to make
your child (or yourself). On the other hand, if you
convinced that he or she is initially endowed with positive qualities,
able to make the right decisions and independently to direct own
life, you inevitably and with little effort will and influence
the child in this direction. Even if not to utter
one word, the child still learns your opinion of him is already one,
how you behave, and will seriously take this view,
because you are his parent. And over time will make this opinion and its
own conviction. And then and behave in accordance with it.

[Mark Segal]

"Well no, our children in old clothes do not go, with some even by disgust
I said a "decent mother". We throw away junk". It's about almost
new wool sweaters, dresses, coats and trousers, of which children are so
rapidly grow! I think in the children  brought up, on the one
hand, the worship of things - the attitude towards her as a symbol of prestige, and on the other
- disregard for things as the bearer of human labor. Children receive
at the same time double lesson - lesson lesson of greed and wastefulness. And those who
she goes on hikes and ride bicycles in "inherited" outfits
not remain in the loser. First of all, in the moral sense.

[Mark Segal]

Not ashamed of the remaining slices of bread to dry
flavored breadcrumbs, and dried a loaf of bread to turn into toast rosy. And not
be sure to pronounce solemn speeches and remind the children about
harsh the war. It is enough to use short and did not
shame the word "sorry".