Sorry to hear that you're not getting an answer. It's not easy to answer. I've attempted to put together some information, but things change and it's a lot of work to try to explain it, and there is no reward for the work.
I haven't published a new add-on in quite a while, so I'm not sure what the current details are.
I'll try to provide some info, but it's not going to be anywhere near a complete explanation.
The first issue is whether you want to make it an "editor" add-on, or a Workspace addon.
Are you using a sidebar and/or dialog box with HTML for user interaction? If so, it must be an editor add-on.
One of the biggest issues is the flow of events surrounding getting your Apps Script code reviewed and approved.
They will want to view your add-on, but unless it's published how do you provide them with access? It's a question that Google doesn't seem to have an answer for.
There are basically two major reviews of your add-on
1) The code review
2) Addon functionality
You need to create a new GCP project that is the basis of creating the published Marketplace listing for your addon.
I created a YouTube video about that, but it's two years old, uses the old code editor and is outdated. But it's only 12 minutes long and should give you some basic information.