That would be Events.ON_BLUR. I admit I haven't used it myself but I am pretty confident that it should do the trick.
You would have to listen to all fields that you want to be triggering the reload. That would of course cause another reload for each field that gets edited.
Still I think you should be better of using event control instead of a periodic reload.
I don't think that ZK has an event that could give you the destination of a focus change. So AFAIK that is not an option to reload only after the last parameter has been edited.
If the window uses a complex query and/or lots of parameter fields you might try experimenting with some kind of relais that listens to ON_FOCUS and ON_BLUR of all the parameter fields and that uses a timer (not periodic)
that starts on blur and gets killed on focus. The idea is to only echo the event if the timer does not get killed. This requires a bit of experimenting with delay times but might be beneficial if the query is expensive.
Andreas