Just recently in the last couple of days I found a cheap way to sense complex pressures on a gripper.
A pressure sensor with 100 “pixels” per finger is expensive, but Amazon just delivered a suitable camera, cost about $16.
The robot can self-train to learn how much deformation is needed to grip different kinds of objects.
Here is a not-to-bad video that I did not make, that shows how a "fin-ray" deformable finger can make grip force visible in a camera. It will be better when it is taken from a wrist camera. Yes, there are better hands, but my goal is only to get the training environment to work. The goal is to develop a process. BTW, is you need a good rob-arm to suport software dev google “SO-101"