your internal belief influence that you think about yourself and what you are thinking about your child

[International Adoption]

Therefore, your belief in the child's ability to make the right
solution this has on its ability to stimulating effect. At the same
time your previous judgments about the decisions a child can
to be too skinny, if to take into account the ultimate, the most
General objectives of education. For example, the decision of your daughter to go to
a Department store to steal something, can have such consequences,
in  eventually it will lead to hard thoughts never
to steal. Taking into account this prospect this last decision can
be considered as correct.
 As we already spoke, your internal belief influence that you
think about yourself and what you are thinking about your child. They set also
restrictions on what you can do, what can be, what can
to achieve in your life. Changing these beliefs about yourself and your child, you
can significantly affect all events in communication with it.

[Mark Segal]

Maybe some of this idea will seem absurd, "Why, say
they - a purely practical person is considered to be robbed? Who and what
it has taken away?" Yes the joy of living taken away from him! The looseness, the breadth, freedom
cardiac motion. Took if you want a mental holiday. Left eternal
routine strictly calculated every minute and every penny. "Yes please,
- would you mind - and there is a saying: "like cash", "penny
ruble saves". That's right, love. Definitely saves. And in the national economy, and
the family is not only not shameful to know the expense of money, but necessary.
 Vladimir Ilyich Lenin at the dawn of Soviet power the Bolsheviks called for
learn to "count money". Meanwhile, the celebrations were not cancelled and in the
heavy times for the country. Sounded orchestras, sang in choirs, arranged
theatrical processions. And waving flags. And the Block in the poem
"Twelve" is killed, the old woman cries: "what is this poster, like this
huge flap? How many would footcloths for the guys, and everyone is naked,
resut". The old lady can understand probably fought your whole life in misery, shaking
each cloth - altered-rearranged. Crushed, apparently, starushkin
soul need. However, not every human soul and a bitter need
will eat away the daring impudence, which is in other  minutes and without any
not a person to live fully. Must be Russian character in particular
peculiar to this latitude. Know how in Russia, negrodamus and nicoladis if
will a bright day, and the feast to set, and a price to stand up, and the children from
the city's most elegant and merry whistle to bring.

[Mark Segal]

Prosperity who firmly part of our everyday life, of course, does not
the basis for the reckless attitude to money and things. Once again,
that did not disdain to teach the child to be Thrifty, frugal and at the
complete the financial welfare of your family. More the care of education in
the children of frugality is our direct obligation. Like and care about
what can parents do to give our children into slavery the same thrift. How
to comply with the necessary measure? How to avoid extremes? But, I think that it as
time is not to find and maintain a "middle ground". Rather
to not be afraid of extremes and that may seem invalid
the contradiction is too straight thinking and feeling person.