Article - Out Of Box Thinking!
Mr. Zeeshan Sajwani
While going to the highways, it was all fun but while impending back to the city, all of us were more like dead bodies. It was 4:30 A.M. Our journey undo was all quite and calm. This gave a strike of out of box thinking formula.
I was all wondered pertaining to the common dilemma of life, fight between mind, body and the soul, that I have been facing and of course we all, you and they too. But I happened to discover a few opinions certain by inner psyche supremacy.
Trust me; human mind has a miracle power. When we deeply observe happenings around us, we naturally come to know the real facts of the story. This is called judgmental call.
I believe in looking reality straight in the eye and denying it. This is the best formula to keep you in peace. You cannot ignore your thoughts and evil mind as it's natural but you can learn to fight with them.
I tell you a deep experience today, if we merely let our mind think or focus on any particular misfortune or an accident of life, we simply hand-over control of our mind to the evil-forces to control us. The best formula is to IGNORE the thoughts or learn to live with the reality of life. There is no other choice.
Belief and Trust: There are two ways to slide easily through life: the one is to believe everything and the other one is to doubt everything; both ways save us from thinking.
Now the judgmental call is that which idea is better? To doubt everything or to believe everything. I cannot convince my opinion herewith; as it is pre-natural with circumstances. But don't forget that the only way to be in the peace is "Doubt Everything" or "Believe Everything". There is no other choice.
Believe those who are seeking the truth; doubt those who find it. You know why? You might not understand this but I tell you that no body in this spicy world speaks a hundred percent of truth. If somebody is confident on any statement or commitment, I tell you doubt him/her; but if somebody is not established on his / her promise, you may still build your trust. You will be only betrayed by convinced and elegant people but never be deceived by the perplexed people.
Faith is not belief. Belief is passive. Faith is active. The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen. But these all are two-way traffic. We necessitate to facilitate each other believe and trust. I may not trust on God if any day I find the reason of standing sky without support or maybe any scientific formula of a philosophy that why every fruit has a different plant or the tree.
Let's not make it bore, here is a wonderful quote "When men destroy their old Gods they will find new ones to take their place" I don't know who said this but it is wonderful. This is human psychology that they allow alike people to hit you once already even being betrayed of them. The best way here is the judgmental call.
Confusions / Doubts: You always admire what you really don't understand. This is a great drawback of human beings. Earlier I already said that there are two only ways to keep you in peace:
A) Direct Trust everything
B) Direct Doubt everything
Confusions and semi-doubts bring unhappiness and mystified circumstances of life. The best formula is to ask the questions if you have the courage to listen to what you don't really want to hear. This is the drawback with me that I don't have the courage to hear what I don't want to, but still I ask question and get stuck in to my own made parable or prison of thoughts.
But I suggest you to ask question because the one who ask question is a fool for a few minutes but the one who does not make question remains a fool forever. This is not simply justified with your own life. Ask questions, you will hurt yourself only but you will not remain a fool forever.
I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and an end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. It is a delicious ambiguity.
People always seemed to know half of history, and to get it confused with the other half. The best formula of asking question may help you learn the complete story that might took you out from the confusions and hard feelings.
Restlessness and discontent are the first necessities of progress. It is fine if you are ever confused but always remember that everything has got a moral, if only you can find it.
Forgiveness / Forget it: Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names. Isn't it amazing or disturbing statement? Yes, it is. I tell you something which is very very important if you desire a peaceful life. You should forgive everything but not every time. Sometimes forgiveness may bring you unhappiness. It is good if you forgive people but it should not be on the cost of only self-survive.
Everyone has a different opinion and set of thoughts but the lesson I learned from the life is very simple and having my own set of justification. It is that if you forgive anyone again and again, he / she multiply his / her efforts to betray you and keep you unaware of the happening of surrounding which is danger sign.
I have learned that if I cannot forgive the repeatedly proceedings of someone and discharging duties of his/her, I can at least forget it. This formula of ignorance helps me be in peace of my mind.
Freedom: This is the core of human psychology. You can only protect your liberties in this world by protecting the other man's freedom. The biggest mistake we ever make is focusing on limitations of someone's freedom. I have learned that the more you control freedom of anyone – the more you call for betrays. You should not lock anyone's freedom. Let him / her go and feel the way they want to.
Talking to a lady; said, "I cannot change my nature – you cannot change your nature". It happened very long time ago on a professional consultancy but I never understood that. Today, I realize that the madam was perfectly alright that we cannot change our natures.
Remember that when liberty of any one is taken by force, it may bring you disasters to face. Learn that the average man does not want to be free; he simply wants to be safe.