I also looked at this thread:
https://groups.google.com/forum/#!msg/golang-nuts/HsaLNTMq3eI/-f2tRTMEnYoJ
I'm mostly doing POSTs though, not GETs so a retry loop isn't a super good solution, at least until I can be fairly certain I know what's going on.
FWIW: The other side (which logs request_ids) doesn't seem to be logging the request_id of requests that EOF'd.
There is still the ELB in the middle of course, but I pretty much need that.
It's also impossible to capture a traffic dump as everything is over https (at least to the ELB).