I made sure the file name is the same except for the .tbi and tried loading again. I got this message:
An index file for [file name] could not be located. An index is recommended to view files of this size. Click "Go" to create one now or "Cancel to proceed without an index.
And the error message showed up again.
An IDX file was created, but I can't load the VCF.
I tried putting a shorter file names, with one ending in .vcf and one in .vcf.tbi: same thing happens. I tried deleting de IDX file, same error. I tried naming the files again to [filename].vcf and [filename].tbi (instead of .vcf.tbi), same thing...
I reloaded the file from the source, it didn't solve the problem.