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Br. Jerome Leo’s Daily Reflection on the Holy Rule
April 7, August 7,
December 7
Chapter 55: On the Clothes and Shoes of the Brethren (1-14)
Let
clothing be given to the brethren according to the nature of the place in which
they dwell and its climate; for in cold regions more will be needed, and in
warm regions less. This is to be taken into consideration, therefore, by the
Abbot. We believe, however, that in ordinary places the following dress is
sufficient for each monk: a tunic, a cowl (thick and woolly for winter, thin or worn
for summer), a scapular for work, stockings and shoes to cover the feet.
The
monks should not complain about the color or the coarseness of any of these
things, but be content with what can be found in the district where they live
and can be purchased cheaply. The Abbot shall see to the size of the garments,
that they be not too short for those who wear them, but of the proper fit. Let
those who receive new clothes always give back the old ones at once, to be put
away in the wardrobe for the poor. For it is sufficient if a monk has two
tunics and two cowls, to allow for night wear and for the washing of these
garments; more than that is superfluity and should be taken away. Let them
return their stockings also and anything else that is old when they receive new
ones. Those who are sent on a journey shall receive drawers from the wardrobe,
which they shall wash and restore on their return. And let their cowls and
tunics be somewhat
better than what they usually wear. These they shall receive from the wardrobe
when they set out on a journey, and restore when they return.
REFLECTION
Stringent rules regarding the habit could give
some the feeling of being
"incarcerated" in the habit. Hearing anecdotes about the past, I have
no doubt that is true. I find that terribly out of balance. However, and this
is certain to displease some, I wonder if the best answer to too much habit is
no habit at all.
Having said
that, and underscoring that I am not incarcerated in the habit, nor do I
wish anyone else to be, let me embark on something more than just a
hymn of praise for the habit. It will, trust me, be very much more of
a love song.
My habit is
not ALL of me, would that it were! I could greatly profit from being
ALL monk. But my habit is a large part of me. I have kissed every
piece while donning or doffing it, every single time for years now. I
can assure you that those kisses are sincere, not mindless. I love it
deeply and the sense of blessing in wearing it has never left me.
The habit
doesn't advertise ME to the world, I would be the first to tell you that
that would hardly be worthwhile or honest. It DOES advertise my
Benedictine heritage to the world and that humbles me. For that witness
of the habit I am very, very grateful. I am no icon of holiness, but our
habit is. I am an icon-bearer and that is a lofty thing, a humbling
thing, a thing greatly desirable.
People have
come to me in Boston that really needed help who never, ever would have
approached me in an Oxford cloth button down shirt, in the preppy
style of lay clothes I admittedly love. Wouldn't have happened.
Couldn't have happened.
One of
those people is dead now, gone to God a new Oblate, a homebound and
nearly blind woman in a wheelchair. She was sunning herself in her
wheelchair, outside her apartment in East Boston and still had enough
eyesight to recognize the habit and call out as I walked by. Thanks
be to God, I had my habit on that day. I got delegated to invest her as an Oblate
in her own apartment and she went to God before she could make her
Final Oblation. I hope she made that in heaven. What a gift Teresa was- and
is- to us!
I could go
on and on. There was a terribly sincere man on the Boston Common whose
question had just gotten dumped on by an insensitive priest. He would
never have known me otherwise. There was the European woman who spoke very little
English and felt safer asking a monk for directions.
In choir,
as no place else, does the habit sing to me. Our cowls (cucullas to some
of you,) are voluminous garments of prayer, mini- enclosures,
formal attire of serious business and great holiness. How deeply
grateful I am to wear one. Whatever choices others may have taken about
the habit, I feel sorry for any of them without a choir garment. It
is a treasure of unity and joy.
I have
known people who were taunted, even treated with scarcely believable
meanness for wearing the habit, for choosing the "wrong" option (when, in
fact, one option only was what was meant!) In years past, "optional" was
often nothing more than a euphemism for "abolished." And, to be always and
everywhere without the habit? I could never stand that.
Br. Jerome Leo Hughes, OSB (RIP)