Hi Kris!
Happy to hear there's resources on the Cloudflare side to help us merge this upstream.
The key scheduling fact is that the Go 1.11 feature freeze is just a week away, so we decided that it would be too rushed to merge the 1.3 patches for it. I definitely aim to have TLS 1.3 in Go 1.12. https://github.com/golang/go/wiki/Go-Release-Cycle
However, I planned to merge the RSA-PSS patches from Peter Wu this cycle in preparation. If you have any ideas for other CLs that can go into 1.11 and that would help reduce the diff in 1.12, I'd be happy to hear about them. (We'll need to have them mailed this week, but the review can extend into the freeze.)
You will probably want to wait for the dust to settle from those, then I'll update the dev.tls branch and we can start merging there during the freeze. (If we end up using my patches, I would also appreciate some review, as of course I can't do that myself.)
Please feel free to email me or the list if there's anything you need for this.