St. Mary's Monastery
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Br. Jerome Leo’s Daily Reflection on the Holy Rule
February 5, June 6, October 6
Chapter 7: On
Humility (55)
The eighth degree of humility is that a monk do nothing except what is
commended by the common Rule of the monastery and the example of the elders.
REFLECTION
[Can
you tell I used to be a radio DJ by reading this? And I loved it!]
I am a much bigger fan of early Sinatra than I am of his later career. One of
the hits of his closing years, which was also recorded by Elvis, was "My
Way." It quickly became the defining anthem for many in the rather
egocentric late 20th century.
Couple these two guys with a third, Tony Bennett, in an imaginary trio for
another hit, "I've Gotta Be Me" and you have the secular rationale of
the self in a nutshell. I really love Tony Bennett, and I used to own a copy of
his recording of "I've Gotta Be Me", but now I rather wish he'd
passed up on that one.
Both songs take the healthy notion of self and elevate it to a level of
distortion and falsity. They erroneously elevate a part of truth to being the
whole truth and that spells trouble. Our selves are wonderful, unique, precious
gifts, so are children. Leave either unbridled or malformed and you will regret
it.
Humility forms rightly because it is truth. Like the Gospel itself, humility is
the exact reverse of many a worldly tune. The real, objective truth lies in the
paradox, in the tension of yes AND no to many things which the world would
accept unquestioningly as "YES!"
So, here comes the 8th degree. Its message is that it is most safe to assume
that doing it one's own way is neither right nor terribly bright. We may find
that sometimes we are right, but even there, so long as the action is morally
neutral, the wise course is subjection to the common mind. Benedictines swim in
schools; it's our nature to do so.
In fact, even doing it some other monastery's tested, tried and true way makes
no sense. God calls us to the house and the observance that will best suit us.
If we have made a mistake in hearing Him, He will somehow get us to transfer
(unless we STILL can't hear Him!) Otherwise, let things alone.
We come to a distinct monastery and congregation, to the Rule, to be taught,
not to teach them. We come to be directed, not to direct, to be formed, not to
form. If we allow all those things to happen to us in humility we quite likely
WILL be elements of change for the better in the community's history, but that
change will be one planned by God, not ourselves.
Br. Jerome Leo Hughes, OSB (RIP)