[My wife Teresa and I were married on June 19th, 1970. Many years ago, we enjoyed a two-week cruise through the Panama Canal, also visiting countries in South and Central America, and the Caribbean. On that cruise we formed a close friendship (not professionally) with Attorney Bradley Coates from Honolulu, Hawaii. After 25 years as a divorce lawyer, he has written a book called "Divorce with Decency", trying to help couples retain integrity in that very painful and difficult time. Some of his sources were bitter-sweet about the subject; here are the TOP TEN.]
10. "Whoever thinks marriage is a 50-50 proposition doesn't know the half of it." - Anonymous
9. "The most difficult year of marriage is the one you're in." - F.P. Jones
8. "Marriage is a master, mistress, and two slaves, making in all, two." - Ambrose Bierce
7. "Love at first sight is easy to understand. It's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle." - Sam Levinson
6. "A man in love is incomplete until he's married. Then he is finished." - Zsa Zsa Gabor
5. "More marriages would survive if the partners realized that sometimes the better comes after the worse." -- Doug Larson
4. "Success in life means more than finding the right person to marry. Being the right person is even more important." - Elos Nelson
3. "Love has been described as a three-ring circus. First comes the engagement ring, then the wedding ring, and after that the suffer ring." - Bob Phillips
2. "You can never tell about a marriage from the outside. Some couples hold hands because they're afraid that if they let go they'd kill each other."
1. "I'll never get married again. I'll just find a woman I don't like and give her a house." - Lewis Grizzard
and a bonus:
"I am a marvelous housekeeper. Every time I leave a man, I keep his house." - Zsa Zsa Gabor
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Dr Bob Griffin
“It is not enough to stare up the steps;
we must step up the stairs “