Hi Joanne
Great to hear that cancer and chrons have been ruled out. Hopefully
some of the test results with give you a clear indication of the cause
of the IBS. Also grreat the Choloe did well on her fructose test,
definitely a good sign and hopefully she comes back negative ... even
if it were positive given how she did on the test it would likely mean
she has a very minor intolerance.
Not much new around here ... same ups and downs. Our great and
wonderful Matthew is no longer so great and wonderful ... back to his
unhappy self much to our disappointment. It started with a cold and
he has never cheered up since. I may take him in just to check if his
ears are infected since we had lots of fun with that last year. He
doesn't get the full fledged out ear infections but has more minor
ones and we never know whether it's the issue or not. I hate given
antibiotics if unnecessary, especially when last year they didn't
help. We were told if more infection that we'll have to have tubes
put in. He went through the summer without infections so we knwo
that's not the reason for his unhappiness ... but yet he was so happy
after we changed his formula that now we will be confused again
whether or not it's his ears or something else ... always something!!
At first he was still eating okay so we weren't too concerned and
figured he'd come around after a bit ... but now his eating is
declining again also ... not as bad as before (which was nothing) but
getting more challenging to get something in him. Considering he was
eating really well and is still eating better then he used to we were
very disappointed to find out he has not gained any weight in the past
two months ... leaves us a bit perplexed ... but I told myself I would
not concern myself with that unless he went another month without any
gain ... so I'm not worrying (haha). He looks healthy and still has
his big fat chubby legs ... so I really have no reason to worry.
Rebecca is a completely different struggle and we have given up on
fructose being her problem. She has a pretty relaxed diet right now
and it doesn't seem to make her any worse. It's always in the back of
our mind that we could be causing some of her problems by not being
stricter ... but we've done the strict thing without any improvement
so it seems ridiculous to keep at it when it's only stressing her out
b/c she has to be so cautions and is different then everyone else.
Since we now think stress/emotions are a big problem we don't want to
cause anymore stress then necessary. We are all enjoying the relaxed
diet. I still watch what i give her, but it seems really easy now
after the really strict diet. I guess it shows how we slowly adapt to
things. When she goes elsewhere I have to tell people the main things
to avoid and then I realize there are still a list of restrictions,
I'm just so used to it I don't even really think about it. We are
currently working our way through the system to get her into
counselling (this would be covered by the gov't and specialized for
kids ... versus paying someone ourselves) to see how much this is a
factor. I also managed to get her June GI consultation bumped up to
January ... although I'm starting to wonder how much of this is really
GI ... but at the same time want to make sure we've ruled out all GI
possibilities.
Anyways ... for nothing changed I sure babble enough.
Hope you're enjoying your summer down under ... it's been very cold
here (-15 most of the time lately) and we have had steady snow. There
is some joy to white winters and I do like them ... but not when this
cold ... and I'm starting to think I'm ready for spring ... which is
still a very long ways away :( So enjoy the warm weather for me!!
Steph