Playboy Sacred Sex Tips From Francesca
Francesca Gentille
I just got off the phone being interviewed by Ginger and Christy of Playboy Radio. They are two adorable adult film stars with a passion for sexual knowledge and experience.
Just a few key points we reviewed (and some I longed to get to but we didn't have time).
TANTRIC SEX:
- Can be raw and primal
- Surfs the erotic, heart, mind, spirit connection between two people and the universe
- Offers multiple orgasms to both men and women
- Allows us to slow down, relax, release anxiety, and performance pressure
- Encourages expressing what we desire, fantasize, long for, and want more of
- Is enhanced by belly breathing, and looking kindly into one another's eyes
- Invites creativity, experimentation, open mindedness while tenderly holding the needs of one's partner
- Looks for the win/win erotic experience
- Releases attachment to performance, "doing", goal, while embracing the senses, full body pleasure, expanded erotic states, and mind blowing - heart open connection
- Is benefited by practice, play, workshops, study, and training
- Invites "Taking the Lead" by being confident, authentically and courageously present to your heart, and creative with a sense of strength. We all enjoy confidence, vitality, heart connection with a smidge of the primal passion.
- Allows for better and better sexual intimate connection throughout our lifetime
SOME NOTES ABOUT WOMEN:
- Only 5 - 10% of women have orgasms through vaginal intercourse alone. It is no one's fault if this is the case. Many women have a clitoris that is placed far enough from her vaginal opening that it is not stimulated during intercourse. (Your hand, her hand, or a vibrator during intercourse can make a world of difference.)
- Most women do not know where their g-spot is nor what a g-spot ejaculation feels like. This can be a great opportunity for tender, slow, playful experimentation. Many women will feel tenderness, or even sadness the first time their g-spot is stimulated. This is because the body holds trauma and many women have stored it there.
- 30 - 40% of women have been molested or sexually abused by the time they are 18. It is additive to know this and to be gentle, and tender while being confident, and trustworthy.
- Most women think there is something flawed about their appearance. Thinking this distracts them from fully enjoying the sexual experience. Praise your beloved in specific ways, regularly. She is not fishing for compliments. She is trying to fill the broken sense of her self beauty which has been punctured by fashion magazines.
- Most women are taught that to be bold and take charge in bed is to be labeled a slut, or to be shamed. If you want your beloved to "take you", let her know that you adore her and would love to be played like an instrument by her touch. Encourage her to let her creative primal priestess of love out to play.
- Most women long to unify heart, body, mind, spirit and Eros in sexuality with their lover.
Please do send me your questions at my blog:
http://www.personallifemedia.com/blogs/sex-tantra-kama-sutra/
What are your comments and insights?
Love & blessings on your Erotic Journey,
Francesca
M. Francesca Gentille - Diva of Divine Relationships
Member the American Association of Sex Educators Counselors & Therapists
Relationship, Life & Sexuality Coach www.LifeDanceCenter.com
Radio Host "Sex: Tantra & Kama Sutra" http://www.personallifemedia.com/podcasts/tantra-kama-sutra/tantra-kama-sutra-show.html
Award Winning Author "The Marriage of Sex & Spirit" www.marriageofsexandspirit.com
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