Examine the word "Love"

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Aug 17, 2007, 5:02:33 AM8/17/07

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Hi everyone on my page! Hmm I decided to write something on the word
"Love". I will write something simple and will not use bombastic
words to impress you as this is just not me. I have to confess I do
not have that many bombastic words in my dictionary storage space.

What is written here might be of difference in some people'
perspective because of "System" differences. But this write up is of
no harm, just for pure fun of setting the thoughts for reflection.

I am not sure how many of us could ask a question to ourselves in this
busy era where everyone is busy striving or for some just "passing by"
for things we want in life. The Question is "When have I have a good
look into others "eyes" for a minute or two for connection into our
"Soul"? (It is magical! I guaranteed you! )

The magic about being connected to others give us emotions,
understanding, love, peace dissolve many differences we have in us.
There are unhealthy patterns in us at times during my experiences in
life and from our environment. In every one of us, there are
authority figures, a child and adult. The adults in us are neutral,
kids are kids who are innocent and pure and the authority figures are
the one in command. We switch roles in different sort of situation to
cope with what our wants and needs.

Sometimes or many of times, we could see "kids" in everyone and I am
excited to see them in all growth up adults even the senior citizens.
There are times where I see some of these "kids" are stuck in certain
process of the growing up years which lead to many complicating issues
in their adult life. Some are afraid of love, of intimacy and
belonging etc. How could we deal with these issue in life when
connect what is written about the "word" love?

First of all, from the perspective of love, we do not want to
complicate it with other environment factors such as work, life
situation or complicate it with favors of religions. Let us look at
the word "Love" itself as human. The following are what some people
would ask me or tell me as follows:

1. How is it possible? You must be kidding or
2. The world is so competitive, that could only done so with people I
love as my own family and friends or
3. In the modern world, perspectives are different people just strive
for survival for need and wants of the material needs
4. I am someone who love my family, friends, colleagues or
5. I love people I wanted to love or
6. I cant love who I do not etc
7. Oh I do not need to do so of connection with people I do not know,
why should I do that? etc etc

We do not want the usual guidelines of what love is all about as every
one of us would know. The usual ones are Love is patience, Love is
kind, Love is not jealous; love is not blah blah blah. We like and
want the Process of it.

Process is important and I do not mean that these usual "Love is" is
no good. In fact they are great reminder and wonderful guides on how
love should be shown or managed with everyone around us as possible
regardless relationship in parent-child., work, spouse to spouse or
girl-boy relationship etc.

Every one of us somewhat or somehow been through love, we been in love
before with the people we known or we have not really know. Ever
thought why some marriage, relationship broke down in the midst of non-
communicative way that would lead to misconceptions, hurt and more
hurt?

Ever wonder why some people because mismanagement of their love had
lost their faith in the word "Love" and they became "believer" of
themselves which the first love nourishes and nurture them
emotionally, mentally or even physically in the beginning?