Can words alone cause sufficient harm to require consent from listeners

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Trevor Watkins

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Oct 6, 2024, 5:21:10 AM10/6/24
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An interesting debate arose on the Libertarian whatsapp group regarding the "harm" of words.  Like most discussions on whatsapp, the subject quickly moved on and was forgotten without adequate exploration.

I think it would be useful to try and come to a consensus on whether words alone may  require the  consent of listeners before being uttered, or may be punished by some sanction after being uttered.

Viv Vermaak had this to say: "I don’t like this ‘how did I harm you? Sue me!’ argument of you guys. It doesn’t feel well thought through. How do you define ‘harm’? =Honestly. It can’t just all be;”Well, nobody held a gun to your head.” arguments. Being human is nuanced. Words count, ideologies count. Honesty, dignity, compassion, FREEDOM, respect., authenticity. These are valuable to humans, to defend and protect without ‘HARM’  coming into an argument.

Trevor responded: "Harm: For an action resulting in harm against another to require the consent of the other, then that action  must be immediate in time and space, must  have significant consequences for the other, and must have physical reality.
Words do not constitute harm, no matter how snowflakey the recipient. Your ideolology does not constitute harm, no matter how dumb or repugnant. I might say the intellectual sloppiness of your position caused me actual harm, really, but that is BS. If words caused actual harm, the Ukrainians would probably be much more shouty."

What do you think? 


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Stephen vJ

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Oct 6, 2024, 1:55:53 PM10/6/24
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Words can definitely harm. The primary cause of anorexia is words. Words are a contributing factor in depression and suicide. A plethora of issues stem from or are fueled on by words, including many addictions and compulsive behaviors. A school friend of mine stuttered and it was quite obvious that his stutter was caused by his father's words.

Do or should the people affected by harmful words have any legal recourse ? Maybe, but how do you prove it ? Sometimes it is not the words as such, but the tone, the repetition or the accompanying hand gestures. Proof is extremely hard and looking at woke culture the harm word do can easily be blown out of proportion and turn into a witch hunt.

Like the difference between rape and rough sex, the harm words do can make for several compelling episodes of Law & Order. There sure is a stack of ambiguity, subjectivity and grey are to work with.

Should we ask for consent before uttering words ? I don't think that is even a valid question. My stuttering friend's father was thoroughly convinced that his words were true and just and necessary. He would say that they came from a place of caring and he would not have thought for a second that they could cause harm... yet they did.

Sometimes people do harm unknowingly or by accident. Consent is not relevant in those cases.

Stephen.

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Jim Powell

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Oct 6, 2024, 2:22:50 PM10/6/24
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Statements and Responses

 

This first thing to do is to take an attitude towards the person of questioning

 

Statement: F**k off. Reply with who and where?

Statement: I don’t give a s**t. Reply: you will put on weight, hmmmmm

Statement: You are such a smart arse. Reply: I would never reveal my arse to you, you must have been looking at someone else’s

 

There are others that do not come to mind immediately. Take a neutral and comedic stance to the abuser.

 

I would like to expand repertoire, any ideas?

 

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Words can definitely harm. The primary cause of anorexia is words. Words are a contributing factor in depression and suicide. A plethora of issues stem from or are fueled on by words, including many addictions and compulsive behaviors. A school friend of mine stuttered and it was quite obvious that his stutter was caused by his father's words.

 

Do or should the people affected by harmful words have any legal recourse ? Maybe, but how do you prove it ? Sometimes it is not the words as such, but the tone, the repetition or the accompanying hand gestures. Proof is extremely hard and looking at woke culture the harm word do can easily be blown out of proportion and turn into a witch hunt.

 

Like the difference between rape and rough sex, the harm words do can make for several compelling episodes of Law & Order. There sure is a stack of ambiguity, subjectivity and grey are to work with.

 

Should we ask for consent before uttering words ? I don't think that is even a valid question. My stuttering friend's father was thoroughly convinced that his words were true and just and necessary. He would say that they came from a place of caring and he would not have thought for a second that they could cause harm... yet they did.

 

Sometimes people do harm unknowingly or by accident. Consent is not relevant in those cases.

 

Stephen.


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An interesting debate arose on the Libertarian whatsapp group regarding the "harm" of words.  Like most discussions on whatsapp, the subject quickly moved on and was forgotten without adequate exploration.

 

I think it would be useful to try and come to a consensus on whether words alone may  require the  consent of listeners before being uttered, or may be punished by some sanction after being uttered.

 

Viv Vermaak had this to say: "I don’t like this ‘how did I harm you? Sue me!’ argument of you guys. It doesn’t feel well thought through. How do you define ‘harm’? =Honestly. It can’t just all be;”Well, nobody held a gun to your head.” arguments. Being human is nuanced. Words count, ideologies count. Honesty, dignity, compassion, FREEDOM, respect., authenticity. These are valuable to humans, to defend and protect without ‘HARM’  coming into an argument.

 

Trevor responded: "Harm: For an action resulting in harm against another to require the consent of the other, then that action  must be immediate in time and space, must  have significant consequences for the other, and must have physical reality.

Words do not constitute harm, no matter how snowflakey the recipient. Your ideolology does not constitute harm, no matter how dumb or repugnant. I might say the intellectual sloppiness of your position caused me actual harm, really, but that is BS. If words caused actual harm, the Ukrainians would probably be much more shouty."

 

What do you think? 

 

 

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The issue is whether the use of words alone can cause material harm. No one disputes that words can annoy, or embarass, or enrage others. They can also inspire, motivate and stimulate. But can the words cause material harm, as opposed to the ACTIONS of the  dumb-asses who hear them? 

Should certain words be banned? Should punishment be meted out for mere words? I will concede that words, any words, uttered above 150dB may be harmful, depending on distance and direction, and consent should be required for their use.  I am all in favour of quite powerful words being used in retaliation against words you might find offensive, but I vehemently oppose physical punishment for mere words.

It is mostly a matter of practicality and justiciability. The injustices that arise when mere words are constrained by force are on display for all to see in Starmer's dystopian Britain. How would you obtain the consent of every listener to every word uttered at a Trump rally, or a Harris rally for that matter.  Whose permission do I need to write these words?

If you truly believe that mere words can cause real world, physical harm, send me a few and I will tell you if I bleed.

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I have always preferred the phrase "Go forth and multiply" to the cruder equivalent.

Sid Nothard

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Words can cause immense damage to young people.

If parents and/or teachers keep telling a kid he is no good, his subconscious will eventually absorb that as a truth, and that’s most likely the way his life will turn out. Completely wrecked. So how does one get justice for that?

 

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The issue is whether the use of words alone can cause material harm. No one disputes that words can annoy, or embarass, or enrage others. They can also inspire, motivate and stimulate. But can the words cause material harm, as opposed to the ACTIONS of the  dumb-asses who hear them? 

 

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Gabri Rigotti

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Oct 7, 2024, 7:40:35 AM10/7/24
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There is a massive real world difference between direct physical harm, and emotional harm.


Yes, emotional harm may be considered to manifest indirectly as physical harm, such as a bullied tormented nerd in an American high school reaching a point where he (almost always a biological male “white”, but still a he even if with pronouns) uses a gun or rifle to take out his “tormentors”.


That is one example. 


Another is stuttering as a result of being emotionally abused by a parent or teacher or by the bullies in the school yard, jocks and popular girls alike.


However, a real world solution firstly should require dealing with the vast ascertainable harm, the prevailing physical harm.


This occurs in theatres of war or in daily life, Cape Town being the homicide capital of Africa, and one of the dozen or so most violent cities in the world.


South Africa arguably one of the world leaders in rape.


Worrying about words right now is merely rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic instead of ensuring there is no flotilla of icebergs in its way.


To push the cliche, a world where physical harm is allowed only with consent of the individual enduring the physical harm is where our Titanic should rather be steering for, seeking to avoid the mass of floating icebergs that would otherwise sink us.


We can ascertain in a substantially objective observable way when physical harm is taking place.


For example, smoking is harm but with consent. The smoker agrees to purchase the potentially cancer inducing cigarettes.


Drinking is the same, the individual who chooses to have, be it a glass of red wine or a bottle of meths, is consenting to the risk of harm.


The HCR (Harm Consent Rule) is not contravened by the voluntary act of smoking or drinking.


However, by scientifically sampling ourselves, in an ongoing discovery of the “Nature of Us”, the NoU, it can be shown that the vast majority of us will succumb to the physical harm of say , an identifiable threshold of asbestos fibres in the air that we breathe.


The sample will yield a mean, a standard deviation and a standard error.


A real world achievable ethical, moral and legal standard can be thus established from the NoU, that a threshold of asbestos fibres in the air that will cause say 95% of us to get cancer, about twice the standard deviation from the mean, should be considered as harm without consent if we do not have a choice about whether or not we wish to breathe in these fibres.


Thus your next door neighbour setting up an asbestos product manufacturing plant with workers who consent to the harm that they will potentially incur is violating the HCR, your right to not be physically harmed without your consent.


The HCR coupled to the NoU provides the basis for a real world enforceable solution to deterring physical harm without consent.


Thus to argue that the neighbour is acting within the permissible scope of the “free market” is disingenuous.


The free market, the genuine enforced version thereof instead of the myriad of false instances claimed by a myriad of vested interests, would not ethically or morally or legally allow the neighbour to spew asbestos fibres into your lungs without your consent.


Relative to physical harm, HCR coupled to the NoU is objective.


What about words and emotional harm?


The NoU would also show that the vast majority of us are neither outlier uber egoists nor outlier uber altruists.


Compassion is a natural selection attribute, it stimulates collaboration, and is what it is because Nature shaped us so.


Whether one is egotistically inclined or altruistically inclined is neither sin nor virtue.


We are a bell shaped curve when it comes to Compassion, uber egoists to the right and uber altruists to the left.


That is where Ayn Rand is wrong, with her “Nature of Man”, the NoM, and her insistence that any instance of altruism is ethically and morally wrong.


She however did have the courage to stand up against the collective madness of altruism, the support of violent altruism, and to state that acting in one’s rational self interest, even if it be egoist, is neither unethical or immoral (... provided the HCR is not violated of course).


She regrettably over-corrected by then declaring that any instance of altruism, even if not violent, is immoral.


What she effectively did is project herself, as but a mere instance of us, as the nature of us.


With Ayn Rand the challenge however is to not throw the baby out with the bathwater. How she lived her life is her business, but that she erred with her “NoM” is business that we all have skin in.


Why I am pointing this out is that in a genuine free market, the jocks and popular girls and otherwise slimgatte who torment and bully others would tend to find that schools with rules against both their physical and mental bullying would be in demand and the popular girls and their jocks would have far fewer victims to prey upon as the tormented abandon their school yards for kinder alternatives.


The popular girls and jocks are mostly products of their parents, in the sense of biology and upbringing, and also of culture e.g. a white racist would consider blacks inferior, an Islamist would consider infidels inferior. Both examples would be supremacists viewing inferiors with contempt and as targets for emotionally hurtful words if not direct physical harm.


However, most of us have a sufficiency of compassion in us, purely a prevailing outcome of natural selection, and we would not encourage the rampant behaviour of the popular girls and their jocks in schools where our children go to, these emotional predators would be in time expelled and sent to the schools that the free market would provide because their parents would have to pay for their behaviour to be tolerated if not encouraged … or we would send our children to schools that would not tolerate their bullying.


There would thus arguably be far fewer, if any, armed “white” Incels massacring their fellow learners.


The free market shakes it all out … the genuine version only, of course, not the diluted faux versions that typically are shaped to advance specific interests.


There would thus be no need to go down the “rabbit hole” of words and harm …


All one needs for a real world outcome is the HCR coupled to the NoU … 





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Trevor Watkins

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Bravo! I agree completely.

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Gabri Rigotti

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Thank you Trevor 😊👍👌

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We have so many real consent violations to deal with, why manufacture fake ones?
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Stephen van Jaarsveldt

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Oct 7, 2024, 10:49:10 AM10/7/24
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Holy cow ! What bullshit !

Gabri starts with: "emotional harm may be considered to manifest indirectly as physical harm" - which missed the point, seeing as emotional harm is in and of itself real harm. In fact, what is harm other than hurt feelings ? If you are raped or your property taken, so what ? The real underlying issue is that those violations hurt your feelings. I say physical harm is fake ! Under all physical harm lies feelings and emotions and that is what really matters. But I digress...

He then says: "However, a real world solution firstly should require dealing with the vast ascertainable harm, the prevailing physical harm."... and goes straight into a repetition of how HCR is great for dealing with physical harm... then "Worrying about words right now is merely rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic"... so completely side-steps the issue of emotional harm. This is such a blatant dismissal of the topic at hand, I had to read it three times to make sure I'm not misreading it.

Then several more paragraphs follows about physical harm, which we can all agree on, but has little or nothing to do with the topic at hand... a glimmer of hope appears at "What about words and emotional harm?" but then several paragraphs follow on human nature and a critique of Ayn Rand... which, again, we can probably all agree with, but is totally off topic...

He then ends with "we would send our children to schools that would not tolerate their bullying" which suggests a) maybe Gabri thinks victims of emotional harm are just weak and / or b) he thinks emotional harm is only relevant when it manifests physically i.e. someone with depression is not really suffering, at least not until they start shooting at those around them.

If this is true, it reeks of fossil. My grandfather was of the opinion that mental illness is a choice, a sort of short-coming of character which can be blamed on the mentally ill person themselves. He saw it as a punishable defect of character rather than a medical condition. That is an antiquated and erroneous way of thinking which I am shocked to see here. I hope I'm wrong.

Gabri ends with "There would thus be no need to go down the “rabbit hole” of words and harm" having completely avoided the topic, yet still coming to a conclusion, and "All one needs for a real world outcome is the HCR coupled to the NoU" to which he gets an "Amen brother" from Trevor, as if there was an argument with substance. Echo chamber much ?

Wow.

I trust my words here made no difference to the world, since words apparently have no consequence.

S.

Stephen van Jaarsveldt

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Good question Sid. I hope we find an answer, because this has me stumped. It looks like therapy and medication helps, but those are applied after the fact. I think what we're looking for is some way to avoid and prevent the damage done by words before it happens. I have no idea how one would do that... but I do get the sense that the world is becoming a softer and more accommodating place, so maybe the damage done by words is being naturally reduced as a  side-effect or coincidental consequence of material improvement in the world. Maybe having more things allows us to develop also in non-material ways which eventually make us more demure and mindful.

S.


Gabri Rigotti

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Hi Stephen


I think that you have conclusively proven that this forum is no echo chamber 😂 …


Holy cow ! What bullshit !” should leave no doubt of that!


I think we ironically have some common points of agreement though.


Your grandfather for example. His despicable view of persons with mental disabilities.


Our daughter suffered vaccine damage from her MMR plus the Hepatitis B that was administered to her when she was about a year old.


She is mentally challenged and has a rare form of light sensitive epilepsy as a result that confined her to our home indoors for years during the daylight. 


A compassionate Soul, the wife of an optometrist, as well as his business administrator conceived of an optical solution for her, sort of like a Lorenzo’s Oil story … 


Compassion like this lady has is a beautiful energy, even if it leads one to act altruistically which is anathema for Ayn Rand cult followers.


Fortunately our daughter is full of joy, she has a musical appreciation ear second to none and enjoys a spectrum of music from Boccelli to gangsta rap.


Of course there is a lot of hurt that comes with this, the stares, the look downs, the contempt from many who do not immediately realise the condition … you see, our daughter is beautiful and looks very “normal”.


Hypothetically your grandfather could have been there restraining her as she ran into a major food retail store one day and grabbed muffins for a dear friend of ours and started running out without paying. 


The store attendant that intervened was wonderfully Compassionate but I think your grandfather would have been the type to have physically restrained her and called the police on the basis that her condition was no excuse.


I absolutely detest people like that.


I am not sure about you but I endured the popular girls and jock taunts and ridicule in primary school and also for a couple of years into high school as well.


I was a fat wop or eyetie until then you see, a spaghetti muncher and we had lost the war and Italian tanks only had reverse gears …


In Standard 6 I came second to last in the school cross country, only ahead of the fattest boy.


Two years later I came second in a far far bigger high school.


I ended up marrying the most beautiful girl of that school, but really she is probably one of the most beautiful women who have ever walked this planet.


Some of the members here have met her so they can attest that this is not just more “bullshit” on my part.


I guess it was the weight training and the fitness regime that helped me prevail against my tormentors at school.


Like a male version of the Ugly Duckling.


Yes words hurt, I know too well how hurtful words are, no question about that … I totally agree with you on that, another common point of agreement between us.


Fortunately for me I took to weights and running and eating healthily and the jocks ended up having to stare at my six pack and my wings and my deltoids and basically they had to shut the fuck up.


As for the popular girls that I recall, the ones that have ended up with plastic surgery look horrific and the others are fat or wrinkled.


Oh, schadenfreude can be such a sweet beautiful thing … 😀


My mother suffered from an extremely debilitating depression, and another dear family member has an even worse one.


Your grandfather would not have tolerated us at dinner parties for sure! We would have been his worst Christmas dinner nightmare … 😂


But it is not your fault that you had the grandfather you did, I was just lucky to have the kind and gentle ones I had.


And yes, public places with family members who are either suffering from depression or who have disabilities are not great … it is not only the words by the way but the looks too, maybe the looks are worse, they really get to you, the entire body language of these critics deliver the put down with sheer utter contempt.


So, body language should also have been included in this subject, actually. Trevor, please note.


You will notice that I referred to not only jocks and popular girls but also to slimgatte.


Slimgatte can be nerd looking but even so they are not nerds.


Typically they are who they are because they just feel superior, innately. It comes with their DNA, they just know they are superior.


They can be quick on the turn of the word, and they will make statements like “Holy cow ! What bullshit !”.


They love the putdown, and in their own way they are far more malicious than the jocks and the popular girls.


Jocks and popular girls do end up getting fat and ugly and their reign of terror in the school yard eventually comes to an end.


But the slimgatte, no, they continue with their school yard bullying well after the jocks and popular girls have ended up as insignificant have-beens.


I feel for the Incels, their tormented lives at the hands of cruel human DNA.


That is also why I cannot get into the Ayn Rand “virtue of selfishness”, especially if a choice I make ends up hurting someone horribly.


Not physically, just emotionally.


So after trying to be an egoist in line with Ayn Rand and failing spectacularly at that I simply have embraced who I am, altruistic leaning, perhaps closer to the standard deviation than the mean, ok maybe on my way out there towards the altruistic outlier edge … yes, Ayn Rand will not have me in her heaven.


Fair enough, Nathaniel Brandon retreated out of her heaven too …


In your Holy cow ! What bullshit !” slimgat put down you however then say to Sid that you do not have answers!


In fact if I look at the general line of your thinking there is never an answer in any of your views, just nebulous maybe and what ifs and you have not realised that what awaits that world view is not individualism or libertarianism or some safe pseudo liberalism but the “red tooth and claw” of Nature.


I hear especially people from the Left refer to those they disagree with on the Right as “morons”, “idiots”, and other disparaging terms for those who are mentally challenged.


And they are supposed to be people of compassion?


Do you have any idea what it must feel like to me as a father of a daughter with mental challenges when some contemptuous person uses the word idiot or moron?


In your ignorant arrogance you never even stopped to think about who I might be.


Some jerk who cares not for feelings?


I do not think you actually applied your mind to what I wrote, goodness knows what you understood, effectively comparing me to your despicable grandfather.


The incredible irony however is that maybe you are your grandfather, you hurl insults and taunts at others, you manifest your contempt … and yet here you are pretending you care about the hurt of words … 😂 … do you not get that, can you not see that, you are one of the malicious!


Yes, along with the likes of your grandfather I totally and utterly despise jocks and popular girls and slimgatte precisely because they hurt people badly, very badly, but extremely badly with their words … 


You admitted you have no solution to propose to Sid, whereas I have … a society that will tend towards ostracising and cancelling the cruel, where being jocks and popular girls and slimgatte like you is incrementally not sexy at all … 😀


Jeez, I hope I have not hurt your feelings ... naagh, to hell with that, not this time around ... 😂



Stephen vJ

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Oooh, Trevor, quick, bring the bandages ! Gabri seems to be bleeding on his keyboard ! I seem to have touched a nerve, despite being miles away and using only my words. Wow, so many insults... and going after my bigoted, abusive, cheating, neanderthal of a grandfather without even knowing the real extent of the guy's character flaws. Whooeee ! Look at those words go !

Gabri seems to have been so vexed by my words that he totally missed my two points. That's entirely my fault for triggering his anger with my deliberately aggressive words... and talking about him in the 3rd person like this is probably having a measurable effect on his blood pressure right about now. Thank you for demonstrating my point... I think it has been made and if it hasn't then it never will, so I'll stop now.

I was not trying to be a smart-ass or a bully - I was trying to illustrate the power of words and so far it is working far better than I anticipated. The Canadian in me almost said "sorry" just there. Thing is, I would much rather not have an answer than having the wrong answer and be fully convinced that it is correct. I appreciate that an answer is satisfying, but just because we don't have one does not mean we can simply jump to any comfortable conclusion we want. Just because I don't know why I did it doesn't mean the devil made me do it.

Incidentally, you guys are doing exactly what the lefties do when they can't see how a free market will solve a problem - they assume it won't and pull out pen & paper to start regulating because that it their default response. Just because we can't see a solution to harmful words yet, does not mean we can just leave it to god or the market or the regulators or whatever your default preferred solution is. We don't even need to find an answer - solving it is totally optional. But I cannot stand by while the wrong answer is being endorsed.

We can say that censorship and limitations on free speech is not the answer, but maybe that is as far as we can get. Dismissing the harm that words can do without a proper persuasive argument is not good enough... but that does not mean the argument cannot be made or that we will find a solution once we do. I for one will not capitulate this early in the discourse and I hope my admission of not having an answer came across with the omnipresent "not yet, anyway" attached. I should have included it.

So, once everyone has taken a nice deep breath, let's get back to ripping my two points to shreds please. As a reminder, they were:

1. Words cause harm. Physically and directly. No, I don't mean someone with a mental issue being treated like crap, I mean someone using words to induce in someone else a mental illness. Just like I made you angry, your words can make someone demotivated, depressed, suicidal, anorexic, insecure or nervous. That is real, physical harm. Trevor asked for an example - here are several. Not of blood, but a swig of anti-freeze will prove within a few days that much harm can be done without any sight of blood. If seeing blood is the definition of harm, then it follows that drinking anti-freeze will do no harm.

2. From my previous post; "... what is harm other than hurt feelings ? If you are raped or your property taken, so what ? The real underlying issue is that those violations hurt your feelings. I say physical harm is fake ! Under all physical harm lies feelings and emotions and that is what really matters.". I contend that the real harm lies entirely in the emotions associated in the harm and can be completely separated from the physical harm, which in itself is completely neutral. For example, if I destroy a piece of your property and you never find out about it, then there is no harm done.

These two arguments, by the way, are also central to understanding why Gavin may have been correct about the trolley problem after all, despite my loud protestations at the time... we are inclined to approach it from a utilitarian perspective, but it turns out utilitarianism is really bad at providing us with a good ethical framework. Hence my objection to the word "harm" in the "harm consent rule". I don't like rules and I object to the utilitarian implications of "harm", which leaves only consent... which stands quite nicely all by itself.

Secondly, these two arguments are also central to the understanding of subjective value, which is a far stronger argument for free markets and liberty than its opposite - objectivism - could ever have hoped to be. Subjectivism suggests that one person could see his village plundered and burned to the ground yet come out a stronger person, while someone else carries the emotional scars of not having their preferred pronouns respected by libertarians, the very people who used to defend the choices of any and all, regardless how fringe.

It is that difference in subjective experiences of this world that is at the core of why each individual should be the sovereign judge of their own harm and the sole granter of their own consent. Moderated of course by feedback (words & gestures) from their friends, family, employer, neighbors and Google Group buddies, for this is a social species and isolation can do as much, if not more, harm than words can.

Stephen.

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Let us start with the grandfather. To be pitied because he lacks the humanity. This is along with all those who seek superiority. Racists, homophobes etc. They lack the ability to interact on a human to human basis. If you pity someone they cannot hurt you emotionally.

 

The education systems around the world were hijacked by governments to produce skilled, subservient people. I have been cancelled a number of times because I did not go with the flow. Within me there is an inner strength that responds to unwarranted criticism with a neutral stance and questioning

 

It works

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Elisabeth Kübler-Ross emphasized the importance of personal responsibility in processing emotions, especially in the context of grief and loss. While she is well-known for her five stages of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance), the idea that "we are responsible for our own emotions" highlights a few key points:

  1. Awareness: Recognizing our emotions is the first step toward understanding and managing them.
  2. Ownership: Taking responsibility means acknowledging that our reactions to situations are influenced by our choices and perspectives.
  3. Empowerment: By understanding that we have control over our emotional responses, we empower ourselves to take constructive actions toward healing and growth.
  4. Coping Strategies: Kübler-Ross’s work encourages developing healthy coping mechanisms to deal with difficult emotions rather than being passive victims of our feelings.

This perspective encourages individuals to actively engage with their emotional experiences, leading to personal growth and resilience. (Chat GBT)

 

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The issue is whether the use of words alone can cause material harm. No one disputes that words can annoy, or embarass, or enrage others. They can also inspire, motivate and stimulate. But can the words cause material harm, as opposed to the ACTIONS of the  dumb-asses who hear them? 

 

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Agreed with this. The work of neuroscience confirms this. Thoughts, ideas and words have a direct effect on our limbic system, enodcrinology and stress response, which is a direct cause of illness and death.
I can recommend the work of Dr Robert Sapolsky and Dr GAbor Mate on this, as well as the podcasts of Dr Andrew Huberman to show the biological mechanisms.
In the absence of direct death threats like we had when the much-maligned sabre tooth tiger allegedly hunted us, our current survival responses are stress related to more subtle social cues - ie. words ampngst them. Or the absence thereof.


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Oooh, Trevor, quick, bring the bandages ! Gabri seems to be bleeding on his keyboard ! I seem to have touched a nerve, despite being miles away and using only my words. Wow, so many insults... and going after my bigoted, abusive, cheating, neanderthal of a grandfather without even knowing the real extent of the guy's character flaws. Whooeee ! Look at those words go !

Gabri seems to have been so vexed by my words that he totally missed my two points. That's entirely my fault for triggering his anger with my deliberately aggressive words... and talking about him in the 3rd person like this is probably having a measurable effect on his blood pressure right about now. Thank you for demonstrating my point... I think it has been made and if it hasn't then it never will, so I'll stop now.

I was not trying to be a smart-ass or a bully - I was trying to illustrate the power of words and so far it is working far better than I anticipated. The Canadian in me almost said "sorry" just there. Thing is, I would much rather not have an answer than having the wrong answer and be fully convinced that it is correct. I appreciate that an answer is satisfying, but just because we don't have one does not mean we can simply jump to any comfortable conclusion we want. Just because I don't know why I did it doesn't mean the devil made me do it.

Incidentally, you guys are doing exactly what the lefties do when they can't see how a free market will solve a problem - they assume it won't and pull out pen & paper to start regulating because that it their default response. Just because we can't see a solution to harmful words yet, does not mean we can just leave it to god or the market or the regulators or whatever your default preferred solution is. We don't even need to find an answer - solving it is totally optional. But I cannot stand by while the wrong answer is being endorsed.

We can say that censorship and limitations on free speech is not the answer, but maybe that is as far as we can get. Dismissing the harm that words can do without a proper persuasive argument is not good enough... but that does not mean the argument cannot be made or that we will find a solution once we do. I for one will not capitulate this early in the discourse and I hope my admission of not having an answer came across with the omnipresent "not yet, anyway" attached. I should have included it.

So, once everyone has taken a nice deep breath, let's get back to ripping my two points to shreds please. As a reminder, they were:

1. Words cause harm. Physically and directly. No, I don't mean someone with a mental issue being treated like crap, I mean someone using words to induce in someone else a mental illness. Just like I made you angry, your words can make someone demotivated, depressed, suicidal, anorexic, insecure or nervous. That is real, physical harm. Trevor asked for an example - here are several. Not of blood, but a swig of anti-freeze will prove within a few days that much harm can be done without any sight of blood. If seeing blood is the definition of harm, then it follows that drinking anti-freeze will do no harm.

2. From my previous post; "... what is harm other than hurt feelings ? If you are raped or your property taken, so what ? The real underlying issue is that those violations hurt your feelings. I say physical harm is fake ! Under all physical harm lies feelings and emotions and that is what really matters.". I contend that the real harm lies entirely in the emotions associated in the harm and can be completely separated from the physical harm, which in itself is completely neutral. For example, if I destroy a piece of your property and you never find out about it, then there is no harm done.

These two arguments, by the way, are also central to understanding why Gavin may have been correct about the trolley problem after all, despite my loud protestations at the time... we are inclined to approach it from a utilitarian perspective, but it turns out utilitarianism is really bad at providing us with a good ethical framework. Hence my objection to the word "harm" in the "harm consent rule". I don't like rules and I object to the utilitarian implications of "harm", which leaves only consent... which stands quite nicely all by itself.

Secondly, these two arguments are also central to the understanding of subjective value, which is a far stronger argument for free markets and liberty than its opposite - objectivism - could ever have hoped to be. Subjectivism suggests that one person could see his village plundered and burned to the ground yet come out a stronger person, while someone else carries the emotional scars of not having their preferred pronouns respected by libertarians, the very people who used to defend the choices of any and all, regardless how fringe.

It is that difference in subjective experiences of this world that is at the core of why each individual should be the sovereign judge of their own harm and the sole granter of their own consent. Moderated of course by feedback (words & gestures) from their friends, family, employer, neighbors and Google Group buddies, for this is a social species and isolation can do as much, if not more, harm than words can.

Stephen.

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Hi Stephen


I think that you have conclusively proven that this forum is no echo chamber \uD83D\uDE02 …


Holy cow ! What bullshit !” should leave no doubt of that!


I think we ironically have some common points of agreement though.


Your grandfather for example. His despicable view of persons with mental disabilities.


Our daughter suffered vaccine damage from her MMR plus the Hepatitis B that was administered to her when she was about a year old.


She is mentally challenged and has a rare form of light sensitive epilepsy as a result that confined her to our home indoors for years during the daylight. 


A compassionate Soul, the wife of an optometrist, as well as his business administrator conceived of an optical solution for her, sort of like a Lorenzo’s Oil story … 


Compassion like this lady has is a beautiful energy, even if it leads one to act altruistically which is anathema for Ayn Rand cult followers.


Fortunately our daughter is full of joy, she has a musical appreciation ear second to none and enjoys a spectrum of music from Boccelli to gangsta rap.


Of course there is a lot of hurt that comes with this, the stares, the look downs, the contempt from many who do not immediately realise the condition … you see, our daughter is beautiful and looks very “normal”.


Hypothetically your grandfather could have been there restraining her as she ran into a major food retail store one day and grabbed muffins for a dear friend of ours and started running out without paying. 


The store attendant that intervened was wonderfully Compassionate but I think your grandfather would have been the type to have physically restrained her and called the police on the basis that her condition was no excuse.


I absolutely detest people like that.


I am not sure about you but I endured the popular girls and jock taunts and ridicule in primary school and also for a couple of years into high school as well.


I was a fat wop or eyetie until then you see, a spaghetti muncher and we had lost the war and Italian tanks only had reverse gears …


In Standard 6 I came second to last in the school cross country, only ahead of the fattest boy.


Two years later I came second in a far far bigger high school.


I ended up marrying the most beautiful girl of that school, but really she is probably one of the most beautiful women who have ever walked this planet.


Some of the members here have met her so they can attest that this is not just more “bullshit” on my part.


I guess it was the weight training and the fitness regime that helped me prevail against my tormentors at school.


Like a male version of the Ugly Duckling.


Yes words hurt, I know too well how hurtful words are, no question about that … I totally agree with you on that, another common point of agreement between us.


Fortunately for me I took to weights and running and eating healthily and the jocks ended up having to stare at my six pack and my wings and my deltoids and basically they had to shut the fuck up.


As for the popular girls that I recall, the ones that have ended up with plastic surgery look horrific and the others are fat or wrinkled.


Oh, schadenfreude can be such a sweet beautiful thing … \uD83D\uDE00


My mother suffered from an extremely debilitating depression, and another dear family member has an even worse one.


Your grandfather would not have tolerated us at dinner parties for sure! We would have been his worst Christmas dinner nightmare … \uD83D\uDE02


But it is not your fault that you had the grandfather you did, I was just lucky to have the kind and gentle ones I had.


And yes, public places with family members who are either suffering from depression or who have disabilities are not great … it is not only the words by the way but the looks too, maybe the looks are worse, they really get to you, the entire body language of these critics deliver the put down with sheer utter contempt.


So, body language should also have been included in this subject, actually. Trevor, please note.


You will notice that I referred to not only jocks and popular girls but also to slimgatte.


Slimgatte can be nerd looking but even so they are not nerds.


Typically they are who they are because they just feel superior, innately. It comes with their DNA, they just know they are superior.


They can be quick on the turn of the word, and they will make statements like “Holy cow ! What bullshit !”.


They love the putdown, and in their own way they are far more malicious than the jocks and the popular girls.


Jocks and popular girls do end up getting fat and ugly and their reign of terror in the school yard eventually comes to an end.


But the slimgatte, no, they continue with their school yard bullying well after the jocks and popular girls have ended up as insignificant have-beens.


I feel for the Incels, their tormented lives at the hands of cruel human DNA.


That is also why I cannot get into the Ayn Rand “virtue of selfishness”, especially if a choice I make ends up hurting someone horribly.


Not physically, just emotionally.


So after trying to be an egoist in line with Ayn Rand and failing spectacularly at that I simply have embraced who I am, altruistic leaning, perhaps closer to the standard deviation than the mean, ok maybe on my way out there towards the altruistic outlier edge … yes, Ayn Rand will not have me in her heaven.


Fair enough, Nathaniel Brandon retreated out of her heaven too …


In your Holy cow ! What bullshit !” slimgat put down you however then say to Sid that you do not have answers!


In fact if I look at the general line of your thinking there is never an answer in any of your views, just nebulous maybe and what ifs and you have not realised that what awaits that world view is not individualism or libertarianism or some safe pseudo liberalism but the “red tooth and claw” of Nature.


I hear especially people from the Left refer to those they disagree with on the Right as “morons”, “idiots”, and other disparaging terms for those who are mentally challenged.


And they are supposed to be people of compassion?


Do you have any idea what it must feel like to me as a father of a daughter with mental challenges when some contemptuous person uses the word idiot or moron?


In your ignorant arrogance you never even stopped to think about who I might be.


Some jerk who cares not for feelings?


I do not think you actually applied your mind to what I wrote, goodness knows what you understood, effectively comparing me to your despicable grandfather.


The incredible irony however is that maybe you are your grandfather, you hurl insults and taunts at others, you manifest your contempt … and yet here you are pretending you care about the hurt of words … \uD83D\uDE02 … do you not get that, can you not see that, you are one of the malicious!


Yes, along with the likes of your grandfather I totally and utterly despise jocks and popular girls and slimgatte precisely because they hurt people badly, very badly, but extremely badly with their words … 


You admitted you have no solution to propose to Sid, whereas I have … a society that will tend towards ostracising and cancelling the cruel, where being jocks and popular girls and slimgatte like you is incrementally not sexy at all … \uD83D\uDE00


Jeez, I hope I have not hurt your feelings ... naagh, to hell with that, not this time around ... \uD83D\uDE02


Graeme Bland

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It seems as though I'm a bit late to the conversation, but I'll throw my 10 cents in, nonetheless. *I'm also not on the WhatsApp group, I'm not sure if I'm echoing sentiments already shared. 

Words can (and do) cause harm. There have been a few good examples of how they can manifest into physical harm on the thread, though I think the salient example is how words can result in genocide, war, and violence in general. 

That said, silence causes harm too, if not more so. Genocide, war, and violence are results of silent men (and women) just as much as they are results of vocal men (and women). 

A byproduct of freedom of speech is the vocal minority who spew hatred. However, (and however idealistic this may make me sound), it is each individual's responsibility to use their freedom of speech in a responsible manner. If we censor the few, we have to censor the many.

While freedom of speech can create space for foul ideologies to flourish, it is one of the only effective tools that can curb those same ideologies. This is why the loud, vitriolic few embrace censorship. The vocal school bully punches the "nerd" who has the audacity to answer back - the dictator takes control of media - the outspoken revolutionary is jailed. 

War and genocide are extreme examples, especially when we consider the question pertains to conversations between individuals, though I believe that the micro effects the macro, and therefore, what we apply to the one, we must apply to the other. If I require consent to raise a topic on an individual level, logic implies that the same must be done for widescale discussions/ topics/ etc. 

In summary: We should protect our right to freedom of speech but remain cognizant of the innate responsibility that comes with that right. 

PS: It's not hard not to be an asshole - choose your words wisely 🙂 


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Trevor Watkins

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I was going to try to address the many words written on this subject individually, but I think Graeme has supplied a satisfactory and succinct answer.
At root, this is about freedom of speech. NOT freedom from offense. As Rickey Gervais said recently, all humour is deliberately offensive to someone. That is not sufficient reason to restrict or ban it. 
I have defined my view of "harm" elsewhere, but repeat it here:
Harm: For an action resulting in harm against another to require the consent of the other, then that action  must be immediate in time and space, must  have significant consequences for the other, and must have physical reality.

Some words may indeed damage your self-esteem, upset your equanimity, piss you off. But you don't get to censor the entire world because you have grandaddy issues. People can be blamed for the harm they do, but blaming words for yours sins is dishonest. "The devil made me do it is no longer a valid argument'.

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Yes, that's very nice for most people in most circumstances, but the problem here is how to deal with relentless abusers. I can point to the consent axiom and say, there, property violations solved.... but it is not, because some jerks will be oblivious to the axion and violate property. The consent axiom does nothing but tell us that they are in the wrong and personal responsibility for emotions does nothing for the abused but shift the blame to the victim. Telling someone who has been verbally abused that they are responsible for their own emotional response is like telling someone with depression to just snap out of it or someone with a broken leg to just walk it off. I think the technical term is gaslighting. Or is that when the person has such control over their emotions that they set fire to themselves out of protest.

S.

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yes, true.


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Sid Nothard

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Immediate emotions are beyond a person’s direct control.   You can only choose how to react to them

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Jim Powell

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It is not as brutal as snap out of it. It is engaging with the victim and helping them through the trauma. The first step is to get the victim to not see the abuser as superior. My son has depression and he is overseas. He is coming up. When his supervisor is abusive he asks questions about the best for the company. Every case is different

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In the U.S. assault is a crime:

A couple of definitions provided by AI:

In law, assault is the act of intentionally causing another person to fear imminent harmful or offensive contact. It can involve physical violence or threats of violence, and can be committed with or without a weapon. 

Assault is generally defined as an intentional act that puts another person in reasonable apprehension of imminent harmful or offensive contact.

I think this a good red line, but still relies on judgment of what is meant by intentional, reasonable, and imminent.

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I have not been a fan of the "crimen injura" principle in the South African legal system. Words may be interpreted as being harmful but I have never seen the physical harm caused by words, I have only seen harm caused by individuals as a response to the feelings engendered by the words and mostly when they acted upon those feelings. Penny Sparrow is not my hero, she should not however have been fined by the HRC, I do also believe that she eventually died as a result of her inability to deal with the venomous words of others! So words do have consequences but we (as individuals or society) should never physically retaliate on the basis of non-physical stuff that may offend.
I am not going to use phrases/words that may open me up to legal action, so I am just going to relate the following story: "You boers are a dumb lot"  I still wonder whether the soutpiel had a point?


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If I was being interrogated against my will, I would sure hope that my captors used unkind words to try to extract information from me, rather than pulling my fingernails out.

 

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I have not been a fan of the "crimen injura" principle in the South African legal system. Words may be interpreted as being harmful but I have never seen the physical harm caused by words, I have only seen harm caused by individuals as a response to the feelings engendered by the words and mostly when they acted upon those feelings. Penny Sparrow is not my hero, she should not however have been fined by the HRC, I do also believe that she eventually died as a result of her inability to deal with the venomous words of others! So words do have consequences but we (as individuals or society) should never physically retaliate on the basis of non-physical stuff that may offend.

Mike Hull

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Where words have financial consequences, like slander or lies about products or persons relying on a good public image, these can be settled in the civil court. Fortunately almost anything goes when commenting on government, they are game for all criticism, even if they haven’t openly done whatever, they probably thought about it.

 

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Subject: Re: IM: Can words alone cause sufficient harm to require consent from listeners

 

I have not been a fan of the "crimen injura" principle in the South African legal system. Words may be interpreted as being harmful but I have never seen the physical harm caused by words, I have only seen harm caused by individuals as a response to the feelings engendered by the words and mostly when they acted upon those feelings. Penny Sparrow is not my hero, she should not however have been fined by the HRC, I do also believe that she eventually died as a result of her inability to deal with the venomous words of others! So words do have consequences but we (as individuals or society) should never physically retaliate on the basis of non-physical stuff that may offend.


I am not going to use phrases/words that may open me up to legal action, so I am just going to relate the following story: "You boers are a dumb lot"  I still wonder whether the soutpiel had a point?

On Wed, 09 Oct 2024, 16:07 Fred Hassani <fr...@teslagovernment.com> wrote:

In the U.S. assault is a crime:

 

A couple of definitions provided by AI:

 

In law, assault is the act of intentionally causing another person to fear imminent harmful or offensive contact. It can involve physical violence or threats of violence, and can be committed with or without a weapon. 

 

Assault is generally defined as an intentional act that puts another person in reasonable apprehension of imminent harmful or offensive contact.

 

I think this a good red line, but still relies on judgment of what is meant by intentional, reasonable, and imminent.

 

Fred Hassani

 

 

 

On Sun, Oct 6, 2024 at 5:21 AM Trevor Watkins <bas...@gmail.com> wrote:

An interesting debate arose on the Libertarian whatsapp group regarding the "harm" of words.  Like most discussions on whatsapp, the subject quickly moved on and was forgotten without adequate exploration.

 

I think it would be useful to try and come to a consensus on whether words alone may  require the  consent of listeners before being uttered, or may be punished by some sanction after being uttered.

 

Viv Vermaak had this to say: "I don’t like this ‘how did I harm you? Sue me!’ argument of you guys. It doesn’t feel well thought through. How do you define ‘harm’? =Honestly. It can’t just all be;”Well, nobody held a gun to your head.” arguments. Being human is nuanced. Words count, ideologies count. Honesty, dignity, compassion, FREEDOM, respect., authenticity. These are valuable to humans, to defend and protect without ‘HARM’  coming into an argument.

 

Trevor responded: "Harm: For an action resulting in harm against another to require the consent of the other, then that action  must be immediate in time and space, must  have significant consequences for the other, and must have physical reality.

Words do not constitute harm, no matter how snowflakey the recipient. Your ideolology does not constitute harm, no matter how dumb or repugnant. I might say the intellectual sloppiness of your position caused me actual harm, really, but that is BS. If words caused actual harm, the Ukrainians would probably be much more shouty."

 

What do you think? 

 

 

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Graeme, I think you missed a word. You said; "It's not hard not to be an asshole - choose your words wisely"... I think that should have read; "It's not hard not to be an asshole - just choose your words wisely". ;-)

S.

Stephen van Jaarsveldt

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Well, in some cases you can choose how to react... in many cases you cannot. The effect of some words are physical or subconscious and then you cannot choose how to react to them.

S.

Stephen van Jaarsveldt

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I don't know that I would necessarily take guidance from the legal system of a country which still uses feet and inches. If we did, I think that law would completely miss the biggest number of cases where words do harm i.e. parental - child relationships and the hurt that many spouses inflict on each other. Quite often it is exactly the unintentional, repetitive and long term unrelenting nature of the words that do the greatest damage. You can spot people who were married for 20 years and just came out of a divorce from 50 feet away - they're broken in a way that radiates 18 refrigerator lengths away.

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Stephen van Jaarsveldt

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Charl: "I have never seen the physical harm caused by words".

Really ? I find that very hard to believe. You've never met anyone with a stutter or low self-esteem or an overly aggressive attitude ? You've never seen someone being passed over for a job or a promotion because they were nervous ? Those things are caused by words and they are tangible and there is real, physical damage there.

You raise an important part of this debate though... Whether we believe words have consequences or not, I think we can agree that we don't want the government to get involved. And I think I need to make this crystal clear, if it wasn't already - the fact that I think words can cause harm does NOT mean that I have a policy proposal... and if you think words don't do harm, then presumably you see no need for the government to do anything either.

So, there are two very distinct parts of the debate:
1. Do words do real, tangible harm ?
2. If so, does anyone need to do anything about it ?

I doubt there is a single person on this forum who would answer "Yes" to #2. No matter how verbally abusive my stuttering friend's father was, I would never ever suggest that there be a law that interferes with the parent-child relationship or that the government should have stepped in or that my friend has any recourse other than what will transpire when he is grown up and his father is elderly. Nature has a way of turning the tables. Earth turns all by itself.

If you guys are arguing that words don't matter because you think that automatically implies a policy proposal, no, please don't. It doesn't and it does not have to. We can say that words cause harm without capitulating to power.

Charl: "So words do have consequences but we (as individuals or society) should never physically retaliate on the basis of non-physical stuff that may offend.".

I disagree. South African law has a concept called "provocation" - if you punch someone in the face, that is assault, but if that person was slinging insult after insult to the extent that any normal person would lose his temper, then you're probably getting a suspended sentence. This to me is South Africa's version of the USA's 1st and 2nd amendments. It comes down to, say what you like, but if you go too far there will be consequences.

S.

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I don't like invoking the spirit of Freud, but what if they employed your mother as a torture device and they got her to do that thing she always does... especially at Christmas... in front of all the cousins... ? Nah, you won't stand a chance. You'll crack for sure. Who needs fingernails when they can use words ?

S.

Stephen van Jaarsveldt

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I think they take those accusations as ideas and suggestions, then turn them into strategy documents.

S.


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I find that in conversation there is a natural flow. Think of our brains as Christmas tree with candles. When we talk we take a candle and light the other person’s candle and back and forth. When there is negative language the aim is normally to extinguish any reply. Do not allow the response to be extinguished. Simply ask a question

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Right

 

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I don't know that I would necessarily take guidance from the legal system of a country which still uses feet and inches. If we did, I think that law would completely miss the biggest number of cases where words do harm i.e. parental - child relationships and the hurt that many spouses inflict on each other. Quite often it is exactly the unintentional, repetitive and long term unrelenting nature of the words that do the greatest damage. You can spot people who were married for 20 years and just came out of a divorce from 50 feet away - they're broken in a way that radiates 18 refrigerator lengths away.

 

S.

 

Op Wo. 9 Okt. 2024 om 08:07 het Fred Hassani <fr...@teslagovernment.com> geskryf:

In the U.S. assault is a crime:

 

A couple of definitions provided by AI:

 

In law, assault is the act of intentionally causing another person to fear imminent harmful or offensive contact. It can involve physical violence or threats of violence, and can be committed with or without a weapon. 

 

Assault is generally defined as an intentional act that puts another person in reasonable apprehension of imminent harmful or offensive contact.

 

I think this a good red line, but still relies on judgment of what is meant by intentional, reasonable, and imminent.

 

Fred Hassani

 

 

 

On Sun, Oct 6, 2024 at 5:21 AM Trevor Watkins <bas...@gmail.com> wrote:

An interesting debate arose on the Libertarian whatsapp group regarding the "harm" of words.  Like most discussions on whatsapp, the subject quickly moved on and was forgotten without adequate exploration.

 

I think it would be useful to try and come to a consensus on whether words alone may  require the  consent of listeners before being uttered, or may be punished by some sanction after being uttered.

 

Viv Vermaak had this to say: "I don’t like this ‘how did I harm you? Sue me!’ argument of you guys. It doesn’t feel well thought through. How do you define ‘harm’? =Honestly. It can’t just all be;”Well, nobody held a gun to your head.” arguments. Being human is nuanced. Words count, ideologies count. Honesty, dignity, compassion, FREEDOM, respect., authenticity. These are valuable to humans, to defend and protect without ‘HARM’  coming into an argument.

 

Trevor responded: "Harm: For an action resulting in harm against another to require the consent of the other, then that action  must be immediate in time and space, must  have significant consequences for the other, and must have physical reality.

Words do not constitute harm, no matter how snowflakey the recipient. Your ideolology does not constitute harm, no matter how dumb or repugnant. I might say the intellectual sloppiness of your position caused me actual harm, really, but that is BS. If words caused actual harm, the Ukrainians would probably be much more shouty."

 

What do you think? 

 

 

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Precisely

 

That is the harm that words can do – they can utterly destroy a life. Response no negative influences when young are virtually

Impossible to rectify, as the victim has no idea how to do it. So the nervous reactions persists for life.

 

But there will never be any compensation for that.

 

The most important decision a person can make is to choose the right parents – ones who love him/her and help him/her to grow.

 

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Charl: "I have never seen the physical harm caused by words".

 

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Good point, Sid.


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Great additional angle, thank. The destruction of a business must certainly count as 'harmful' even if the only thing happened is 'slander' or 'liberl' - i.e: WORDS.


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For the sake of clarity can we adopt the definition of harm as "that which causes real-world physical injury, requiring either consent or response". 
Can we adopt the definition of distress as "that which causes intentional mental or emotional stress". Otherwise we keep talking at cross purposes. 
I fully agree that words alone can cause distress, which may have wide personal consequences, but I do not agree that words which may cause distress should be banned. 
I believe this is the 1st amendment position on free speech.
Your use of words and the ideas expressed by them may do severe damage to your reputation, but that is the risk you take.

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Sorry Trevor, but I cannot agree to that. You seem to see the harm done by words to be separate to and different from the harm done by knives, bombs and tax collectors. It is not - harm is harm. There is no difference between me shooting you in the chest or mailing you a bomb - in the second case I am nowhere near and I am not taking any immediate action, but the result is the same - dead is dead. If I make a living as a professional draad-trekker and you cut of my right arm and I lose my livelihood, that's clearly harm, but at least I can get a prosthetic and maybe have some diminished part of my career... but if you keep telling me my profession will get me to go blind, grow hair on my palms and eventually burn in hell, I could also become unable to work. Sure, viagra, but there is some evidence to suggest that it works by suppressing emotions, so I can screw but without passion... is that really a life ? Sounds even worse than losing an arm. Harm is harm, no matter how you inflict it. If I slowly feed you small doses of rat poison over a period of three years until it eventually kills you, that is no different than me telling you you're worthless over a period of three years until your life has no joy or purpose anymore. Both cause actual, real, physical harm. Trevor: "but I do not agree that words which may cause distress should be banned"... and that is the point. I don't think anybody here implied that if words cause harm that it follows... well, that anything follows. Nobody suggested banning anything, not even implicitly, from what I can see.

S.


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I used to be the eternal victim. The last thing an abuser wants is to explain what he is doing and keep questioning. Powerful

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Let us start with the grandfather. To be pitied because he lacks the humanity. This is along with all those who seek superiority. Racists, homophobes etc. They lack the ability to interact on a human to human basis. If you pity someone they cannot hurt you emotionally.

 

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Hi Stephen

 

I think that you have conclusively proven that this forum is no echo chamber 😂

 

Holy cow ! What bullshit !” should leave no doubt of that!

 

I think we ironically have some common points of agreement though.

 

Your grandfather for example. His despicable view of persons with mental disabilities.

 

Our daughter suffered vaccine damage from her MMR plus the Hepatitis B that was administered to her when she was about a year old.

 

She is mentally challenged and has a rare form of light sensitive epilepsy as a result that confined her to our home indoors for years during the daylight. 

 

A compassionate Soul, the wife of an optometrist, as well as his business administrator conceived of an optical solution for her, sort of like a Lorenzo’s Oil story … 

 

Compassion like this lady has is a beautiful energy, even if it leads one to act altruistically which is anathema for Ayn Rand cult followers.

 

Fortunately our daughter is full of joy, she has a musical appreciation ear second to none and enjoys a spectrum of music from Boccelli to gangsta rap.

 

Of course there is a lot of hurt that comes with this, the stares, the look downs, the contempt from many who do not immediately realise the condition … you see, our daughter is beautiful and looks very “normal”.

 

Hypothetically your grandfather could have been there restraining her as she ran into a major food retail store one day and grabbed muffins for a dear friend of ours and started running out without paying. 

 

The store attendant that intervened was wonderfully Compassionate but I think your grandfather would have been the type to have physically restrained her and called the police on the basis that her condition was no excuse.

 

I absolutely detest people like that.

 

I am not sure about you but I endured the popular girls and jock taunts and ridicule in primary school and also for a couple of years into high school as well.

 

I was a fat wop or eyetie until then you see, a spaghetti muncher and we had lost the war and Italian tanks only had reverse gears …

 

In Standard 6 I came second to last in the school cross country, only ahead of the fattest boy.

 

Two years later I came second in a far far bigger high school.

 

I ended up marrying the most beautiful girl of that school, but really she is probably one of the most beautiful women who have ever walked this planet.

 

Some of the members here have met her so they can attest that this is not just more “bullshit” on my part.

 

I guess it was the weight training and the fitness regime that helped me prevail against my tormentors at school.

 

Like a male version of the Ugly Duckling.

 

Yes words hurt, I know too well how hurtful words are, no question about that … I totally agree with you on that, another common point of agreement between us.

 

Fortunately for me I took to weights and running and eating healthily and the jocks ended up having to stare at my six pack and my wings and my deltoids and basically they had to shut the fuck up.

 

As for the popular girls that I recall, the ones that have ended up with plastic surgery look horrific and the others are fat or wrinkled.

 

Oh, schadenfreude can be such a sweet beautiful thing … 😀

 

My mother suffered from an extremely debilitating depression, and another dear family member has an even worse one.

 

Your grandfather would not have tolerated us at dinner parties for sure! We would have been his worst Christmas dinner nightmare … 😂

 

But it is not your fault that you had the grandfather you did, I was just lucky to have the kind and gentle ones I had.

 

And yes, public places with family members who are either suffering from depression or who have disabilities are not great … it is not only the words by the way but the looks too, maybe the looks are worse, they really get to you, the entire body language of these critics deliver the put down with sheer utter contempt.

 

So, body language should also have been included in this subject, actually. Trevor, please note.

 

You will notice that I referred to not only jocks and popular girls but also to slimgatte.

 

Slimgatte can be nerd looking but even so they are not nerds.

 

Typically they are who they are because they just feel superior, innately. It comes with their DNA, they just know they are superior.

 

They can be quick on the turn of the word, and they will make statements like “Holy cow ! What bullshit !”.

 

They love the putdown, and in their own way they are far more malicious than the jocks and the popular girls.

 

Jocks and popular girls do end up getting fat and ugly and their reign of terror in the school yard eventually comes to an end.

 

But the slimgatte, no, they continue with their school yard bullying well after the jocks and popular girls have ended up as insignificant have-beens.

 

I feel for the Incels, their tormented lives at the hands of cruel human DNA.

 

That is also why I cannot get into the Ayn Rand “virtue of selfishness”, especially if a choice I make ends up hurting someone horribly.

 

Not physically, just emotionally.

 

So after trying to be an egoist in line with Ayn Rand and failing spectacularly at that I simply have embraced who I am, altruistic leaning, perhaps closer to the standard deviation than the mean, ok maybe on my way out there towards the altruistic outlier edge … yes, Ayn Rand will not have me in her heaven.

 

Fair enough, Nathaniel Brandon retreated out of her heaven too …

 

In your Holy cow ! What bullshit !” slimgat put down you however then say to Sid that you do not have answers!

 

In fact if I look at the general line of your thinking there is never an answer in any of your views, just nebulous maybe and what ifs and you have not realised that what awaits that world view is not individualism or libertarianism or some safe pseudo liberalism but the “red tooth and claw” of Nature.

 

I hear especially people from the Left refer to those they disagree with on the Right as “morons”, “idiots”, and other disparaging terms for those who are mentally challenged.

 

And they are supposed to be people of compassion?

 

Do you have any idea what it must feel like to me as a father of a daughter with mental challenges when some contemptuous person uses the word idiot or moron?

 

In your ignorant arrogance you never even stopped to think about who I might be.

 

Some jerk who cares not for feelings?

 

I do not think you actually applied your mind to what I wrote, goodness knows what you understood, effectively comparing me to your despicable grandfather.

 

The incredible irony however is that maybe you are your grandfather, you hurl insults and taunts at others, you manifest your contempt … and yet here you are pretending you care about the hurt of words … 😂 … do you not get that, can you not see that, you are one of the malicious!

 

Yes, along with the likes of your grandfather I totally and utterly despise jocks and popular girls and slimgatte precisely because they hurt people badly, very badly, but extremely badly with their words … 

 

You admitted you have no solution to propose to Sid, whereas I have … a society that will tend towards ostracising and cancelling the cruel, where being jocks and popular girls and slimgatte like you is incrementally not sexy at all … 😀

 

Jeez, I hope I have not hurt your feelings ... naagh, to hell with that, not this time around ... 😂

 

 

On Mon, Oct 7, 2024 at 4:52 PM Stephen van Jaarsveldt <sjaar...@gmail.com> wrote:

Good question Sid. I hope we find an answer, because this has me stumped. It looks like therapy and medication helps, but those are applied after the fact. I think what we're looking for is some way to avoid and prevent the damage done by words before it happens. I have no idea how one would do that... but I do get the sense that the world is becoming a softer and more accommodating place, so maybe the damage done by words is being naturally reduced as a  side-effect or coincidental consequence of material improvement in the world. Maybe having more things allows us to develop also in non-material ways which eventually make us more demure and mindful.

 

S.

 

 

Op Ma. 7 Okt. 2024 om 02:05 het Sid Nothard <sg...@mweb.co.za> geskryf:

Words can cause immense damage to young people.

If parents and/or teachers keep telling a kid he is no good, his subconscious will eventually absorb that as a truth, and that’s most likely the way his life will turn out. Completely wrecked. So how does one get justice for that?

 


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I do hope that the deadly Canadian woke mind virus has not infected you, Stephen.
In red below
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On Thu, 10 Oct 2024 at 18:07, Stephen van Jaarsveldt <sjaar...@gmail.com> wrote:
Sorry Trevor, but I cannot agree to that. You seem to see the harm done by words to be separate to and different from the harm done by knives, bombs and tax collectors. It is not - harm is harm.
Profoundly untrue. If you cannot see the difference between an angry word and an angry stabbing, you are beyond reason. Harm is harm, distress is distress.
There is no difference between me shooting you in the chest or mailing you a bomb - in the second case I am nowhere near and I am not taking any immediate action, but the result is the same - dead is dead. If I make a living as a professional draad-trekker and you cut of my right arm and I lose my livelihood, that's clearly harm,
of course cutting off my arm is harm. Calling you a useless draadtrekker may cause you distress, but it doesn't threaten your life.  The whole point of the Individualist Manifesto is to try and identify the harms we (as individuals and groups) cannot tolerate, and those we can ignore.
but at least I can get a prosthetic and maybe have some diminished part of my career... but if you keep telling me my profession will get me to go blind, grow hair on my palms and eventually burn in hell, I could also become unable to work. Is this some weird attempt at humour? Sure, viagra, but there is some evidence to suggest that it works by suppressing emotions, so I can screw but without passion... is that really a life ? Sounds even worse than losing an arm. Harm is harm, no matter how you inflict it.
Rubbish Harm depends on real, physical damage being done, immediate in time and space, that is non-trivial. 
If I slowly feed you small doses of rat poison over a period of three years until it eventually kills you, that is no different than me telling you you're worthless over a period of three years until your life has no joy or purpose anymore. Profoundly different. In the latter case I can just stop taking your phone calls. Both cause actual, real, physical harm. Trevor: "but I do not agree that words which may cause distress should be banned"... and that is the point. I don't think anybody here implied that if words cause harm that it follows... well, that anything follows. Nobody suggested banning anything, not even implicitly, from what I can see.
I strongly recommend that real world physical harm should be banned, stopped, limited by whatever means necessary. I assume you do too. Your words are just a pesky annoyance, easily ignored.

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Feedback from unkind interrogations show that torture is not the best method for information extraction, but the words: "You are  safe now." are. They torture you and then make you believe it is over and you are safe.
then they leave you with the words: "You are safe now. It is over." The first person you see that you think you can trust you will reveal your secret to. Busted.


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One of the most problematic examples (of very very many) for libertarians has always been instigation or incitement of others to commit heinous acts, such as gang rape and lynchings. 'War' crimes under instruction (maybe with threat of execution if disobeyed) is another. Extreme harm by words alone has been pointed out in some examples in this exchange, and many remain.


All have exercised the minds of some of the world's greatest geniuses in jurisprudence for millennia.

 

One of my frustrations is how easy it is to turn eyes away from the most challenging examples and confine debate to ones where answers are easy. How about shouting in someone's ear to cause (a) headache (b) broken eardrums (c) slipping and falling off a cliff (d) ….. whatever?

 

How about telling a blind person that it's safe to walk when they do not see the approaching bus?


Or telling someone that something is medication when it is deadly poison?

 

And so on. 


A good libertarian game would be to compile, in Part 1, lists of hypothetical challenges, and then, in Part 2, arguments why none (being just words) are rights violations.

 

In the early libertarian years -- there were just a dozen or so in SA then -- we met every Friday night for debates like this. The group was divided arbitrarily in two. One side would argue 'for' and the other 'against' until dinner. After dinner, roles reversed. 

 

Amongst the benefits were that no one knew in advance where others stood, so egos were devoted to presenting the best arguments rather than defeating adversaries. All gave their best arguments both ways. The best person to argue against anyone is usually themself. No one knows the arguments, for instance, against Adrew Kenny on climate better than he. He would not win arguments as easily against himself as he does against others.

 

By that method of discourse, we got the very best philosophically. Our topics were all the toughest libertarian questions, and often also non-libertarian questions.


A valuable adjunct was that one of us was tasked to research the issue and brief us to ensure that we were all familiar with the established literature and state-of-the-art arguments.

 



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Before that can be answered, we need clarity on whether mental harm isn't physical -- ie changed neurons, synapses, chemical balances etc.



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It has not and I'm surprised that you bring it up... but now that you did, I think I see a connection between your (deserved) negative perception of woke culture and your reaction to my position on words.

I made no such connection myself, because I have absolutely no intention of proposing any use of force, whereas woke culture is based on the use of force. I am at the opposite end of that scale wrt force, hence my repeated mention of the separation of harm (not mere distress) from words and any policy recommendation coming from it.

If I were to suggest harm from words and also recommend force in response to it, then that would be a problem... just like I have a problem with and frankly find this very unlibertarian statement shocking; "physical harm should be banned, stopped, limited by whatever means necessary".

Physical harm banned ? By any means necessary ? Yeowch... so I guess we're bringing back conscription so we can man the harm prevention police, corps of health inspectors and army of health & safety officers. I'm glad I'm far away from all that.

PS You didn't find my example funny ? That hurt.

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1. When Trevor says that "physical harm should be banned, stopped, limited by whatever means necessary" the context within which he is speaking is totally relevant.


As the originator of the HCR, the Harm Consent Rule, he means that any physical harm without consent should be limited by whatever means necessary.


The HCR is akin to a yin/yang construct.


The HCR specifies no (physical) harm without consent, nhwc.


The physical is implicit in the term harm as used in the HCR.


The corollary to that is (physical) harm with consent, hwc.


For the HCR to not be violated, both these two conditions, one the mirror image of the other, must not be violated.


We could postulate this as a simple equation:


HCR = hwc + nhwc


There can be a far more rigorous mathematical way to describe this as an equation, but most readers here should find this sufficient as an understandable equation for explanation purposes.


In the case of say smokers, they consent to the harm that cigarettes may cause them.


HCR = hwc + nhwc is thus not violated.


The part of Trevor’s phrase "... limited by whatever means necessary" is also loaded with implication.


He is really saying that whatever it takes to ensure a non violation of the HCR is moral.


Conscription for example, even if the outcome were to be an eventual minimization of HCR violations, is however in itself a violation of the HCR.


Ukraine for example uses conscription albeit to seek a minimization of violations of the HCR.


That Putin violates the HCR is not in question, and there is a mass of empirical evidence to argue that Putin is not only a war criminal but relative to the volumes and severity of violations he is responsible for, he may be in the international legal territory of having committed crimes against humanity.


But the means of conscription is in itself a violation of the HCR.


Hence, conscription is not a moral means to counter violations of the HCR.


However, using volunteers is moral, and the agreed to terms of the contract whereby volunteers sign up are instances of hwc.


Therefore, a call to arms of volunteers is the appropriate means to defend the HCR.


2. There is however far more to this seemingly simple construct of the HWC = hwc + nhwc


The question of “collateral damage”.


Any deliberate instance of violation of the HCR is a violation of the HCR.


For example, if volunteers see the enemy among civilians and deliberately and indiscriminately spray a sufficiency of machine gun fire that eliminates the enemy but also the civilians then that is a violation of the HCR.


However, even if the volunteers sought to minimise “collateral damage” but nonetheless killed or maimed innocent civilians, that is still an instance of violation of the HCR, albeit not deliberate.


We could state two principles below regarding this:


If a violation of the HCR is deliberate then in terms of a society embracing the HCR it is criminal.


If a violation of the HCR is not deliberate then in terms of a society embracing the HCR it should require compensation.


Currently international law regulating warfare would effectively indict for deliberate violations of the HCR but it provides little or no compensation of the victims of “collateral damage”.


There is little or no deterrence to prevent or minimise collateral damage because the enemy hiding among civilians is a legitimate target, and then it is a matter of interpretation of proportionate force.


For the time being, libertarians and individualists are not in any significant level of power globally speaking, so the current international law regulating warfare is what it is, not to the standard that libertarianism or individualism would have it be.


Tragically inadequate, but Western militaries nowadays at least seek to stay within its literal bounds, albeit imperfectly, and My Lai incidents are a relatively infrequent manifestation of Western armies (post WW2 and the Berlin firestorms bombings and the gross criminality of Hiroshima and Nagasaki of course).


Even so Julian Assange is a victim of the USA denying its culpability in either deliberate or non deliberate killings and maimings.


It is however bad, but far worse in non Western militancy.


Especially among “revolutionary” groups inspired by Frantz Fanon.


3. The HCR also provides for a variety of harms that are not obvious.


For example if someone deliberately screams into your ear with intent to cause harm and does cause you physical damage, like say a burst eardrum, an example indicated by Leon Louw, that is a violation of the HCR.


On the other hand attending loud music festivals, and disco clubs, and other musical noisy places is an example of hwc.


Less obvious, if your neighbour sets up an asbestos products manufacturing factory and a sufficiency of asbestos fibres that would otherwise not have been in the air cause you cancer, then that is also a violation of the HCR.


The fibres not being otherwise in the air leads us to the coupling of the HCR with the NoU, the “Nature of Us”.


Evolution as a scientific model remains the prevailing scientific model for who we are, shaped by Nature, by the process of natural selection.


If we consider the NoU a set of attributes of us, each attribute a bell shaped curve with a mean and standard deviation and standard error defined by the sampled population size, among these attributes would be the attribute of how much asbestos fibre can our naturally evolved bodies inhale before we succumb to cancer.


The mean and twice the standard deviation on either side of the mean will account for about 95% of the sampled population and the threshold of asbestos fibre in the air that will cause cancer in this nominal 95% of us is a significant and reasonable real world standard for us to embrace, pragmatically, as an interim towards an as yet undefined “something better” as a standard.


Therefore introducing asbestos fibre into the air to a level corresponding to such a probability of inducing cancer in others can be argued as being an initiation of the physical use of force, aka violence, if those who breathe the fibres in have not consented to the harm.


This negative externality of the market is actually not the fault of a genuine free market in that within a genuine free market the HCR coupled to the NoU would not only be in place, but also enforceable.


What is crucial is that these instances of violations of the HCR are reasonably provable i.e. via scientific evidence.


Hence the asbestos manufacturer is unlikely to just spew asbestos fibres into the air external to the manufacturing environment as that would lead to sanction, and the would be screamer into ears would similarly tend to not risk doing so unless there was hwc.


(The slap championships that cause massive damage to the willing competitors is another example of hwc).


In conclusion, the explicit statement that Trevor made is actually “physical harm should be banned, stopped, limited by whatever means necessary … provided of course that the means in themselves do not violate the HCR".



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Sorry, I got nothing new from all that. I guess the original subject deserves revisiting... so after several thesis on the topic, "Can words alone cause sufficient harm to require consent from listeners" ? Ok, so we're all agreed, and have been from the start apparently, that words do cause harm. We also seem to agree the government should stay out of it. So far so good.

 It also seems the only recourse under consideration is explicit and preceding consent... which I find problematic because it assumes explicit and preceding consent is the only option (which it is not) AND that the only criteria is the magnitude of the harm (which is weird and lends itself to arbitrary and subjective argument)

 Essentially the question is, on a scale of 0 to 10 where 0 is a Buddist monk wearing asbestos underwear completely immune to harm and 10 is someone devastated by verbal abuse... and presumably somewhere inbetween is a score, lets say 3, where if you intend to say something that could be hurtful, to ask for permission first.

The number of levels on which that is wrong are so many I'm not sure where to start. The score is subjective. The scorer and the speaker will not assess their words the same. Knowing if you should consent to something you have not heard yet is impossible. Etc., etc... the question is loaded and has no sensible answer.

Consider a billboard on private property next to a busy highway where parents drive past with children in the car on the way to school. Can the owner post anything on that billboard so long it has an offensiveness score below 7 ? And what of the poor souls who are sensitive to scores as low as 2 ? Should the billboard owner ask them each for consent before putting up the billboard ? Does he even know who they are ?

 No, this is a nonsensical question if read as phrased. Words harm. It is not a scale with a threshold. Consent is not the only possible answer. A free market probably is, but I won't be able to tell you why or how exactly, just that it has a pretty decent reputation for solving tough problems like this.

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Great ideas. It dawned on me this morning that I have a hard time arguing for anything. Against is easy, but as soon as I try to make an argument for something, I seem to default to arguing against the alternatives and I have to put considerable effort into not poking holes also in the thing I'm supposed to be arguing for. I find it hard to ignore the flaws in things. Is this normal or am I broken ?

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Thank you Gabri. I greatly appreciate your analysis of and additions to the HCR (eg HWC). One cannot squeeze every possible condition into a statement of just a few words, so it is essential to discuss and debate the greyer areas with many different viewpoints. (Even Stephen serves a useful role in this respect).

In its simplest terms, HCR specifies what you may not do to another without consent. HWC specifies what you may do to yourself. Gabri provides several examples of boundary cases and how they should be handled. A key principle is that ALL violations of HCR must be adjudicated, no matter how noble the intentions.

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On Sat, 12 Oct 2024 at 03:21, Stephen vJ <sjaar...@gmail.com> wrote:
Sorry, I got nothing new from all that. I guess the original subject deserves revisiting... so after several thesis on the topic, "Can words alone cause sufficient harm to require consent from listeners" ? Ok, so we're all agreed, and have been from the start apparently, that words do cause harm. How very woke of you - keep repeating a fallacy until the world thinks its a reality. We are NOT agreed that words cause physical harm, as per the definition in the manifesto.  We also seem to agree the government should stay out of it. So far so good.

 It also seems the only recourse under consideration is explicit and preceding consent... which I find problematic because it assumes explicit and preceding consent is the only option (which it is not) AND that the only criteria is the magnitude of the harm not true or even discussed (which is weird and lends itself to arbitrary and subjective argument)

 Essentially the question is, on a scale of 0 to 10 where 0 is a Buddist monk wearing asbestos underwear completely immune to harm and 10 is someone devastated by verbal abuse... and presumably somewhere inbetween is a score, lets say 3, where if you intend to say something that could be hurtful, to ask for permission first. Freedom of speech and the 1st amendment do NOT require you to ask anyone's permission before uttering words, even quite offensive ones. After all, I don't recall you asking my permission for a bunch of your words which I found offensive. The fact that your words damaged your reputation (which resides with me) is a consequence.

The number of levels on which that is wrong are so many I'm not sure where to start. The score is subjective. The scorer and the speaker will not assess their words the same. Knowing if you should consent to something you have not heard yet is impossible. Good point, wish I had made it... Etc., etc... the question is loaded and has no sensible answer.

Consider a billboard on private property next to a busy highway where parents drive past with children in the car on the way to school. Can the owner post anything on that billboard so long it has an offensiveness score below 7 ? And what of the poor souls who are sensitive to scores as low as 2 ? Should the billboard owner ask them each for consent before putting up the billboard ? Does he even know who they are ? Years ago Leon and Frances stayed in Glenhove Road abutting the M1 motorway. Leon famously asked if he was entitled to put a giant poster of a donkey doing unspeakable things to a young woman facing the highway on his property. I don't recall his exact answer. My opinion is that it is a free speech issue, it is a rare event, peer pressure  (loss of friends, public humiliation, etc) will quickly curtail it, pay him to take it down if you really hate it, and it is a poor reason to abandon our free speech principles.  There will always be a Jimmy Carr willing to say outrageous things for profit that challenge our sense of propriety.

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Are you really happy with unknown third parties being empowered to condone or mandate coercion against you and your property because, in their opinion, you weren't (physically) harmed - indeed for your own good?

Whatever your reasons, there's no sense in which it can be considered libertarian.



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"HCR specifies what you may not do to another without consent."

No, Trevor, it specifies what may be done without consent.

Libertarianism says nothing. HCR says whatever someone else thinks is harmless or beneficial.

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"... all violations must be adjudicated..." ? Wait, what now ? Since when are we involving 3rd parties in our private affairs ? "Must" ? No, I must nothing. I are Libertarian.

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On Sat, 12 Oct 2024 at 03:21, Stephen vJ <sjaar...@gmail.com> wrote:
Sorry, I got nothing new from all that. I guess the original subject deserves revisiting... so after several thesis on the topic, "Can words alone cause sufficient harm to require consent from listeners" ? Ok, so we're all agreed, and have been from the start apparently, that words do cause harm. How very woke of you - keep repeating a fallacy until the world thinks its a reality. We are NOT agreed that words cause physical harm, as per the definition in the manifesto.  I did not say "physical" did I ? We also seem to agree the government should stay out of it. So far so good.

 It also seems the only recourse under consideration is explicit and preceding consent... which I find problematic because it assumes explicit and preceding consent is the only option (which it is not) AND that the only criteria is the magnitude of the harm not true or even discussed I'm commenting on the Subject line of this thread, not making a point. (which is weird and lends itself to arbitrary and subjective argument)

 Essentially the question is, on a scale of 0 to 10 where 0 is a Buddist monk wearing asbestos underwear completely immune to harm and 10 is someone devastated by verbal abuse... and presumably somewhere inbetween is a score, lets say 3, where if you intend to say something that could be hurtful, to ask for permission first. Freedom of speech and the 1st amendment do NOT require you to ask anyone's permission before uttering words, even quite offensive ones. After all, I don't recall you asking my permission for a bunch of your words which I found offensive. The fact that your words damaged your reputation (which resides with me) is a consequence. You're missing my point completely. I'm not making an argument yet - I'm simply elaborating on the parameters set by the Subject line. In the next paragraph I go on to say how wrong the above is, because it comes from the subject line, it is not my argument. Disagreeing with the above is to disagree with yourself, not with me. Subject line above, my view on it below.

The number of levels on which that is wrong are so many I'm not sure where to start. The score is subjective. The scorer and the speaker will not assess their words the same. Knowing if you should consent to something you have not heard yet is impossible. Good point, wish I had made it... Etc., etc... the question is loaded and has no sensible answer.

Consider a billboard on private property next to a busy highway where parents drive past with children in the car on the way to school. Can the owner post anything on that billboard so long it has an offensiveness score below 7 ? And what of the poor souls who are sensitive to scores as low as 2 ? Should the billboard owner ask them each for consent before putting up the billboard ? Does he even know who they are ? Years ago Leon and Frances stayed in Glenhove Road abutting the M1 motorway. Leon famously asked if he was entitled to put a giant poster of a donkey doing unspeakable things to a young woman facing the highway on his property. I don't recall his exact answer. My opinion is that it is a free speech issue, it is a rare event, peer pressure  (loss of friends, public humiliation, etc) will quickly curtail it, pay him to take it down if you really hate it, and it is a poor reason to abandon our free speech principles.  There will always be a Jimmy Carr willing to say outrageous things for profit that challenge our sense of propriety. Ok, so no explicit consent and no jury ? We seem to be headed for the same page.

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In fact, that is such a gross misread of what I was saying, I feel like I should re-phrase completely. In fact, let me do just that. The subject line of this thread reads; "Can words alone cause sufficient harm to require consent from listeners".

There is no question mark, so maybe this was not a question, but a statement... the "Can" suggests it was a question, the omission of "?" at the end probably being accidental. Let's go with that.

The "sufficient" suggests a scale i.e. someone may argue that words cause enough and someone else may argue that it does not cause enough... what "enough" or "sufficient" is exactly, seems to me will always be subjective, trivial and arbitrary... but that is what the alleged question is supposedly asking.

The "require consent from listeners" suggests only one solution is under consideration i.e. you can say harm is sufficient or insufficient, but not that something other than consent is to be triggered at the threshold of "sufficient", since that is not what this so-called question is asking.

So far the analysis of the question... my answer is:
- yes, words cause harm, sometimes enormous harm
- so-called "physical" harm is imaginary and void of meaning without consideration of the emotions that harm evokes
- consent should be an absolute, not contingent on degree... there is no "sufficient" level of taking property from you where consent is required above but not below that threshold
- one should not need to ask consent before verbal expression as indeed on should not ask consent before taking someone's property or stabbing them... asking for consent and having consent are very different things and when it comes to obviosly offensive words, billboards or property, consent should be assumed to not be a given
- harmful words have natural consequences, just as any other harm does - harm is harm, regardless how it is inflicted

There, now I've given ample space for real disagreement and debate.

Stephen.

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On Sat, 12 Oct 2024 at 03:21, Stephen vJ <sjaar...@gmail.com> wrote:
Sorry, I got nothing new from all that. I guess the original subject deserves revisiting... so after several thesis on the topic, "Can words alone cause sufficient harm to require consent from listeners" ? Ok, so we're all agreed, and have been from the start apparently, that words do cause harm. How very woke of you - keep repeating a fallacy until the world thinks its a reality. We are NOT agreed that words cause physical harm, as per the definition in the manifesto.  I did not say "physical" did I ? We also seem to agree the government should stay out of it. So far so good.

 It also seems the only recourse under consideration is explicit and preceding consent... which I find problematic because it assumes explicit and preceding consent is the only option (which it is not) AND that the only criteria is the magnitude of the harm not true or even discussed I'm commenting on the Subject line of this thread, not making a point.OK (which is weird and lends itself to arbitrary and subjective argument)

 Essentially the question is, on a scale of 0 to 10 where 0 is a Buddist monk wearing asbestos underwear completely immune to harm and 10 is someone devastated by verbal abuse... and presumably somewhere inbetween is a score, lets say 3, where if you intend to say something that could be hurtful, to ask for permission first. Freedom of speech and the 1st amendment do NOT require you to ask anyone's permission before uttering words, even quite offensive ones. After all, I don't recall you asking my permission for a bunch of your words which I found offensive. The fact that your words damaged your reputation (which resides with me) is a consequence. You're missing my point completely. I'm not making an argument yet - I'm simply elaborating on the parameters set by the Subject line. In the next paragraph I go on to say how wrong the above is, because it comes from the subject line, it is not my argument. Disagreeing with the above is to disagree with yourself, not with me. Subject line above, my view on it below.

The number of levels on which that is wrong are so many I'm not sure where to start. The score is subjective. The scorer and the speaker will not assess their words the same. Knowing if you should consent to something you have not heard yet is impossible. Good point, wish I had made it... Etc., etc... the question is loaded and has no sensible answer.

Consider a billboard on private property next to a busy highway where parents drive past with children in the car on the way to school. Can the owner post anything on that billboard so long it has an offensiveness score below 7 ? And what of the poor souls who are sensitive to scores as low as 2 ? Should the billboard owner ask them each for consent before putting up the billboard ? Does he even know who they are ? Years ago Leon and Frances stayed in Glenhove Road abutting the M1 motorway. Leon famously asked if he was entitled to put a giant poster of a donkey doing unspeakable things to a young woman facing the highway on his property. I don't recall his exact answer. My opinion is that it is a free speech issue, it is a rare event, peer pressure  (loss of friends, public humiliation, etc) will quickly curtail it, pay him to take it down if you really hate it, and it is a poor reason to abandon our free speech principles.  There will always be a Jimmy Carr willing to say outrageous things for profit that challenge our sense of propriety. Ok, so no explicit consent and no jury ? We seem to be headed for the same page.OK

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If you took the trouble to read the commentary on the website you would see that "all consent violations must be adjudicated". NO ONE can claim that their intentions were so noble that no review is necessary. See the Iraqi girl in the market scenario.
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I have no idea how you got that from our discussion - what unknown 3rd parties? Do you perhaps mean juries? Imperfect as they may be, they are quite well established in law. In HCR it is up to each individual to decide whether harm has been caused and how to respond to it. Using the 1st amendment we provide some indication of what may constitute a harm, but you can always expect a jury of your peers to give you a clearer definition in each particular case.

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Sometimes I disagree with something and then after investigating, evaluating and debating it, if I find it to be contrary to my world view, I tend to forget about it completely. Like if someone asks if I went to church on Sunday or if I think Santa will bring me something in December or if I expect the tooth mouse to bless my new dentures. Statements like that always catch me off guard because I dismiss imaginary concepts so thoroughly that I sometimes forget they exist and that others around me still hold on to those beliefs. I guess I forgot about this government by jury idea. I prefer Adam Smith's theory of moral sentiments.

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