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Br. Jerome Leo’s Daily Reflection on the Holy Rule
March 16, July 16,
November 15
Chapter 37: On the Old and Children
Although human nature itself is drawn to special kindness towards these times
of life, that is towards the old and children, still the authority of the Rule
should also provide for them.
Let their weakness be always taken into account, and let them by no means be
held to the rigor of the Rule with regard to food. On the contrary, let a kind
consideration be shown to them, and let them eat before the regular hours.
REFLECTION
The tenderness of St.
Benedict shines through here. These are strong words for weakness: "ALWAYS
taken into account," and "BY NO MEANS held to the rigor of the Rule
for food." Though he prefaces his chapter recalling that any healthy human
nature has a certain level of consideration for these age groups, our holy
Father Benedict quickly returns to a very consistent theme of the Holy Rule: we
are called to more than mere nature. We are called, with the help of God, to
the heights of sanctity. With His grace, our considerate mindfulness for every
person and their individual needs must be greater than that of the world.
St. Benedict's aim is that each of us ALWAYS see the person first. That kind of
loving carefulness will make the chapters on the sick and the young and old
complete no-brainers. This is the way we should be seeing everyone: real people
for whom they really are, nothing more or less. Circumstances do arise that
require greater attention, but the foundation of that is a firm theology of personalism.
It should come as no great shock that the most frequent obstacle to viewing
others correctly is ourselves. Our own image, our self, our projections get in
the way of the lens of truth. We have to spend our monastic struggle learning
to put those things aside, so that the light of others may shine through
unobstructed.
With
our own needs at least on a back burner, or better yet, shelved far off in the
pantry, we can begin to truly see others and their needs. Wipe the mud of self
from our eyes and we can see the treasures that surround us. St. Teresa of
Calcutta surely did that. She saw beauty that many of us less holy than she
missed big-time and she saw it in everyone. She saw with her heart and with the
Heart of Jesus.
That's what our Rule demands: the cultivation of the very loving eyes of our
hearts! And we open those eyes by expanding our hearts in love!
Br. Jerome Leo Hughes, OSB (RIP)