Pluck pitch depends on both span length and belt type (specifically, mass per unit length). I wouldn't bother trying to get a particular note, so much as ANY note -- if it gives a "plunk" noise at all, it's probably in the right ballpark for tightness.
Nominally, a 6mm GT2 belt is rated for 6 lbs pre-tension. That's not all that much. But that's also spec'd for power-transmission service, where working load adds significant tension on top of the preload, and the belt is continuously rotating for extended periods. In 3D printing, we want the preload to be the majority of the tension, and have acceleration loads be smaller. So I think it's justified to preload higher than spec. There's really no official guidance though.
As for whether CoreXY needs different belt tensions from regular Cartesian, I would say no. The longer belt spans mean belt stretch is slightly magnified, but not THAT much. In rough terms, each belt run is twice as long, but you also have a 1.41:1 pulley reduction inherent in the CoreXY mechanism, so stretch is only 41% larger for the same acceleration. And belt stretch is rarely an issue in any regular-sized printer to begin with unless garbage nylon-core belts are used. 41% more than "negligible" is still probably negligible.