St. Mary's Monastery
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Br. Jerome Leo’s Daily Reflection on the Holy Rule
February 27 (or 28), June 29, October 29
Chapter 22: How the Sisters
Are to Sleep
Let
each one sleep in a separate bed. Let them receive bedding suitable to their
manner of life, according to the Abbess's directions. If possible let all sleep
in one place; but if the number does not allow this, let them take their rest
by tens or twenties with the seniors who have charge of them.
A candle shall be kept burning in the room until morning. Let them sleep
clothed and girded with belts or cords-but not with their knives at their
sides, lest they cut themselves in their sleep-and thus be always ready to rise
without delay when the signal is given and hasten to be before one another at
the Work of God, yet with all gravity and decorum.
The younger shall not have beds next to one another, but among those of the
older ones. When they rise for the Work of God let them gently encourage one
another, that the drowsy may have no excuse.
REFLECTION
Hastening "yet will all gravity and decorum"
has prompted many a community joke, many a wry comment as one ran most
ungracefully, parts of the habit flapping wildly in the breeze, to whatever the
bell was about to make one late for! St. Benedict far antedates the Three
Stooges, but he still took precautions to ensure that we would not look EXACTLY
like Moe, Larry and Curly when we went to choir or dinner! Admittedly, some of
our human tendency still arises to give a partial glimpse of that comedic trio,
but, as always, the picture is balanced!
In the dormitory, the elderly may have problems during
the night if their health is declining. Hale and hearty (and hopefully easily
awakened!) juniors nearby promise them assistance, if needed. Of course, if you
want a humorous take on the knives issue, it may have been to prevent mayhem
and murder of snorers, an idea which has occurred to many light sleepers!
Dormitory sleeping is a thing of the past in our Order
today, but it’s nice to see that thoughtfulness behind its original expression
in the Holy Rule. There's a bit of the mother in St. Benedict, going out of his
way to mention a small detail like not sleeping with knives. It is worthy of
note, however, that St. Benedict, as always is MODERATELY maternal, not
neurotically so! He doesn't get all bent out of shape, but he cares greatly and
deeply.
One of the most beautiful images in this passage is
the exhortation to "gently encourage one another" at the hour of
rising. Remember that the strictest silence of all prevailed at this time. Now
picture the monastics gently encouraging one another! With no words, there had
to be a lot of touch, a lot of gentle smiles, a lot of warmth and care
expressed NON-verbally.
A very good idea of how loving a monastic is can be had by disturbing their
silence (or sleep, I imagine!!) Is the reaction cross and withering? Watch out
for that one! Is there a smile, even a warm one, a reaction of sweetness? Well, when
silence is over, that is a monastic to whose words you may want to listen
carefully.
Br. Jerome Leo Hughes, OSB (RIP)