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Alan Fine

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Sep 22, 2018, 2:22:58 AM9/22/18
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For the longest time, I have dreaded the thought of writing this email to our group, but the time has come...

We mourn the passing of my father, Donald Fine, a warm and loving dad, a great athlete, lover of classical music and movies, who was a generous and genuinely funny person. Don graduated third in his class at Long Island City High School in 1952. (He loved saying that, then explaining he graduated during summer school and with two other guys.) In 1956, Don graduated Fordham University School of Pharmacy, then later owned pharmacies with his father and mother, Benjamin and Lena. Don was very proud to be one of the founding members of Temple Beth Shalom in Hastings. Don is survived by his wife Elizabeth, his sister Sheila Oxman, his children Alan, Lawrence, Shari (whom he had with his late first wife Laura), Veronica, Liz and Christine, his grandchildren Alicia, Jocelyn, Anissa, Sofia, Jojo, Sara and Benjamin, and his great-grandchildren Christian, Alexander and Juliana. 

Funeral service will be this Sunday, September 23, 2018 at the Hastings Funeral Home, 15 Spring St, Hastings-On-Hudson, NY 10706. 
Time to be announced. Will send another notice. 

In lieu of flowers, the family wishes donations be made to Fordham University. 

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John M

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Sep 22, 2018, 7:36:47 AM9/22/18
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Dear Alan and family
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. He was a man of great character   

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Jebwilk

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Sep 22, 2018, 7:36:47 AM9/22/18
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Alan,
I’m so sorry. I wish I could be there to give you a big hug as you did recently for me after my dad passed. You have inherited not only his good looks but also his generous, caring spirit and sense of humor. I know he is proud of you!
Love to you and your family! 
Julie 


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Mark Lesly

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Sep 22, 2018, 7:36:47 AM9/22/18
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I am hoping it will be no sooner than 1 p.m., because I have to teach at NYU from 10-Noon tomorrow.  I think my hug last night said what I needed to say...so very sorry, my old friend.

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Melinda Valentine

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Sep 22, 2018, 7:39:40 AM9/22/18
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So sorry for your loss... Seems he had a wonderful life. Raised a beautiful family and legacy ..🙏


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Glenn Martin

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Sep 22, 2018, 8:56:32 AM9/22/18
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So sorry Alan. Glad we were able to connect last night and share our Dad stories of how they are nearing the end of their journey in life. Stay strong. Glenn Martin 

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Sep 22, 2018, 8:56:32 AM9/22/18
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I'm so sorry Alan. So true , what Melinda says about a wonderful life , a beautiful family and a legacy. He was blessed and so are you by hailing from such roots. My mother as she grew old , used to say " I won't always be here , but I'll always be with you. " Its  true 🙏🏼

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Bob Rittner

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Sep 22, 2018, 10:14:16 AM9/22/18
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Very sorry to hear it, Alan. 

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P. Westrell

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Sep 22, 2018, 10:14:16 AM9/22/18
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Alan I am sorry for your loss.  I know how close you were to your dad.  He lived a great life and was a super father. Please pass along our best to Larry and Shari.
 
Pete and Betsy Westrell
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Andre Belarge

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Sep 22, 2018, 10:14:16 AM9/22/18
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Alan, so sorry to hear this sad news. It was really nice to see you last night. You are much like your father in more than looks, his legacy will live thru you.

Andre

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So sorry Alan. Glad we were able to connect last night and share our Dad stories of how they are nearing the end of their journey in life. Stay strong. Glenn Martin 

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So sorry for your loss... Seems he had a wonderful life. Raised a beautiful family and legacy ..🙏

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On Sep 22, 2018, at 2:22 AM, Alan Fine <alan...@gmail.com> wrote:

For the longest time, I have dreaded the thought of writing this email to our group, but the time has come...

We mourn the passing of my father, Donald Fine, a warm and loving dad, a great athlete, lover of classical music and movies, who was a generous and genuinely funny person. Don graduated third in his class at Long Island City High School in 1952. (He loved saying that, then explaining he graduated during summer school and with two other guys.) In 1956, Don graduated Fordham University School of Pharmacy, then later owned pharmacies with his father and mother, Benjamin and Lena. Don was very proud to be one of the founding members of Temple Beth Shalom in Hastings. Don is survived by his wife Elizabeth, his sister Sheila Oxman, his children Alan, Lawrence, Shari (whom he had with his late first wife Laura), Veronica, Liz and Christine, his grandchildren Alicia, Jocelyn, Anissa, Sofia, Jojo, Sara and Benjamin, and his great-grandchildren Christian, Alexander and Juliana. 

Funeral service will be this Sunday, September 23, 2018 at the Hastings Funeral Home, 15 Spring St, Hastings-On-Hudson, NY 10706
Time to be announced. Will send another notice. 

In lieu of flowers, the family wishes donations be made to Fordham University. 

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Earle MacHardy

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Sep 22, 2018, 11:43:46 AM9/22/18
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Sorry for your loss.  Losing a parent is always difficult.

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Lorrie Karam

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Sep 22, 2018, 11:43:46 AM9/22/18
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My sympathies to you and your family.  I'm glad he's at peace and no longer suffering.
Love Lorrie

Alan Fine

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Sep 22, 2018, 11:57:15 AM9/22/18
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The funeral time for my dad, Donald Fine, has been finalized and is 11 AM, tomorrow, Sunday, September 23, 2018 at the Hastings Funeral Home, 15 Spring St, Hastings-On-Hudson, NY 10706


Shiva will be Sunday 6 to 8pm, Monday and Tuesday 4 to 8pm at 14 Crossbar Road, Hastings-on-Hudson, NY 10706.


Thank you, everyone, for you kind words and thoughts. It all helps.


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Mark Lesly

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Sep 22, 2018, 12:41:58 PM9/22/18
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Gonna get coverage for my class...I will be there.

Jill Pearson

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Sep 22, 2018, 12:41:58 PM9/22/18
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My Dear Friend Alan,

I send my condolences to you and your entire family on the passing of your Dad.

What a wonderful man he was! And how may great memories you all have to think of in the days to come, when sadness starts to overcome you. When I read your post on Facebook, I thought, how great! Even when flossing your teeth, your Dad will be there with you! And that made me smile.

May God hold him in the palm of his hand. You and your family will be in my prayers.

Love, Jill

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Thomas Torre

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Sep 22, 2018, 12:41:58 PM9/22/18
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Alan

There are better days ahead for all, as he is at rest and enjoying eternal peace  My sympathies to go and your family 

Tom

jan sidebotham

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Sep 22, 2018, 2:07:32 PM9/22/18
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Alan,
You were so wonderful after my father died in 2010 and rallied folks to come to his funeral NYC. I remember seeing you there -- it meant so much. I'm sorry I can't reciprocate. Sending love and condolences, Jan

Cynthia Barr

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Sep 22, 2018, 3:09:26 PM9/22/18
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Dear Alan,

I'm so very sorry to hear this sad news.  I know you were expecting it, but that doesn't make it any easier.  I wish I could be there for you the way you were there for me last year when my mom passed.  I will be in Boston tomorrow, but I'll be thinking of you.  Your dad raised wonderful kids, and the qualities you loved in him he passed on to you.  He could not have a better legacy.

Hugs and love,
Cindy

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Barry Olsen

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Sep 22, 2018, 3:40:13 PM9/22/18
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Alan,

My condolences to you and your family and sorry I won’t be able to join you tomorrow.

Barry


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Nancy Schwartz

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Sep 22, 2018, 3:42:39 PM9/22/18
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Alan,
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. Your dad sounded like a fabulous role model for you. 
My sincerest condolences,
Nancy Zelman Schwartz


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Melinda Valentine

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Sep 22, 2018, 5:29:38 PM9/22/18
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Beautiful saying Valerie 

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Keith Kelley

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Sep 22, 2018, 7:56:10 PM9/22/18
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Alan,
So sorry to hear. Sending lots of love.
Laura

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Lucy Riggs

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Sep 23, 2018, 10:43:36 PM9/23/18
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Alan
thinking of you and your family.
i'm  sorry about your loss
I wish I d have known him
sincerely
Dave


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The funeral time for my dad, Donald Fine, has been finalized and is 11 AM, tomorrow, Sunday, September 23, 2018 at the Hastings Funeral Home, 15 Spring St, Hastings-On-Hudson, NY 10706

Shiva will be Sunday 6 to 8pm, Monday and Tuesday 4 to 8pm at 14 Crossbar Road, Hastings-on-Hudson, NY 10706.

Thank you, everyone, for you kind words and thoughts. It all helps.

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