Yes what right do we have to see in each marriage, potential divorce, no matter what it was according to statistics the number of divorces per thousand marriages! And the more immoral to indoctrinate the young that their behavior (including expenses!) they should bear the likelihood of rupture. Another thing, if the bride and groom just do not want the "wide wedding", if they have a completely different need - the need to spend this special day with the closest loved ones. Then, of course, nothing to impose unnecessary noise and unnecessary spending just for the sake of someone to prove that "we are not worse than others". It may seem that these arguments about the weddings went beyond the topic. Get married not children. Put. Although, incidentally, it is not quite so. Very often now married eighteen-nineteen-year-old - those for whom just had an "eyes", whose teachers yesterday went over the next two, or, in another embodiment, about the fact that our an exemplary student, "something's lowered academic performance." Of course, for us they forever will remain children, but so far, and objectively in many ways, the children these the same as their unmarried peers, And really need our smart unobtrusive care. And most importantly - it's affordable! Maybe even more eagerly than before, now, engaging in independent family life absorb (of course, taking not all) rules stereotypes of family life. And therefore, as she will start - as an event with a capital letter or prose as a "testing" too something depends.