Hi,
For the indexing process, it's more about the amount the records in the DB and their relations than the volume of digital files. If you are running that AtoM version, all I can think is MySQL no returning data fast enough, or Elasticsearch not being able to index fast enough. If I recall correctly, Elasticsearch works pretty slow under heavy memory load (specially if working with a swap partition), which seems to be the case from your screenshot, so increasing the total memory available in that system may help with the performance of the indexing.
To check everything is still going, you could use the search status task, to see the amount of records currently indexed. By default AtoM indexes in batches of 500, so it may take a while to see an update in the counts:
php symfony search:status
Best,
Radda.