Thehuman experience is an unending stream of small humiliations and miseries that culminates in The Big One. Doing something with your life can be as simple as going to dinner, making ends meet, walking the neighborhood, or talking with friends (with friends like Toni Morrison and Scorsese, Fran has had the upper hand here). Not everything has to be documented, it can just be said. If you take that as the baseline, you can go about the task of living with your hands free, leaving you prepared to seize a flash of good fortune.
In the new WB Series, "Living with Fran," she portrays Fran Reeves, a middle-aged woman living with a 20-something son who dropped out of medical school and a 15-year-old daughter experiencing all the joys of adolescence. She also has a 26-year-old hunky, blonde live-in boyfriend.
In the pilot episode, we meet Josh, Fran's med school-drop-out son, who has unexpectedly arrived at the house only to discover the whole mom-living-with-a-26-year-old situation. (Fran had forgotten, of course, to mention the newest addition to the family.) The initial episode revolves around the tension between son Josh (Ben Feldman) and beau Riley (Ryan McPartlin).
Feldman is actually oddly charming as Josh: erratic, a bit impulsive and rather confounded by the odd turn of events. He manages to be funny without appearing overly irritated, and this allows us to like him despite the fact that he is going through a low point in his life.
The breakthrough performance by Misti Traya as sister Allison Reeves is another pleasant surprise; she brings a refreshing twist to a traditional "angsty teen" role. Allison is cynical but lighthearted all at once; she is amusing while poking fun at her brother, and shares a wit and a temperament with her mom. Both kids manage to capture a bit of Fran in their own personalities, too, and the family resemblance adds to the cast's cohesiveness.
Riley, on the other hand, appears to be a typical jock until he shows an unexpected sensitive side when he tries to get along with Josh for Fran's sake. Apparently, the writers want to make Riley a bit more deep than simply Fran's "goy-toy," as Josh calls him. As a result, Riley comes across as wishy-washy and difficult to pinpoint.
Is he a very intelligent man simply in love with an older woman? Is he a kid at heart that landed a 'sweet deal'? How genuine is their actual relationship? Who is actually the comic personality here? At this point, it is hard to tell because McPartlin acts a bit artificially.
The show is certainly lighthearted and provides audience members with many funny moments; if anything, this is due to the supporting characters' interactions with Fran. Drescher completely and entirely carries the show on her shoulders, making (some) viewers nostalgic for her "Nanny" years. It is difficult not to picture her as the infamous housekeeper, since the two characters are completely alike in mannerisms, and it seems that at any moment a feisty butler might appear.
But "Living with Fran" is most certainly not "The Nanny" (despite a forecasted appearance of Drescher's former co-star, Charles Shaughnessy, as the ex-husband in an upcoming episode). It has the same heroine, but lacks the wit and the multilayered social and cultural commentary that marked the latter through six seasons.
In "Living with Fran," age difference jokes certainly grind the ear for the first fifteen minutes. The show deals with combating the stereotypical norms of post-divorce families and the humor that can result from doing this. Of course, Drescher is much older, but she still has the capability to capture our attention with her annoying-yet-amazing laugh and contagious smile.
At university, Meneses continued making small comic illustrations, honing her craft for capturing everyday life while still assuming that this would be something she could do for fun while earning a living as a graphic designer for a publisher or agency. Eventually, she began taking on small commissions from friends, which lead to an opportunity to create illustrations for the free paper at university.
This vulnerability is displayed in all of Meneses work, though no more so than through her first full length graphic novel Personas Favoritas [2017 SM Ediciones, Chile], coauthored with Pavez Goye, which tackles the difficulties of adult friendships and how those friendships sometimes falter.
The couple created a podcast for some of these interviews and to work through their own thoughts around this issue while putting the book together. This multidisciplinary approach to her art has allowed Meneses to continue growing creatively, experimenting with different ideas in various public ways and putting that back into her work. Besides the podcast, Meneses has a significant following on YouTube, Instagram, and now through Patreon.
Through her many social media accounts, Meneses hosts live drawing sessions with her audience and interacts regularly with her growing fan base, inspiring new illustrators as well as helping to open the door to some difficult conversations about contemporary womanhood, immigration, surviving an ongoing pandemic, and now coming out lesbian as an adult.
As a Latina, a Chilean, an immigrant, feminist, and lesbian, Meneses has lived life under the patriarchal dictatorship of Pinochet, watched as family members struggle to make ends meet under widening wealth gaps, and recently witnessed the manifestations in her native country that have led to the rewriting of the Chilean constitution. All of these factors play into how she expresses herself.
Meneses describes her process as one of people watching at its most basic, but explicitly as a way of capturing the relationship humans have to their surroundings. She expresses this through her Instagram comics which often are derived from internal monologues between her and her cat, her zines tackling issues of self-consciousness, and her travelogues including the full-length graphic novel About to Leave. Recently Meneses has started a project called The Ugly Sketchbook Tour where she shares all of the rough illustrations she has made without self-editing or censorship.
Meneses has undertaken yet another graphic novel project with Pavez Goye, who remains a close confidant and creative partner, with the goal of completing it in the next year and finding a publisher to release it shortly thereafter. The new project is based on a science fiction manuscript Pavez Goye wrote, which presented another creative challenge to illustrate technologies, architectures, and landscapes that fall outside of Meneses core comfort zone.
Watching her social media accounts where she posts snippets of this work makes it difficult to believe she is challenged by the project. Following along with her creative process is inspirational. You can follow her creative endeavors at @Frannerd on Instagram, YouTube, and Patreon, or shop her online store at WeAreNiceHumans.com.
We talk about adultism and other societal messages we absorb about children, which then affect the way we treat children. Fran also shares her experience doing the deep inner work of unschooling and some of the ways she has grown and learned from her children.
The Network is a wonderful online community for parents to engage in candid conversations about living and learning through the lens of unschooling. Our shared goals are to embrace lifelong learning, develop strong and connected relationships with our children, and cultivate a thriving unschooling lifestyle in our families.
Parents need to know that the lead character is a middle-aged divorcee who's living with a much younger man and enjoying an active sex life. Most episodes contain jokes that adults might find funny, but which might confuse younger viewers or go over their heads entirely. For example, in one episode, Fran tells her son that she's skipping her bikini wax because her hysterectomy scar hasn't yet healed and comments favorably when her pregnant cousin says that she's already had her doctor-OK'd daily glass of wine with breakfast.
In LIVING WITH FRAN, nasal-voiced actress Fran Drescher stars as a middle-aged divorcee juggling her relationship with a much younger man with the demands of raising her two almost-grown-up kids. Drescher plays Fran Reeves, who -- after splitting up with husband Ted (Charles Shaughnessy, her co-star on The Nanny) -- finds love with the much-younger Riley (Ryan McPartlin). Riley shacks up with Fran and her two kids, 21-year-old Josh (Ben Feldman), who moved home after dropping out of medical school, and 16-year-old Allison (Misti Traya), who tests Fran's patience with her entre into the dating world. Debi Mazar rounds out the cast as Merrill, Fran's cousin who always drops by unexpectedly -- and who ends up dating Riley's best friend.
Living with Fran relies on typical "wacky" sitcom storylines to garner laughs, but overall the show is neither particularly great nor particularly terrible. Some episodes deal with adult subject matter -- including premarital sex and searching for love while raising kids -- which leads to some bawdy dialogue. But if viewers can handle that, they'll find Living with Fran a mindless half-hour of entertainment.
Families can talk about divorce. Why do some marriages end in divorce? How are kids affected by their parents' breakup? Why is it important for kids to understand that they aren't the reason for the end of their parents' marriage? How does it affect kids when their parents enter new relationships, particularly serious ones? How are the effects different for younger and older kids?
You know, I will say though, I think that your mother was partially right. Because I do think in my experience, there is a kind of strength and a power to being funny. And certain people find that intimidating, particularly men.
Be a better world. So after school, you moved to New York and you cleaned houses. You wrote pornography, you drove a cab? You know, by the way, I have a friend who I used to work with on Seinfeld writer and he wrote pornography to make a living. And he had to excuse himself with some frequency to relieve himself.
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