Wespank Real Punishment Of Children
Pablo Barjavel
The Bible also condones slavery, says that unmarried women who are raped are required to marry their rapist, married women who are raped should be stoned, and people became ill as a punishment from god. But we as a society have (thankfully) opted to not follow everything that is written in a book from a time when the above things were okay and people were so ignorant. When you know better you should do better. There are better and more loving ways to raise children. Does your husband also beat you, since that is condoned in your bible?
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God-fearing parents may hear from both non-Christians and fellow Christians that they should spare the rod lest they harm their children and damage their prospects for the future. In reality, however, when the rod is applied with consistency and love, it can be a means God uses to help our children flourish.
Understandably, some people think these verses mean that spanking children is an acceptable and even preferred method of discipline. The Christian group Focus on the Family offers parents 7 tips for effective spanking on their website, including "use a wooden spoon or some other appropriately sized paddle and flick your wrist," since "if it doesn't hurt, it isn't really discipline."
I believe that parents should spank their children. Some children do not respond to punishments that are not physical. Children who are overly disrespectful are the ones that need physical punishment. I'll admit that there are a few negatives with spanking, but it also depends upon the parent-child relationship as well as how often the punishment is administered, to what severity, and under what circumstances. Here is my blog with a few of my thoughts on spanking children: -misbehaving-public-whooping/
some times the child will not listen or learn unless spanked, some children are just so bull headed and stubborn about doing bad things that no other forms of punishment will work because they think it is a joke and they laugh about other kinds of punishment. in addition, if you start using other links of punishments parent have been condemned about using alternative kinds of punishment also. I mean, the people who object to spanking object to almost all kinds of punishments and will fault people from using them also. if you are a single mother and her child is getting older and bigger and the mother wants to keep her child from becoming a delinquent, so that is supposed to be acceptable?
Every child pushes limits during their entire life . As they learn right from wrong some times in rare situations a good swat on the palm of the hand enough to get their attention can help in difficult children . It's better if you seek help in talking firmly with a explanation what and why a wrong is . Children are learning limits if you can give them examples of results on their level of what happens when one continues a wrong action . It must be on their learning level . As for swatting a child with intentional force to many get caught up in angry actions leading to damage both physical and mental . Never punish while angry even a bad day at work can effect your control . I personally had a set of parents that went to far causing real physical perminate damage as well as mental . There are 3 of us kids and that was in the 60-70s . It was acceptable to Paddle in schools as well , in one instance while in school JR High our History teacher also men's basketball coach allowed boys to toss paper balls at the trash can . If you missed that was one whack with a large paddle . Well I,missed as did several other boys out in the hall for our whacks . The coach would throw his arm way back and really cause bruises . I was standing behind him and when he drew back he hit me square in the forehead knocking me backwards . This is not the proper use of a punishment today in fact coach would likely be fired . Once I got a paddling for soemthing I did not do again misjustice at a very early stage in 1st grade . That incident made me despise authority even that young . No teacher should punish without administration assistance in public schools to many children with mental difficulties are damaged instead of getting proper help . I also,believe we wayyyyy overprescribing certain drugs that's being given to children to stop certain behavior the easy way . The easy way creates addiction very early in life often leading to much stronger harder drugs. Look at our heroine abuse among now JR high up its a epidemic started in the eastern states years ago it has spread nation wide . This I believe is results of addictive prescriptions that later these children self medicate but they get caught in a deadly game that ends badly . Should we whip our children No ! There are far better ways even the most poor of us can do,to end bad behavior . It takes a dedicated parent and it takes faith in a higher power greater than any other . It's your choice who,or what that higher power is to you . Each of us have different views some might think beating a child works best but to me that's a lazy abusive way to cope with difficult children .Pastor Brenten Stevens
it does not, esp if it is done right, if the child matures in time, it wont cause any problems. the problem comes in with immature adults who think that everybody needs to be caudled or you do't love them. animals punish their young, and in time even though the baby thinks at the time they are abused, when they grow up and becomes parents they learn they have to also. if a baby elephant does not get raised properly, that is start out with the females and later the young male go and socialize with the bull males, where they are taught other things about right and wrong, if they don't get to socialize with the males they go roan. that is good reason why humans need to also push their young. the problem is when punishment becomes abusive. However, when people try to take away all rights to not let the parents punish their child, it causes much more problems. the affluenca boy comes to mind. not all punishments are abuse, not all spanking is abuse. some kids do not respond to non spanking punishments and if people give in to that, the they are being negligence with parenting. it has gotten to the point that even standing in the corner is considered abuse for some people because you might cause the child to become embarrassed, i mean i think that is a good example of going over board. kids needs disaplain. they are not mentally mature as children to be able to make their own rules and that is what many children and mature adults think should happen.that is why we have so many adults not that believe in no accountability.
i don't believe that, most of our founding fathers were very intelligent and most of them i am willing to bet had corple punishment, and i did not saying that all forms of spanking is abuse, am saying that you can spank your child and it is not necessarily abuse. i never said that if somebody objects to spanking that they also objects to other kinds of punishment, i said most other kinds of punishment does not always work and that many people see those kinds as abuse, too. and that children need some kind of punishment as apposed to no punishments at all and that is where many families are, and why their are so many delinquents around the country right now.
I believe children learn from discipline. I was spanked. One should never discipline a child when angry, or use any thing to strike them. The bare hand on the bottom is sufficiiennt.
Both parents need to support each other and jointly decide on the punishment. Older children recognize loss of privileges as more hurtful than spanking.GL
Brother John there are many other punishment that the bible talks about. but the one you refer to is the exact reason Jesus had to come, to teach other ways. And that is the exact ways that the muslims still want to hold on to. When Jesus was disobedient towards his mother when his parents went looking for him, his father gave him a stern look and he know he was busted but not all children a Jesus and most are not that perceptive. But then he was always more perceptive and maybe even telepathic as he got older it was more obvious. but the point is, as a youngster even he needed a father to keep him corrected when it was necessary. He did not realize the danger he was in and i think when he grew up he did not realize it either and that is why he stayed in areas of peril. because he stuck around many places until it got dangerous and then he left, but then as it came close to the day of reckoning he walked right into the lions den. he probably thought he could handle it, but that was another issue.
fist if all if you want me to respond, you need to keep the links open for me to, i should not have to search to find a way to respond to your comments, secondly, i note the comments you made about the ten commandments, and these are good commandments, bu ti really don't see what they have to do with the issue we were talking about. as corral punishment, ie spanking is not torturing.
I worked in childcare for over twenty five years and have children of my own. To answer the question of spanking you first have to ask what the purpose of spanking is. Is it punishment, a deterrent to end a behavior?
The same is true with spanking. To my mind, use spanking to get a child's attention in order to stop a behavior is not a bad thing, as long as you're not really hurting the child and it's not used as a punishment. However, if all you do is spank a child for behaviors, they're going to build up a tolerance to it and eventually ignore the real purpose behind the spanking.
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