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Br. Jerome Leo’s Daily Reflection on the Holy Rule
April 6, August 6,
December 6
Chapter 54: Whether a Monastic Should Receive Letters or Anything Else
On
no account shall a monastic be allowed to receive letters, blessed tokens or
any little gift whatsoever from parents or anyone else, or from her sisters, or
to give the same, without the Abbess' permission. But if anything is sent her
even by her parents, let her not presume to take it before it has been shown to
the Abbess. And it shall be in the Abbess's power to decide to whom it shall be
given, if she allows it to be received; and the sister to whom it was sent
should not be grieved, lest occasion be given to the devil. Should anyone
presume to act otherwise, let her undergo the discipline of the Rule.
REFLECTION
*[I come
down rather hard on the ownership of things. I don't deny that folks can own
things, I just affirm that all goods are from God and given to us with an eye
to the common good of all. Private ownership is not an absolute right: it comes
with responsibilities to others.]
At first
glance, it might seem that there is little or nothing for Oblates in the
world in this chapter. Not so! However, we shall have to look a bit
deeper and pick about a bit...
OK,
remember the Abbot holds the place of Christ in the community. Now look again.
The monastic is to rely on and look to no one but Christ, and to
receive nothing more or less than what is needed, unless the Abbot,
in Christ's place grants it. Remember the chapter about no monastic
defending another, taking another into their special protection? One can easily
see that this is covered here, too. No one should ever be able to say: "I am
well-off and secure because Sister X. is my ally." Sister X. takes care of
zero. God takes care of all!
We can have
such a distorted of view of our own income and property. We can think we
have "earned" what we have and can therefore use it any way we please
with
impunity. Not so, and not Christian teaching, either. All goods are held with
stewardship for the common good of all. No ownership is outright and
exclusive, except for the sad ownership of our sins.
No matter
what our skills or gifts or how we have developed them, no matter if we were
born with inherited comfort, no matter at all! ALL of that came from
God, every bit. We are literally nothing at all but beneficiaries.
All that we have or hope to have is nothing more or less than a
windfall from God and His mercy.
Now that is
what this chapter is really all about, and it applies to everyone within
the cloister and without. St. Benedict wanted to use these principles
to focus his disciples on the truth that everything, utterly
everything comes from Christ, not from Sister X. or the lucky stroke of having
wealthy family or friends elsewhere, or even from our own work. The
job or business itself came from God, so did the strength to be productive in
any way.
Every
Benedictine heart, beloveds, must examine itself by what we learn from this
passage in the Holy Rule. Absolutely no good thing whatsoever is
ours, everything comes from God. Never take more than we need, never
share less than we ought to share. Freely, fully have we all received
all that we have from God. No less freely should our hearts let it go,
spread it around to others.
Make no
mistake that there are at least two ways to react to the array of God's
giftings. One is grateful largesse, a truly holy detachment from things as we
honestly desire others to share in our blessings. (This is as true of the
spiritual goods as it is of the material!)
The other,
a most pathetic one, is stinge and miserliness, a panicky, insecure fear that
another might get more or have it easier than oneself. Nothing I can think of is
more unbecoming to any who have received magnificently, yet many of us can think of
tragic examples of just such reactions. Guard very, very carefully against
this last
pitfall. I have seen it ensnare monastics, no one is exempt, and it will throw
a dreadful cancer into one's very heart.
Br. Jerome Leo Hughes, OSB (RIP)