i answer my self
need datastoreClient.int(_id)
let query = datastoreClient.createQuery(keyName)
.hasAncestor(datastoreClient.key([keyName, datastoreClient.int(_id)]))
Rather than doing a query, you should do a direct get on the entity.
var key = datastoreClient.key(['item', datastore.int('123124124234221')]);
datastoreClient.get(key, function(err, entity) {
console.log(err || entity);
});