True, Memcache is not currently available for GAE flex. Per this doc, an alpha version of the memcache service will be available shortly. If you would like to be notified when the service is available, fill out this early access form.
If you need access to a memcache service immediately, you can use the third party memcache service from Redis Labs. To access this service, see Caching Application Data Using Redis Labs Memcache.