There is neither grow up nor go down,

[SURESH JAGADEESAN]

From Mr. Suresh's response one question comes to mind. When will one
grow up and stop being judgmental? If some one is sharing something
which he/she thinks could of value to members in a forum, those who do
not accept it or differ owing to " his/her superior status as an
evolved soul") will demonstrate his/her maturity by trying to educate
or elevate the one who is sharing (who in the opinion of the
evaluator) is "less evolved". Who gives such "evolved persons" the
right to pass judgement any way? Looks like such persons are the ones
who need to be given lessons on "how to grow up"

Suresh: Dear Sir,

Thanks for your anger and frustrated words. You have clearly mentioned
in your own mail that “trying to educate or elevate”. That was my
intention when I wrote that mail.

I do not understand the logic behind blaming back when someone points
our mistake. If no one points out our mistake, we will continue to
mistake, thinking it is what right.

A simple example is that when my wife serves her cooking which is not
tasteful and if I point out the same, I am fired back. I used to tell
her that "If I don’t tell your mistake how will you correct yourself?"
My children cannot tell that. Their reaction will be either don’t eat
or eat because thinking mother will beat us.

I am a very bold and straight forward person and if anything I see
which is so obvious of mistakes, then I always prompted to tell the
mistake. If someone points out my mistake I am happy to correct and I
used to appreciate them since they pointed out my mistake else I will
continue my mistake which means I am in great loss so far.

Even in office when my assistant / junior most comes and tell my
mistake I always used to appreciate and thank him to correct my
mistake. Even at home when my wife or sister point out any mistake in
me I never used to get angry rather I will say ‘thanks and I will
correct’. Any mistakes are loss, when mistakes are corrected then it
is profit. Either as spiritual man or business man when mistakes are
known it provides the possibility to correct therefore elevate or
profit.

I am happy if you teach me “How to grow up”. What is “grow up”? Let me
stand in the open space out of this earth’s gravitational pull, is
there any direction in that open space or universe? What is growing
up? And what is going down? There is neither grow up nor go down, only
just being as you are is possible.

I am as I am I can never grow nor fall, I am space. I am that I am
pure awareness.

Best regards
Suresh




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