Sex Tips

[ubani]

Note on Sexic, Sexiness, Personality of Sexy, and Sex Therapy.
Going into marriage is as easy; It is vital in self acceptance, self
love/compassion, acceptance, in groups and relationship and during open
communication and interactions. There are few tips to note.
There is a stimuli in our response towards the other (man, woman, male,
female) and attracts our sexual drive in secretion of bio-chemical,
neuro-chemicals and hormones for stimulation and release of sexual
energy and drive. The use of the five(5) senses ; Seeing, Hearing,
Touch, Smell and Taste is a composite of the body, physiology, mana and
mind, also is the heat exchange, (energy), temperature, electro-magnetic
bond field, electro-chemical contact reaction in aura of aether body and
exchange in etheric world, light of reflection and refraction (seeing).
Holistically this stimulation is done by arousing the moon center of the
body : sensitive and pleasure spots in the body; ajna (third eye
(intuition or instincts) or mind eye and heart chakra or opening
chakras;(Root, Sacral, Solar Plexus(Navel), Heart Throat, Third Eye and
Crown), eyes, neck, upper and lower back, lips, earlobes, nipples,
breast, vulva, vagina, penis and scrotum, anal orifice (anus), anal
sphincter, G-spot, Play pleasure spots, perineum, perineal-raphe,
phallic of the navel, calf of the legs, feet and toes, arm, hand and
fingers; others include, aura scents, influence, sexual intelligence
(sapio sexuality), wishes and dream fantasy, reasoning, character and
behavior, psychic arousal of flirts, tease, erotic hypnotics of mind
illusion, hypnotizing dilating pupil in hypnotizing and seduction in
winking blink of erecting eye lid and eye lashes, and using your chi
energy in circulating transfer of raising the chi energy level,
allowing chi energy flow through the eye lid, and erecting the eye
lashes, and stimulating the sexual energy or blues of heart chakra, and
life force (chi) or as goose-bumps, light(sexual) or heat(hypnotizing
hypnotic seduction) transfer to create lust, desire, passion, rejection,
and intimacy during hypnotizing hypnosis, the pupil and the iris of the
eyes allows light to pass through into the retina as accommodation which
helps in look and view, sighting and vision for dim, dark and bright
reflection and for mind eyes and vision or visualization, also eyes are
the door to your soul, It tells your emotions, feeling, shows desire.
When in erotic seduction and hypnotics’ hypnosis, the eyes can tell
shame, guilt, pain and pleasure. Ability to read the eyes and its
emotions help understand how to persuade, please, be an object of desire
and subject for lust. The pupils and iris are the main part of the eyes
which aid in hypnotics, once you begin to get in touch with someone; the
iris moves its dilator muscles to dilate the pupil, use this to take
away attention for few second and change a reaction to see, master the
art of seducing with the eyes will begin persuade and appeal to someone.
In eyes techniques, use the general spiral hypnosis, clockwise and
anticlockwise for dilating pupil in hypnotizing and seduction, and the
winking blink of erecting eye lid and lashes. The eye lid and lashes
signal lust, desire and enchantment. Erecting your eye lashes and
Dilating eye is done in this manner; use chi energy and transfer chi
energy to the eyes, allow this flow through the eye lid, use chi energy
to create lust, desire, passion, rejection, intimacy, the chi energy
erects eyelashes and therefore letting you begin hypnosis. This is
effective and useful for people with attraction disorder and in
awakening of the mind eyes, opening the awareness of the heart chakra,
and visualization or ajna. Response to stimulation is also applicable in
expressive or artistic presentation of accessorizing and adorning
sexiness of beauty and sexy of seduction in fashion, clothes, shoes,
accessorizing livelihood and lifestyle of culture or customs, fetish,
preference, attitude and belief in unique sexology/sexological,
(biologic and psyche-logic) and neurological sexic pattern, style, in
attracting, seducing, enticing the psychical arousal and invoking the
Gods and Goddess in stimulating the sexual energy in an African context
of aphrodisiac and in erotic context of body worship of body size, shape
and physique, body posture, and sexual activity, cognitive styles and
pattern of habits and behavior in sexual preference, sexual position,
kama-sutra, during penetrative and non penetrative sexual intercourse
and during fertilization, moment of conception, and pregnancy conception
in conceiving in childbearing and childbirth.
Open mindedness, and trying new things are ways to keep relationship and
marriage afloat and alive. In a relationship where you expect your
partner to be committed to you but it end up being boring there are ways
to grant Sex passes either exclusively to you or other partner or to
both in these areas or in ambivalence of saying I am sexy and exclusive,
and not this moment may I be in conjugal with thee.
Communication is essential in ostensive, and inferential communication
or open communication, of assertiveness, interpersonal, passive and
mindful. Body language and gesture communication should also be open and
ostensible in oral, vocal, and taking notice or sessions, writing and in
text keeping a diary or profile; hindsight and reflection, either sms,
text, email profile, bio-data, or informational and media content, such
as images, videos, letters and scripts, or inter-personal; the content
of message matters from simple " Hello there, I think your phone tells
me I need you as I am draining like a battery " Flattery message,
flirts, tease are the seductive method.
Note that keeping the sex drive and being sexually active and alive as
man or woman or gendered (trans-gender and inter-sex, bi-gender,
cis-gender and archetype of sex-orientation; same-sex orientation and
asexuality or sapio-sexuality) is an instinctive drive in our daily
living, existence, heritage and being. The following are important to note;
Body is in physique of anatomy in ambient consciousness in an expressive
artistic and aesthetic manner in a balanced interaction and elasticity
with the psyche and body (psycho-somatic), and in theory of deep social
mind of theatrical mind, thy self and self concept and business concept.
The body is a temple of worship, a worship of sex and sexuality,
everything sexuality, sexic, sexy and sexiness style in curl,
rectilinear motion, curvilinear and angular motion, locomotion, kinetics
and kinetic movement of general motion and movement of erotizing and
hypnotizer hypnotizing hypnosis of psyche-somatic consciousness, mana
and mind theatre of theory of deep social mind in self and relationship,
role play and body worship, and in heart-math in experiencing manna,
bathing and bathe, showering and cleansing, brushing the teeth, cleaning
the gum, and having a cleansed breathe, swimming and floating, active
libido and healthy sex drive, mana and happiness, ecstasy, dancing or
seducing and enticing in swirl, glowing the skin, flexing and stretching
the muscles, or having a sexy personality of muscular masculine man and
feminine woman, celestial bliss, sex position, sex posture, sexic
pattern and sexiness style, kama-sutra, lust, excitement and climax
(orgasm and ejaculation) of the psychosexual centers or chakras; anal,
oral, genital, phallic and libido active during penetrative and
non-penetrative sexual intercourse in your marriage and sexual live and
living.
It is important to know the norms, values, belief and attitude of your
partner.
1) Sharing; You and I, Me and You, Thy and thine, will sharing most of
your activities with this individual, Man, woman or same sex
partnership. Coping skills are needed.
2) Clock and time: We have our distinct biological clock called the time
temple, entering into marriage also gives awareness that your clock and
time will also have effect on your marriage and relationship, sexuality
and sexual orientation.
3) Check- in on circadian circle for male and female (ovulation: release
of eggs from ovary through the fallopian tube, and menstrual circle), in
girls aided by the function of pineal gland and secretion and regulation
of luteinizing hormone in fertility and production and
secretion(excretion) of melatonin, (a serotonin hormone) for sleep
pattern (Male/Female) and nocturnal emission or wet dreams secreted by
the emission of semen aided by secretion of the pituitary gland in
boys/men (also responsible for Sleep, dream and wake pattern in
subconscious effect and effert; that is, (i.e), Rapid Eye Movement
pattern for sleep, dream and waking), the awakening of the moon centers,
seasonal circle of sleep and wake, and the earth rotation for day, night
into the weekly and moon circle of the month and year of the
astronomical, astrological, zodiac and horoscope of our sign and system.
4) Sign and system: Our sign, birth sign, system are also vital in
relationship and marriage, Know how's and awareness of your peak and
climax days or season and how to be compatible with your partner is also
vital. It is important to exercise, keeping diary and taking note or
notice or reading from a book or a tabula and electronic device, burning
oil, gel and incense, oil and wax, paraffin, petroleum jelly, perfume,
butter and crème, or general archeology and genealogy, archetype and
philology and session of meditation, acts, letters, images and symbols
of/for in subjective heart-math of intuition and telepathy, or use the
gym and fitness, steam and sauna etc.
5) Acceptance and Awareness: Acceptance and self awareness, affirmation
and reconsolidation, mindfulness practice, meditation and
Neuro-linguistic Programming, self hypnosis and hypnotics and, or in,
and in objective subjective inter-communication and inter-subjectivity
of the inter-psychical and intra-psychical experience of heart-math in
open-mindedness of self-concept and business concept of personality,
archetypes, agreement, service influence, office and diagnostics space,
and pricing and appropriation is needed to combat stress, anxiety, and
conflict or argument talking and speaking, and giving a speech, or in
having an opinion and, in a walk-in surrounding or being carefree and
congratulatory or satisfactory in excellence. It means you can alternate
other ways to keep the Sex drive active such as psychic seduction,
circulatory transfer of raising the flow of chi energy (life force or
sexual energy) across the body, tantric/tantra, recki, erotic
hypnotizing hypnotics in subjective and objective hypnosis, jelking,
masturbation, psychic and quantum sex, anal sex, sup soup, drinking
water, plant, fruits, and herb extract, yoga, exercise or psychic Sex
and non penetrative sexual pleasure, climax, orgasm and ejaculation.
Finally, if sexless marriage is not as a result of deviancy, poor self
concept, poor business concept, behavior and poor ego development,
dialogue, illusion and delusion, conflict, bias, ambivalence, shame,
guilt, psychosis, neurosis, or neurotic, attraction and disapproval,
objectification and molestation, obsession, sexual illness and abuse,
dysfunction of disorder, then the couple should go out often, role play,
cross dress, set up play dates for themselves, have romantic getaway,
travel or participate in a cause, charity etc.
6) Sexual activities should be in sexic style and in sexiness of
sexuality pattern of your mind, body and in etheric and universal and
multiversal consciousness to spice up your marriage and sex,
childbearing, childbirth and parenting, drinking and eating balanced
diets, chewing and eating, suckle and sup soup, herbs, grains, garden,
leaf/leaves and vegetables, pepper and salt, zeolite powder or ash soda
or potassium limestone, nuts and wild plants and wood, fruits and soups,
snacks and chocolates or sweets and lollypops, with, personality and of
sexy, role play, personality and identity, archetypes and fantasy,
bathing and steaming, drinking water, travel and entertainment to get
for the heavenly bliss of manna and of celestial mana is cleansing that
is required in bonding for marriage, these cleansing; include : body
cleansing, aura cleansing, ambivalence, embalming and embalmment,
vanishing, banishing, or exorcism and lastly necromancy and in
post-humorous.
It is vital to accept terms of a seamless marriage; most times the best
is to keep attractions among the couple, as to remain a couple and in
marriage. Secondly, ways in channeling and keeping the Sex drive and ID,
heart chakra, for Sex live to be alive and active, and having a healthy
self awareness of self-concept and business concept and Being in a
sexless marriage doesn't account for poor self concept and poor business
concept, degeneration and maladaptive of the cerebellum, low libido of
the sexual drive in the psychosexual center.
Ways to keep the psychosexual centers are:
1) Fore Play and Role plays : are other ways to spice up relationship
and give sec passes these are in fore-play of kissing, rubbing,
cuddling, eating, and sensual exchange of fetishes, role plays with
hired, friends or with lover. You and your partner can pick up roles and
specified sexual preferences such as a role of a hot nasty or naughty
nurse, a hot plumber, sexy school girl or girl next door etc which ever
role or fetishes can be granted or permitted as Sex pass
2) Kinky or hard-core Sex: Kinky or hard-core sexual preference can be
regarded as Sex pass be it in sexual position, styles or in BDSM
fetishes. This can be done with your partner, or hire or an expert as in
sexology, a professional Sex partner, hooker, stripper, escort,
sexological body worker (genital [vagina, penis and anus] sex massage),
masseuse of sexual or sensual touch or wrestler/performer or, sex and
cultural coach, or a Sex worker, psycho-therapist, psycho-social
counselor and sex therapist.
3) Audio visual or pictorials: these are nude pictures, porn, porn
actors or Sex educational and instructional videos, audios, or content.
Most couple have videos of themselves or, and with others as a reminder
of how they value Their Sex lives and create memories of great sexual
experience. This should not be under influence of super ego (society or
what other may think, conclude or react) and ego situation (shame,
anxiety, paranoia, guilt, neurosis) of possession and commercial of
images, videos and audio under context of pornography. Note that
sexuality is sexual liberty and individual values of individuality and
does not have any form of ethics, rules and governing regulation of
possession of nudity as we all the nudity of our anatomy and structure
and appreciating such nudity in aesthetics expression of being, cannot
be regarded as immoral or unethical. Maturity, Adulthood and emotional
intelligence is embraced.
4) Auditory seduction and hypnotizing Hypnotics: Auditory seductions are
ways to develop Sexual chemistry using words, sound, or accent
(phonetics) and intonation, speech, linguistic style, vocalization and
vocalize, talking and listening to generate sound and imagination for
visualization and an ambient environment of influence and perception for
realism. In auditory hypnosis and hypnotizing, the ear helps to convey
your voice/ sound into the brain and decode these sounds into feeling as
heard ostensible. Therefore, having a whisper is always enchanting, and
hypnotizing, a whisper with a dangle of the earlobes and loops will get
the subject for desire into pleasure. When you start talking you can
attract the Sexual excitement by using auditory seduction. Slow, deep
sensual style and pattern voice of communication can deepen the Sexual
chemistry. Using your lips, tongue, tone and pitch for ladies develop
Sexual chemistry.
Touch: touch is another method of developing Sexual chemistry in areas
like communication, subjective or phenomenal feelings. Touch on skin,
hand, neck or a romantic touch over dinner, taking a walk or any texture
and layer etc.
Hypnosis, visual and visualization of/and eye gaze: the eye is known to
be the door to the soul. The kind of gaze, look, and view send the right
message. Dilating eyes, melancholic gaze are ways to build Sexual
chemistry or hypnotizing hypnotic eroticism and hypnosis.
5) Threesomes or group Sex (poly affairs or poly relationship and
marriage [poly Amory]): These are other ways to spice up your marriage
and sex lives. This is done either hired or as a poly couples. Mostly
for polygamous, polyandry and poly-amory, Communication is needed to
entice all party to be one conjugal or sexual practice. Threesome or
poly affairs should be taken to consideration in case of cleaning the
body, the environment, having a healthy life or staying healthy. In
threesome or poly affairs, the sexual chemistry is diffused and
patterned among all parties, therefore be in sync with your theatrical
mind and psyche-somatic of mind, mana and body, apply self-love and
self-acceptance and self defense so as to keep the sex drive and
psycho-sexual and moon centers alive and awake and not to annoy or
distract the others and diminish the sexual chemistry flowing but to
climax, rapture, organism and ejaculation. Alternatively these can be
done with a hired stripper, escort, dating experts, porn actors, social
and cultural sex coach, massage therapist, Sex worker, counselor,
sexological body worker, pole dancer or a hooked. Or an old or ex lover
crush or sex partner
Among the most effective ways to rejuvenate our body is;
1) Cleaning and cleansing. The ritualistic practice of bathing and baths
have been passed unto us from generations to generations, There have
been several baths and bathing techniques, whichever one you use it is
important to always bath and bathe those areas that are mostly
invincible and are more sensitive to our body ornament. Once not taking
care of these areas changes from ornament to odour (smell) these are
under arms, armpits, waistlines, butt and anal lines, earlobes, under
genitals and genital, foot(between toes and under foot). These areas are
sensitive and limited to air, thereby our dermatological metabolic
process are affected in these regions. Body odor, bacteria and fungi
infections are incubated in these regions and if not taken care of
before and after diagnosis can be incurable in the case of body odour
and fungus infection. Use soaps, oils, gel and incense, oil and wax,
paraffin, petroleum jelly, perfume, salts in bathing. Sometimes natural
remedies like crystal salts, lime and lemon bath, essential floral such
as sage, thyme, clay and soils helps to remove those layers on your skin
allowing porous flow of air into the skin and out through sweats, and
heating.
2) Dental , oral and nails care : Over the years these regions have been
regarded as quickie, I wake up ,jump to the bathroom and brush quickly
for work, other time, “ I will cut my nails when I see a nail cutter
reminding through calling and you quickly buy a razor blade or use a
nail cutter to cut your nails”. The nail is very powerful and among the
most essential beauty of our physiology. It adds beauty to our toes,
fingers as tooth add to our mouth. The best ways is to care for nails
is cut twice a month, use essential oils, methylated spirit to clean
the surface from dirt, cortex, nail polish making our nails cleans,
smooth and sparkling. Use Pedicure and manicure in cleaning hand and
foot nails. For our dental care, the use of toothpicks, dental floss is
very important. It helps to remove those food microorganisms that might
cause decay and odour. Brush twice a day is a dentist recommendation to
cleaning the teeth. Have oral thrush once a while, use mouthwash in
cleaning during oral thrush and cleansing, you can also use natural
remedies for dental cleaning and mouth wash.
3) Hair care: The hair is a natural beauty in our physiology, due to our
individual belief system, lifestyle preference you can choose to keep a
short, long hair and bald hair. These preferences all collide in how you
groom your hair. For men with short hair, applying oils, gel, and
incense, oil and wax, paraffin, petroleum jelly, perfume, hair crème,
combs, brush and hair texturizers ( moisturizer ) will help keep the
hair soft, smooth, decent and improve the hair growth. For women, hair
sprays, moisturizer, crème, brush, combs, relaxer, braiding, styling,
etc is an essential responsibility in keeping your hair healthy, full
and rejuvenating. Use the best product, brands or your own natural
remedies in rejuvenating your hair.

Ways to rejuvenate your Mind and Mental physiology.
1) Breathing Exercise: Breathing exercise are very useful in circulating
body homeostatic and blood flow. It is also an exercise for your nasal,
lungs, nerve and neurology and stomach or torso (six parks, or abs).
When you engage in breathing exercise it allows flow of oxygen and
carbon dioxide in your respiratory system thereby relieving you from air
blockage, cold and even spread your body heating and temperature.
Breathing exercise also help in reducing stress, hysteria and emotional
imbalance in women and men. This allows the nervous system to rejuvenate
circulation and release hormone and biochemical from the brain. The
lung, heart and nasal region also function well during breathing
exercise from good pumping, airflow, release and extraction, letting
your muscles and other organ rejuvenate and become in sync.
2) Physical exercise: physical exercise is also essential; they help in
building metabolism and developing a good physic. Good physical exercise
helps the heart, lungs, blood circulation, bone and muscles. They also
help to release minerals, biochemicals which are agent in body building
processes. Physical exercises also help in fitness, stress, emotional
and psychological disturbances and are quick remedies to this. Running,
cycling, jogging, walking/strolling, aerobics, dancing are examples of
physical exercise.
3) Mental exercise: Mental exercises are exercise that helps to relax
the mind, keeping it calm and fully functioning, stress free. Most
people regard this as spirituality etc but it is for nourishing our
mental and cognitive capabilities and abilities. Board games, like Ludo,
Whot, chess, monopoly, scrabbles etc are effective mental exercise.
Video and computer games although addictive are also mental exercise.
Meditation, Chant, Music, Prayer, Mental/Astral projection, Drama and
Adorations are also mental exercise that keep in check your mental
abilities, rejuvenating and developing your mental space and sphere.
4) Social activities. Social activities are very essential in aging and
sustaining ourselves. In fact, happiness, sharing, and acceptance help
to keep the mind, brain and body healthy. When we interact we get
acceptance, validation and a sense of belonging which helps our mind and
brain to function well as these processes allows the release of
neuro-bio-chemicals and bio chemical in our physiology. Joining a club,
spiritual or religion group, society or co-operation can help in
rejuvenating and sustaining our metabolism, for those with
individualistic philosophical belief going to library, sport club, spas
and wellness centers will help in building social impact and social
sustenance.
5) Wellness and Wellbeing Practices: Wellness and Wellbeing practices
have over time been the most effective ways to rejuvenate the body, and
mind. These practices span from spa, massage, gym, holistic healing,
tantra/tantric, meditation, chants and drama. These have been overtime
accepted as modern practices in gym, aerobics, massage, spa, holistic
healing, physiotherapy etc. Having a spa bath in sauna, steam bath etc
is a traditional way of cleaning and cleansing the body and mind.
Holistic healing with herbs, teas and drinks are other ways to reduce
stress and rejuvenate the body. Massage and physiotherapy are other ways
to reduce stress, heal the bones etc. Gym is essential in physical,
mental fitness and body building
Among these are other ways in rejuvenating. It is essential to take this
in the morning, late evening or before and after sex. To wrap it all,
there are natural remedies in fruits, leaves, nuts, and seeds, spices
and leaves, herbs, meat and fish or sea food that heal and rejuvenate
the body, either through detox, skin exfoliation, body building and
rejuvenation.
Below are 13 of these remedies that aid in body rejuvenation
1) Lemon: Lemon is high in acidic chemical good for calcification, detox
and cleansing of the body internally and externally. Oil extracted for
lemon zest is good for cooking, cleaning and cures body odor.
2) Lime: Lime is another detox citrus, it is acidic chemicals that help
in calcification, detox and cleansing. Women who take lime often, get in
shape and fitness.
3) Cucumber is high in fibre and helps in cleansing of the stomach. It
is also good to relax the body that why it is use in spa for facials and
body exfoliation.
4) Cocoa is high in protein and in minerals. It helps the brain to relax
and ease stress and neural tension, heighten your awareness which help
the mind and heart to relax. That is low in cholesterol and in sodium.
5) Banana is high in serotonin which helps to improve mood. Serotonin
also helps the brain to balance chemicals and aid sleep after a heavy
work that is why most times muscle builder take banana after work out.
Also high in creatine. Best to take as a shake or bite of banana before
any physical exercise to help in releasing body building minerals.
6) Ashwake / Ashwaghandi is bark and herb stem. It is for men only,
women can take Ashwake but in minimal quantity. Ashwake is good for
mind, stress and depression, erectile dysfunction, mood balance, a good
detox for stomach and body and helps build to testosterone.
7) Lettuce is a garden vegetable plant. High in fibre, Low calorie, has
omega 3 fatty acid. If you don’t like fish that much, eating, lettuce
can help with omega 3 which is good for the eyes and heart.
8) Spinach is another garden vegetable plant. It high in protein,
nutrient and for those who wants to take plant physical fitness
supplement, consider spinach it has steroidal metabolism for muscle and
body building also high in fibre.
9) Strawberries are beautiful and for romantic symbols they are also
high in nutrient they are high in fibre, antioxidants that means good
for the heart, mind. They are also high in carbs that means they help in
gaining muscles and body building.
10) Berries are generally good in blood circulation that it
antioxidants, they also good in cooking, adding taste, pleasure to the
tongue, some berries are high in carbohydrates, good for body building.
Berries are rich in vitamins for body rejuvenations and sustainability.
11) Meat, Fish and Sea Food: Meat from poultry or butchery either
barbeque, beef, bacon, ham, pork, chicken, lamb, ox, or; and edible
animal, garden plant vegetable soy meat, fish and sea food such as
prawn, crab, mussel, oyster, octopus etc are high in protein, minerals
and in OMEGA 3 Fatty acid. Good for regain energy, body building etc.
12) Tuber, Roots, Grain and hays: Tuber crops such as Yam, Cassava,
potatoes, cocoyam, garlic, onion sprout, ginseng, ginger, cabbage and
broccoli, and butternut, arrowroots, are high in carbohydrate, very
essential for body building, sexual stamina and mana, strength and
energy, Grain such as rice, wheat, bay, millet, beans, sorghum, malt,
bambara nut, maize, are ways to rejuvenate the body, for regain lost
strength, body building.
13) Water: Water of all is for rejuvenation; avoid dehydration
especially before sex and after sex. Drink water, juice, shakes or any
drinkable liquid, brew and juice of cocktail and ice-cream or raw
vegetable, garden and fruit, tuber and grain extracts or molecular
mixology (molecular gastronomy, spherification and foam techniques).
Supplements like Muscle supplement, Human Growth Hormone (HGH)
supplement, Neuromuscular supplement, anabolic and hyperbolic
supplements, etc, are essential in recreational drink and should be
taken before and after sex or exercise. Drink plenty of water or fruit
juice and cocktail (wine, brew or shakes).
Holistic and Traditional and cultural ways in keeping the sex drive
active is;
Traditional and erotic body worship and invoking of African and Greek,
Egyptian, Arab and Persian, Dutch and Celtic, German and Oriental, Igbo
and Atlantis, sexual Gods and Goddess; Golem, Erzuli, Ayizan, and
Aphrodite, incubus and succubus, Guédé, Dambalo-Wedo, Ogre and Sodumie,
cupid and erotes, and Aida-Wedo, in a pre-marital cleansing ritual, in
sensual and erotic play, reiki, massage, of sexic in sexiness, and mana
of body and sexual magick, and psychoanalysis, inclusive of sensual and
erotic aphrodisiac body touch and massage, sensual and sexual wrestling
or taking a path or marriage.

[Kenny]

Nice article! One thing I've always believed is that you should be yourself, and, to a reasonable point, open to new experiences. Don't try to be what you think others want you to be. And don't change. When ever I've been in a position where I've sought a new partner, with me, it's been, "What you see is what you get". Yes, I'm quirky, always have been, and most likely always will be, and I freely admit it. My quirkiness often resulted in a lot of hot experiences, and a couple that turned bad very quickly. There are certain things I like, and am really open to new stuff. To a point! Too, what I've found through my years of experience is this, you just might be surprized to learn what you're into, so is he! I will never forget the first time I ever engaged in sexual intercourse. I was only 13-years-old, but only a few months away from my 14th birthday. The boy of my affectionate desires and I were sitting alone together in his living room this one particularly warm afternoon. It was actually his 14th birthday! I was the one who brought up a rather controversial topic, that being the recent accidental death (as far as we all knew) of a classmate. The controversy was whether the boy had died accidentally or deliberately. (Long story that I won't get into.) Turned out, we both shared the same opinion! Next thing I knew, we were lying on his bed, him on top, me on the bottom, and we began making out. Then, off came our clothes! Next thing I'm lying on my stomach with him still on top. That was when I experienced the heavenly sensation of feeling his penis slowly sliding inside my ass for the first time! Once he was done doing me, I got to do him. Up to that point in my life, I had been struggling with my sexuality. That day, I embraced that I was certified Gay! I have never regretted my lifestyle ever!