OK, yet another thought (can't resist).
i ran rake routes and I found the create_order_assist route:
create_order_assist POST /order_assists(.:format)
{:action=>"create", :controller=>"order_assists"}
could I do something with this, perhaps create a button that uses a
customized controller action? I'm sure I would have to define a custom
action for create inside the order_assists_controller.
I'm full of ideas but don't really know how to accomplish any of these
things. If this last suggestion I've made is the way to go, how do I
go about creating a new order_assist? Assuming I know the order and
item id's i want to give the order_assist, how do I set them in the
new model instance as/after I create it?
-a very caffeinated hoboHippy