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Br. Jerome Leo’s Daily Reflection on the Holy Rule
April 22, August 22,
December 22
Chapter 65: On the Prior of the Monastery (1-10)
It
happens all too often that the constituting of a Prior gives rise to grave
scandals in monasteries. For there are some who become inflated with the evil
spirit of pride and consider themselves second Abbots. By usurping power they
foster scandals and cause dissensions in the community. Especially does this
happen in those places where the Prior is constituted by the same Bishop or the
same Abbots who constitute the Abbot himself. What an absurd procedure this is
can easily be seen; for it gives the Prior an occasion for becoming proud from
the very time of his constitution, by putting the thought into his mind that he
is freed from the authority of his Abbot: "For," he will say to
himself, "you were constituted by the same persons who constitute the
Abbot." From this source are stirred up envy, quarrels, detraction,
rivalry, dissensions and disorders. For while the Abbot and the Prior are at
variance, their souls cannot but be endangered by this dissension; and those
who are under them, currying favor with one side or the other, go to ruin. The
guilt for this dangerous state of affairs rests on the heads of those whose action
brought about such disorder.
REFLECTION
When I read the line about those governed
"currying favor with one side
or the other," I thought immediately of the children of divorce. Children,
however, are quite perceptive, and it is not just divorce, but any
noticeable drift between parents that they will manipulate. That is why, in
family and monastery, unity in authority is very important.
St.
Benedict tries to guarantee this by letting the Abbot choose his own Prior,
parents can do it by a struggle to overcome their own personal
differences for the good of the children. This is not to say that the parents
can necessarily get over their problems, but that they must at
least try to be consistent with the children, for the children's sake.
As St. Benedict points out, this choosing of sides in child or
monastic, can lead to ruin.
Why does it
lead to ruin? Because manipulation to some degree puts us in charge of
ourselves, something no child and very, very few monastics are strong enough to
be. As St. Bernard of Clairvaux said: "The one who has himself for a master
has a fool for a disciple."
One reason
we took obedience upon ourselves was our knowledge of our own weakness. This
knowledge can fade and dim with time, we can be convinced we know better. That is
a risky conclusion to make. Our obedience is a real protection from harm.
Benedictines
not only are not in charge of themselves, but, as the Holy Rule defines
cenobitic community life, they "desire" this lack of control. They
"desire to live under a Rule and an Abbot."
Br. Jerome Leo Hughes, OSB (RIP)