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Br. Jerome Leo’s Daily Reflection on the Holy Rule
April 23, August 23,
December 23
Chapter 65: On the Prior of the Monastery (11-22)
To us, therefore, it seems expedient for the preservation of peace and charity
that the Abbot have in his hands the full administration of his monastery. And
if possible let all the affairs of the monastery, as we have already arranged,
be administered by deans according to the Abbot's directions. Thus, with the
duties being shared by several, no one person will become proud.
But if the circumstances of the place require it, or if the community asks for
it with reason and with humility, and the Abbot judges it to be expedient, let
the Abbot himself constitute as his Prior whomsoever he shall choose with the
counsel of God-fearing brethren.
That Prior, however, shall perform respectfully the duties enjoined on him by
his Abbot and do nothing against the Abbot's will or direction; for the more he
is raised above the rest, the more carefully should he observe the precepts of
the Rule.
If it should be found that the Prior has serious faults, or that he is deceived
by his exaltation and yields to pride, or if he should be proved to be a
despiser of the Holy Rule, let him be admonished verbally up to four times. If
he fails to amend, let the correction of regular discipline be applied to him.
But if even then he does not reform, let him be deposed from the office of
Prior and another be appointed in his place who is worthy of it. And if
afterwards he is not quiet and obedient in the community, let him even be
expelled from the monastery. But the Abbot, for his part, should bear in mind
that he will have to render an account to God for all his judgments, lest the
flame of envy or jealousy be kindled in his soul.
REFLECTION
The
overwhelming majority of us, myself included, are never going to be a Prior or
Prioress. Firm grasp on the obvious there!! What, however, may we glean from
this chapter? There are at least several possibilities.
First, even if your position gives you a certain level of honor, never be so
stupid as to believe it, to become proud, to take yourself far too seriously.
Cling to a self-knowledge of your limitations, your sins and failings,
especially when being praised.
Yes, we are human, yes, it is nice to hear those things, yes, sometimes they
are even close to the truth, but praise, rank and honor can be awful traps.
Like crack cocaine, they can addict us the first time we really give in to
them. Great caution is in order here.
Second, every commitment to Christ, Baptism, Oblation or Profession, obliges us
to a higher standard of self-control. The Holy Rule, because speaking of a
superior official, uses the phrase "raised above the rest." This is
given as a reason to more carefully observe the Holy Rule.
We should read therein that any commitment which separates us and sets us
further apart for the service of God means that we must more carefully observe
the precepts of the Rule. Even though it can be quite annoying to hear, how
often someone will say, immediately after a litany of transgressions the person
has committed, "And she is an OBLATE!" (Or Secular Franciscan, or
whatever.) People expect more of us because of our religious inclinations and
we should not disappoint them.
Third, and perhaps most important of all, no one, save God alone, is
indispensable. No one. Want to see the change that your removal from the scene
will effect? Stick your forearm into a bucket of water, and then pull it out.
Same thing, folks, the waters close right in and things go on quite nicely. The
higher water level while our arm was there was only illusion anyway. This fact
can work in happy concert with the above warning about taking ourselves too
seriously. Usually, when we THINK we're hot stuff, we aren't, and even if we truly
are at some point, it is FAR better not to know that, and a LOT easier for the
spiritual struggle.
Yes, we ARE important, we are infinitely important to God and, as a result, to
each other. We embrace our dignity as God’s creatures by holiness and love and
struggling for virtue, not power. What makes us most like Him is humility and
love.
Br. Jerome Leo Hughes, OSB (RIP)