Hi Muhsin,
Yes, you should use EXTTR. The ring is a common ground. The center pin is pulled low by the HL2 during TX. The control signal which the HL2 pulls to ground can be as high as 28V. See the schematic for more details.
Since this PA is meant to interface to a Yaseu, you might want to check out the band voltages here:
How good is the filtering in this amplifier?
73,
Steve
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